31/10/2025
It’s My Child’s Open Day, What Should I Ask?
Many parents see Open Day as just “come, check results, and go.”
But it’s really more than that, it’s your opportunity to understand your child through the teacher’s eyes.
When you sit down with the teacher, take time to go through your child’s books.
Look at the notes, exercises, and corrections, they tell you far more than a report card ever could.
Here’s how to make the most of it 👇🏾
1. As you check the books, ask questions.
👉 “Does my child complete classwork and homework consistently?”
👉 “Do they pay attention to corrections?”
2. Ask about learning habits, not just their scores
👉 “How does my child participate in class?”
👉 “What subjects or activities do they enjoy the most?”
3. Ask how you can help from home.
👉 “What’s one small thing I can do at home to help them improve?”
4. Ask about character and confidence.
👉 “How does my child relate with others?”
👉 “Do you see any areas where my child needs encouragement?”
5. Stay curious, not confrontational.
Remember, you and the teacher are teammates..
The goal is not to “defend” or “blame,” but to understand and support.
6. And don’t forget to say thank you.
A kind word to a teacher can make a hard week lighter.
Go with a listening heart.
You’ll leave with insight, encouragement, and maybe a little more appreciation for the people shaping your child’s world.
© Ayooluwa Oyebode
