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11/04/2026

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06/04/2026

My wife still masturbates after 35 minutes of penetrative s£×

My co-worker told me last week that he’s getting tired of his marriage because he finds his wife difficult to satisfy s£×ually.

After f0replay and about 35 minutes of pe*******on, she lies beside him and still masturbates.

He said he’s not really bothered about the act itself, but about how long she takes.

According to him, she continues for about 20 minutes even after they’ve had s£×.

I asked if they ever discussed s£× while they were dating, and he said that anytime he brought it up, she would ignore it and say it was a worldly matter.

But now that they’re married, he’s seeing a completely different side of her.

I told him not to consider divorce because of this—that he might just need to put in more effort in the bedroom.

But another colleague overheard us and said if it were him, he wouldn’t tolerate it at all.

Now it got me thinking, is this really a problem—or just a lack of understanding between two people who never had the right conversations before marriage?

Each time I offend my husband my punishment will be 3mnths of no intercòùřşé! Pls what shld I do?
16/03/2026

Each time I offend my husband my punishment will be 3mnths of no intercòùřşé! Pls what shld I do?

One day I was sitting in my office thinking deeply about my life. I realized that out of the 500k I earn every month, I ...
14/03/2026

One day I was sitting in my office thinking deeply about my life. I realized that out of the 500k I earn every month, I hardly save 100k. Almost all the money goes to my wife.

I told myself that if I am working this hard and spending almost everything on her, then that must be real love. I even sponsored her education up to Master’s degree level.

When I married her, she only had O-Level results, but I supported her to grow.

Then a question came to my mind:
Does she truly love me the way I love her?

That thought stayed in my head for a while. We had been married for five years, and I had never tried to test her love before.

So one day I decided to do a small test.

I typed some fake medical results and even created a fake hospital stamp so everything would look real.

When I got home, I showed the result to my wife. Immediately she started shouting.

She said:
“You have destr0yed your life! I used to warn you that the pain relief drugs you take are too much.”

I take pain relief sometimes because of stress from work and long traffic hours.

Then she said:
“Now see the result. You will face the consequences alone. I don’t have strength for this kind of pr0blem.”

I was shocked by her reaction.

She then advised me to contact my brother in the UK so I could travel there for better treatment.

While I was still pretending to think about what she said, she started calling my relatives.

She told them:
“Kola’s k!dneys are d@maged. It’s not my f@ult so nobody should blame the food I cook. I warned him many times about taking too many pain relief drugs like paracetamol and Panadol.”

I stayed calm while she finished calling them. After that, many of my relatives started calling me, but I told them to relax and that I would explain later.

Then I knelt down in front of my wife and said:

“You were right that you warned me before. But right now I need a k!dney donor. Please donate one of your k!dneys for me.”

Immediately her voice became loud.

She said:
“Me ke??? What about your mother? Your father? Your siblings?”

I reminded her that we had been married for five years without a child, and doctors said the pr0blem was from her side. I told her that despite that, I still stood by her, supported her education, and paid for many medical treatments.

Then I begged again:
“Please help me donate a k!dney.”

She replied:

“Looking for a child and k!dney pr0blem are not the same thing. God that gave us two k!dneys knows why. I cannot do it. Call your family.”

Then she started calling my family members again.

But something happened that made me emotional.

My mother said she would donate one of her k!dneys.
My father also said he would donate one so that I could have two complete k!dneys.

That moment really touched my heart.

I then told everyone the truth — that it was only a prank test and I was not s!ck.

When my wife heard it was a prank, she started laughing and said she already knew and she was only pretending.

But honestly, I did not believe her.

I reminded her that she had stayed in my house for five years without a child, and despite spending so much money on medical treatment, I never insulted her, never pun!shed her, and never transferred aggression to her. Instead, I kept looking for solutions.

If she could not even consider helping me in such a serious situation, then it meant she did not truly love me.

So I asked her to leave my house and I filed for div0rce.

Many people tried to beg me and calm me down, but anytime I remembered how she reacted that day — no sympathy, no concern — my mind became stronger.

Right now she has moved out of my house, and our div0rce process will begin next month.

And someone will still say:
“Never love your mother more than your wife.”
Hmm… life will teach everyone their own lessons.





Barr. Wendy, please keep me anonymous. I need legal advice.Last year, I loaned a close friend ₦4,000,000. Since then, he...
11/03/2026

Barr. Wendy, please keep me anonymous. I need legal advice.Last year, I loaned a close friend ₦4,000,000. Since then, he has refused to pay me back, and the whole situation has badly damaged our friendship.

After several months of begging him, I eventually told him to just pay me ₦2,000,000 and forget the remaining ₦2,000,000 because he claimed he was facing serious financial difficulties. He then said the only amount he could raise was ₦1,500,000. At that point, I felt like I had no choice but to accept it, so I sent him my account details.

The next morning, I woke up, checked my bank account, and saw ₦15,000,000 credited to me.
At first, I thought my eyes were deceiving me. I kept staring at the screen in disbelief, but the money was really there ₦15 million.I grabbed my phone and noticed 53 missed calls from him and about 27 text messages. In the messages, he was begging me to please return ₦13,500,000, explaining that he mistakenly added an extra “0” and only intended to send ₦1,500,000.

Barrister, to be honest, a part of me feels like this is my revenge moment after everything he put me through. But I don’t want to get myself into any legal trouble.
Legally speaking, what am I supposed to do?

1. Send back ₦13,500,000
2. Take my full ₦4,000,000 and return the rest
3. Keep the entire ₦15,000,000
4. Switch off my phone and relocate 😅
Barrister, what would you do?

Almost lost your self Ke!you wey lost kpatakpata 🤲God abeg oooo.
05/03/2026

Almost lost your self Ke!

you wey lost kpatakpata 🤲

God abeg oooo.

I lost my husband at a very young age with three children. but what I didn’t loose was his family. they became my suppor...
03/03/2026

I lost my husband at a very young age with three children. but what I didn’t loose was his family. they became my support system. I never imagined My mother-in-law will stand by me like a pillar, she stayed with us for 6months after my husband passed. My husband's elder brother stepped in fully financially, he got us a better apartment and furnished it, moved my kids to a better school and paid their fees. And to top it all he opened a grocery shop for me to stand on my feet so I can continue taking care of my children. My sister-in-law is a very busy person but she never forgets to call and check on us. I am truly blessed with a rare kind of family. How can I ever repay them with this kind of love?

Ever since I got married to my husband I have been the one washing his clothes. After washing today's own I told him I w...
01/03/2026

Ever since I got married to my husband I have been the one washing his clothes. After washing today's own I told him I wouldn't be washing again that taking care of baby Excel and also doing my business is a very big work to me but he replied me that " it's my duty to wash his clothes".

I was like no it was my choice to wash ur clothes for you, but he insisted that it's the duty of every wife to wash her husband's clothes.So I want to ask you: have u been washing ur husband's clothes? is it ur choice or ur duty?

From my boxPlease, if this kind of post is allowed here, I need help. My heart has been heavy since I came back, and I g...
17/02/2026

From my box

Please, if this kind of post is allowed here, I need help. My heart has been heavy since I came back, and I genuinely want to understand something. Maybe I’m doing something wrong and I need correction.There’s someone I knew from church. We were close. Very cordial. I used to visit her, she visited me, we shared things, laughed together. If I needed help, she was someone I could run to. I beg her for clothes, shoes and she always gave, loan money from her, although i don’t have to return , i go to her house to eat, cook and clean I never thought twice about our friendship.
Then she got pregnant and everything changed.
Slowly at first. Then clearly.she would come to church and pretend not to see me. When I tried to talk to her, it was like I didn’t exist. I told myself maybe it was stress, pregnancy hormones, or life. I kept giving her grace.
When she delivered, I celebrated her openly. I rejoiced with her genuinely. She didn’t acknowledge it, but I let it slide. I’m not proud. I don’t keep malice. I always believe relationships can still be fixed.
On her child’s naming day, I went to celebrate her. At the gate, security said she told them she wasn’t expecting me. I was like wait what ? Hmmm, I eventually entered through someone else , i met a woman from my church that lives in that same estate , she carried me from gate to the house and from the moment she saw me, the bitternes was obvious.
I was questioned like a stranger. Asked for an invitation by bouncers , Treated like I didn’t belong until her husband noticed and intervened.

Even greeting her felt like an offence. Touching the baby was not allowed. The looks were sharp. The atmosphere was cold. I was surprised
When it was time to leave, I politely asked if I could take food home. I was told no. Then I asked for transport help because truly, I came with nothing. And she told me openly I was shameles for coming empty-handed, eating, and still asking for transport. I sw€ar i do not know how i wron

"Man Blocks Me Just for Telling Him to Ask Permission Before Calling" – Lady RantsA Nigerian lady has shared her surpris...
15/02/2026

"Man Blocks Me Just for Telling Him to Ask Permission Before Calling" – Lady Rants

A Nigerian lady has shared her surprising encounter with a man whom her mother introduced her to for a potential relationship.

According to her story, the man first saw her picture on her mother's phone, expressed interest, and asked the mother to connect them.

After the mother facilitated the introduction and gave him her contact, they exchanged a few messages. This soon led to both parties requesting each other's photos for better familiarity.

However, things took an unexpected turn the following morning when the man called her twice. When she finally answered, she firmly told him to always seek her permission before calling her in the future, as she values her personal boundaries and space.

Immediately after the conversation, the man blocked her on the platform and possibly on calls, ending their brief interaction abruptly.

Her post recounting the experience has gone viral and stirred mixed reactions online. Some people praised her for setting clear boundaries early and protecting her peace, while others cr¡t¡cized her for playing hard to get with someone introduced by family, arguing it might have scared off a potentially good match.

As seen on my DM"My wife met someone on Facebook, their thing is going on for weeks now.The guy is unemployed, as soon a...
11/02/2026

As seen on my DM

"My wife met someone on Facebook, their thing is going on for weeks now.The guy is unemployed, as soon as I leave for work they start chatting, she sends him airtime and money.last week she told me about her sick aunt and she needed money to send to her, it was a lie, she sent 25k to her guy. She told the guy that she is happy with me and she is doing this just for fun. They spoke about knack and they agreed to do it on their first date, the guy told my wife not to knack me for at least one week before the day because he wants her fresh, from last week she is telling me that she is not ok to sleep with me. They will meet on Thursday and she doesn't know that I am the new guy with a f@ke account...
please what should I do?

09/02/2026

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