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17/07/2025

😭💔 𝗠𝗬 𝗛𝗨𝗦𝗕𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗦𝗨𝗚𝗚𝗘𝗦𝗧𝗘𝗗 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗜𝗡𝗦𝗧𝗘𝗔𝗗 𝗢𝗙 𝗠𝗘 𝗥𝗘𝗤𝗨𝗘𝗦𝗧𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗔 𝗗!𝗩𝗢𝗥𝗖𝗘 𝗛𝗘 𝗪𝗜𝗟𝗟 𝗥𝗔𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗥 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗙𝗘𝗥 𝗜 𝗞𝗘𝗘𝗣 𝗦𝗘𝗘𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗠𝗬 𝗡𝗘𝗪 𝗟𝗢𝗩𝗘𝗥 𝗪𝗛𝗜𝗟𝗘 𝗦𝗧𝗜𝗟𝗟 𝗕𝗘𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗠𝗔𝗥𝗥𝗜𝗘𝗗 𝗧𝗢 𝗛𝗜𝗠 𝗪𝗛𝗜𝗖𝗛 𝗜 𝗔𝗖𝗖𝗘𝗣𝗧𝗘𝗗...𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗡 𝟯 𝗬𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗦 𝗟𝗔𝗧𝗘𝗥 𝗠𝗬 𝗕𝗢𝗬𝗙𝗥𝗜𝗘𝗡𝗗 𝗠𝗔𝗞𝗘 𝗔 𝗪𝗘𝗜𝗥𝗗 𝗦𝗨𝗚𝗚𝗘𝗦𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 𝗧𝗢 𝗠𝗬 𝗛𝗨𝗦𝗕𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗛𝗘 𝗔𝗚𝗥𝗘𝗘𝗗 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗡𝗢𝗪 𝗜'𝗠 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗚𝗡𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗕𝗨𝗧....💔😭

Good morning Beyond Boundaries

I am a 24-year-old woman, happily married, or at least thats how it seemed at first. For a while, I enjoyed my life with my husband, but then I met another young man who c@ught my heart.

This new feeling made me consider ending my marriage because I felt like my husband was not giving me the attention I craved and was seeing someone else. I thought this was a good reason to ask for a d!vorce.

I brought up the idea of divorce not just once, but twice, yet my husband refused to let me go.

Out of desperation and in search of clarity, I confessed to him about my feelings for this other man. To my surprise, he suggested something unexpected: what if I could be with both him and my boyfriend?

I didnt have to think twice. I accepted and decided to set aside the idea of a divorce.

For nearly three years, I managed to juggle both relationships. My week was split; I spent Monday to Friday with my husband and then would go to my boyfriends place every Friday afternoon, returning on Monday morning.

It seemed like a perfect arrangement until one day when my boyfriend wanted to meet my husband officially. I was a bit nervous but agreed because it was part of my unusual new life.

The day of the meeting came and my boyfriend made a shocking suggestion to my husband: what if we all shared a night together?

To my astonishment, my husband agreed. So there we were, all together in a rented apartment, thanks to my husband covering the bill for drinks and food, while my boyfriend took care of everything else.

But when we returned home, I noticed a change. My husband seemed distant, no longer desiring me as he once did. Even when I tried to be close to him, he showed little interest.

Now, I find myself in a complicated situation: I am pregnant, but I dont know whose child it is.

My husband?

My boyfriend?

I feel trapped because I can't talk to my husband about my pregnancy, and my boyfriend has become unreachable for a while now.

We're living far away from home, and I am seeking advice on what to do next.

To all the mothers and fathers who have faced something similar, your guidance would mean the world to me.

I apologize for the length of this message, but I truly need help.



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17/07/2025

If you don't want to be accountable, maybe being single is for you.

Life is not h@rd

17/07/2025

I started dating a guy three years ago. When we first met, he would sometimes jokingly say someone was pregnant, but later deny it. Two years into the relationship, I saw marriage preparations on his phone. He then confessed that his ex had given birth, and his family was forcing him to marry her otherwise, they wouldn’t name the child after him. He claimed the marriage wouldn’t last, so I ended things and moved on.

Now, I’m dating a new boyfriend, but he struggles to take care of me financially. When my rent was due, I asked him for just 500 GH₵ to help me secure a new place, but he refused, saying it wasn’t his responsibility. Around the same time, my ex called, paid for everything, and covered my new apartment’s rent. He still wants us back together. He even offered to divorce his wife, but I refused. Then he proposed making me his second wife instead.

The truth is, my ex is wealthy and can support both of us. He admitted he doesn’t love his wife and said that even if I reject him, he’ll eventually marry someone else he truly loves.

Meanwhile, my current boyfriend (who works at a government institute and earns well) suspects I’m cheating. He struggles to give me money, always complaining about not having enough. Sometimes I think he’s just stingy, but we do love each other deeply.

Now, I’m torn. I don’t want to make a decision I’ll regret later. Should I stay with my loving but financially unreliable boyfriend, or return to my ex, who can provide for me but comes with complications? Please, I need advice.

16/07/2025

Please post for me and hide my identity. I'm 28years and my man is 43years old. When we got pregnant, he asked me to move in with him so we could go through the journey together. I was living with a friend while working to save money to rent a place for myself. When he told me to move in, I was very delighted that he had agreed to do it with me.

Since I’d been here, I’ve supported the house in any way that I can. I cooked without asking for money. I paid for electricity and on top of that did all the domestic jobs around here. He was very good to me in every way.

We never f0ught or argued. He told me he was going to visit his parents in Apam and would come back in two days. He’s been gone for almost a month, and I haven’t heard from him. His phone has been off. I don’t know any of his family members or any friend I can ask about him.

To make matters worse, the landlord came here this morning to tell me our rent was due three months ago and he hadn’t made any effort to pay. The landlord hasn’t been able to reach him for a month, so I should move out in just one week.

This is making me feel the whole escape was intentional. Listening to the landlord, he had threatened him with eviction for months, and each month he begged him, and he extended it.

I’m four months along but don’t know how to carry on without him. My friend says I can return, which I’m very grateful for, but I’m confused why he would treat me this way. He should have talked to me about it. But he disappeared without a trace. Hmmm.

16/07/2025

I’m pregnant for my husband's friend who happens to be my ex. Few months ago my husband and I went to a party where we met with my husband's friend and he happens to be someone I've dated before. Mind you, I dated this guy before I ever met my husband, that is from 2013 to late 2014 when we broke up.

Then I met my husband in 2015, and we got married in November 2016. This man and I pretended not to know each other because my husband wouldn't have been happy knowing of our past. We just pretended it was our first time meeting and moved on. After that meeting, my ex searched and texted me on Facebook.

We exchanged contacts and started talking, we will talk at length especially when my husband isn't at home. My ex claimed to have missed me and had been searching for me. He said he badly wanted us back. He is still not married. He's 37 years old. I told him I wasn't' interested, especially now that I'm married to his friend and with kids, I can't give him a chance.

At first, he said okay, but later he kept pressuring me for just an outing with him till I finally agreed to meet him somewhere, lo and behold he managed to get me to lay with him. It was the first time I cheated on my husband. I felt bad and wished it had never happened. I texted him expressing my dislike of what had happened between us and asked him to stay away from me.
I don't know what happened, but it's like I get softer every other day because he came to beg me, and before I realised, we had had S**x again like 3 times. Though I felt sorry each day that passes, it's almost like I couldn't resist him. I kept seeing and he always touched me appropriately. As I am talking to you now,

l'm pregnant for him. My husband actually knows about the pregnancy, and he thinks it's his. We didn't want to have kids again, but hubby says I should keep this I really want to remove it and pretend this never happened I feel this child alone could ruin my home and reputation one day, but I don't know how. Advice pls

16/07/2025

I don't cook for him

16/07/2025

HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN MARRIAGE

15/07/2025

I am in my mid-30s dating this girl who is in her late 20s Since we started dating 2 years ago it has always been her throwing her wishes and demands on me. The funny thing is that whenever anything about money comes up, it creates tension between us. We keep telling each other to stop making money come between us and have even promised each other of this. I’ve been in and out of jobs for a while now and can’t say I’ve been financially stable but I’ve been trying hard to give her the best I could give even from my side business. The last time she asked me for money and I couldn’t give it at that instance she ended up being angry and not talking to me. Shortly after that day I got the money and sent it to her. Until now she has refused to acknowledge receipt of the money or even show appreciation. She has been acting as if I am the one who has offended her! Now she has sent me a message saying she’s truly sorry for her behavior towards me and that she knows she doesn’t deserve my love and that I should let go of her and move on. The thing is, I love her and just wish she would acknowledge her mistakes which she mostly finds too difficult to do. Don’t know whether to let go or hold on. I feel she will not change anyways. What should I do? Will be reading comments

14/07/2025

😭💔𝗠𝗬 𝗛𝗨𝗦𝗕𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗪𝗔𝗡𝗧𝗦 𝗧𝗢 𝗠𝗔𝗥𝗥𝗬 𝗔𝗡𝗢𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗥 𝗪𝗢𝗠𝗔𝗡 𝗔𝗙𝗧𝗘𝗥 𝗚𝗘𝗧𝗧𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗧𝗪𝗢 𝗪𝗢𝗠𝗘𝗡 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗚𝗡𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗙𝗔𝗠𝗜𝗟𝗬 𝗦𝗨𝗣𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗦 𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 𝗗𝗘𝗦𝗣𝗜𝗧𝗘 𝗠𝗬 𝗦𝗔𝗖𝗥𝗜𝗙𝗜𝗖𝗘𝗦 𝗗𝗨𝗥𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝟰 𝗬𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗦 𝗢𝗙 𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗧𝗛 𝗖𝗥𝗜𝗦𝗜𝗦 😭💔

Goodday Sir
I've been married for five long years, but there are no children in our house. After countless medical tests, the doctors say I am perfectly fine. The issue lies with my husband.

For four years, we traveled from one clinic to another, trying to find answers. It turned out he suffers from oligospermia and asthenozoospermia, which means he has issues with his s₱e₹m count and mobility.

But praise be to God, just last year, we finally received good news his test results came back normal! After so many tears, sleepless nights, and heartfelt prayers, I thought we could finally start our family.

However, the shock came when I learned that he has gotten two girls pregnant and is planning to marry another woman.

My heart is shattered.

For five years, I cried, lamented, and prayed for our dreams of having children. I fasted and begged God for healing, and now the very man I stood by through his suffering is ready to move on while I remain empty.

I can still hear the doctors telling me to be patient, that God's timing would come, but now I feel abandoned.

Even though he is healed, I am left heartbroken, and the pregnancy I long for still does not come. He seeks to marry another woman, and his family is supportive of this choice.

I sit here wondering, why is it that when a man is sick, his wife must bear the burden silently and wait?

Yet, if the roles were reversed, he could easily find another way to have children.

If you were in my shoes, what would you do?

Please, I need advice

14/07/2025

I overheard a lady say something that made me pause.
She said, That woman too love her husband, he go still serve her breakfast.
And I asked, Is loving your own partner now a crime?”

How did we get here where showing affection to your spouse is seen as foolishnezz?
Where loving your husband out loud is mocked like it’s weakness?
Where the world is so damagedd that kindness now looks suspicious?

Let me say this clearly, Loving your husband is not stupidityy,
🧡 I’ve seen good men. I’ve felt real love.

I make bold to say this, I don’t have a single male friend who mistreats his wife.
They love their women fiercely. They prioritize their homes.

A close friend of mine bought his wife a house worth 160 million, just to make her feel secure and valued.
Another sends me messages like, Mel, please help me get her hair, perfumes, a new dress, she deserves it.
And there’s one in Australia he doesn’t joke with his wife and kids. His family comes first, always.

These are real men. Loving men. Good men.
Men who understand that being soft toward their wives doesn’t make them weak it makes them kings.

🥺 I remember my own husband…

How he gave his all.How he would go the extra mile just to see me smile.
The way he protects, provides, prays, and prioritizes.
That kind of love leaves a mark on your soul.

So don’t let bitternezz blindd you.
Don’t let someone else’s heartbreak become your belief system.
All men are not the same.
You either marry your peace or your punishment choose wisely, and pray with discernment.

May you experience it so deeply that you’ll laugh at every time you doubted it existed.

Men Dey love ooo, forget social media

14/07/2025

14/07/2025

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