My Quotes And I

17/06/2025

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01/06/2025

My sister asked me, “Why do some men cry on their wedding day?”

I smiled and said, because men who cry aren’t weak, they’re the ones with the softest hearts.

These are the kind of men who love deeply, feel deeply, and aren’t afraid to show it.
I think, men who cry on their wedding day are often the ones who’ve carried silent prayers, weathered storms, and waited patiently for the one their soul longed for.

Their tears speak the words their mouths can’t say, “Thank you, God. I found her.”

Watching Ruby Orjiakor’s husband break down in tears on their wedding day wasn’t just emotional, was beautiful.
It was a reminder that strong men do cry, when their hearts are overflowing with gratitude and love.

Tears don’t make a man weak.
They show that he understands the weight of the moment, and the worth of the woman beside him. ❤️

I wish them happy married life and forever happiness together.

11/04/2025

08/04/2025

25/03/2025

All this anger was once love. 💔

My hurt slowly turns to anger,
a silent tempest raging within.
I scream internally,
words trapped in the prison of my mind.
No one will know the violence it took to be this gentle,
the battles fought in the silence of my heart.
All this anger was once love,
a flame that now flickers and fades.
As I watch myself bottle up everything,
each emotion a glass vial, sealed tight.
Frustration oozes out of my heart,
a toxic concoction mingling with my blood.
I try to be okay,
a facade painted over cracks in my soul.
But I desire the things which will destroy me in the end,
craving the poison that numbs the pain.
All the violence that brews inside me,
a storm waiting to unleash its fury.
I cannot fathom how I’m this gentle,
a contradiction born from chaos.
All this anger was once love,
a bittersweet memory etched in scars.
And I’ll never be the same again.

- Poem written by Safa.
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26/01/2025

WHAT HURTS A MAN

1. It hurts a man when his wife speaks to other people with more respect and warmth than she does with him

2. It hurts a man when his wife treats him well only when there are visitors

3. It hurts a man when his wife makes him feel less important to the children just because he doesn't have a womb

4. It hurts a man when he is always the one to say sorry even for the things he is not wrong for just because she is emotionally delicate

5. It hurts a man when the wife airs their dirty linen in public, telling her family and friends his flaws and tainting his image

6. It hurts a man when the wife is ever moody, unapproachable, cold and combative, making him feel uncomfortable to come home early

7. It hurts a man when he watches his wife smiling and blushing when she reads text messages from other men over the phone but brushes him off and assumes his presence

8. It hurts a man when the wife is distant, spiteful, not responsive to his touch, mad and not telling him what she is mad for

9. It hurts a man when the wife keeps getting confusing advice from her friends, outsiders and third parties are wrecking what belongs to two

10. It hurts a man when the wife sees nothing else but his negatives. She rarely appreciates his good

11. It hurts a man when the wife does not move past a resolved issue. She is stuck in matters that they agreed to progress from

12. It hurts a man when the wife speaks to him with a tone as if to boss him, order him around or belittle him

13. It hurts a man when the wife doesn't honour him or his effort just because he doesn't earn that much

14. It hurts a man when the wife uses him to get a comfortable life but then she turns to another man for emotional and sexual comfort.

Now, ask yourself as a woman, how will you feel if these things being in these shoes.
Let's help make the world a better place for men 🙏

25/01/2025

Celebrating my 5th year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

15/01/2025

24 PHONE USE RULES FOR COUPLES:

1. Don't make a habit of putting your phone on silent mode or turning it off each time you're with your partner. It makes you look like you are hiding something

2. Save your partner's phone number using a special title like "Hubby", "Love", "Wife", "Sweerie". Or save using a title plus the official name. Using the official name only makes your partner look like just the other contacts on your phone

3. Answer your partner's phone call with loving affectionate words like "Hi love", "Hey honey". How a conversation starts detetmines how it flows. If you start warm, you two will enjoy talking with each other on phone

4. End the talk on a high. Say "I love you", say a joke, a compliment, a warm phrase before you hang up. Hang up with a smile

5. It is OK to chat with friends online. But never chat with another person more than you chat with your partner

6. If you will be busy, notify your partner you will not be able to pick up calls or reply texts promptly. Inform your partner what you will be doing and approximately for how long. This prepares your partner and brings peace because your partner will not feel ignored

7. Flirting on phone is good but only flirt with your partner

8. Tell off people who try to flirt with you, entice you and charm you on phone. Let them know that you are taken

9. Take lots of photos and videos together to capture moments. You will need those pics and videos in future as you look back

10. When you go out on dates, keep the phone away, minimize phone use so that you focus on each other

11. Don't make a habit of walking away from your partner to answer phone calls. Your partner will perceive you are hiding something or having an affair. Love is about perception

12. After the date and you don't live together; man, call her up and check on her, tell her you got home safe; lady, send him a text, thanking him for a wonderful time

13. Unless it's an emergency, when you can't reach your partner and you probably know he/she is at work or doing something; don't keep calling and texting desperately. You will only look like a nag to your partner and that will make your partner detest phone contact with you. Relax, your partner will see your missed call and text

14. When you see a missed call or text from your partner, please call back or reply as soon as you can. Put your partner at ease

15. Save your partner's phone number as an emergency number to be contacted incase something happens to you and your phone is locked

16. Avoid fights and arguments over the phone, they are difficult to manage and leave a bad feeling when you hang up, thus negatively affecting how you two relate. Talk about serious issues that are volatile face to face

17. When your partner offends you or you two aggrevate each other, never refuse to pick up your partner's phone call. That only makes matters worse. Keep the line of communication open so that you work things out. If you can't talk at the moment you are hurting, just pick up the call and say "I can't talk right now" and your partner will understand

18. Inform your partner when and why you need to turn off your phone when you two are apart. Keep your partner from worrying

19. When you two are having fun together, it is good to celebrate your love online but don't post too much about your lovelife. Some things are best kept private. The world doesn't have to know every detail of how you love each other

20. When you two are having problems, don't vent about your partner directly or indirectly on your social media posts

21. Don't let your partner get news about you from social media like your online friends. Tell the news to your partner first, and then post online

22. If your partner tries calling you but your line is engaged, explain who you were talking to. If someones calls you when you're with your partner, say who it was. Transparency and clarity enhances trust

23. Remember it is both your role to communicate. None of you should feel he/she is forcing a conversation or is doing much of the talking. Communication takes two

24. Put away the phone when your partner needs your undivided attention, especially in the bedroom. Don't be intimate, holding your phone, more than you hold your partner

Phone use can affect your relationship/marriage negatively or positively. Be smart as you use your smart phone
Marriage Without Tears