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19/03/2022

Deception may be the most damaging aspect of infidelity. Deception and lies shatter the reality of o

26/12/2021

Your marriage should be Paradise on earth.
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02/01/2021

Sometimes individuals and couples can feel dissatisfied, unhappy and unfulfilled in their marriages/ relationships and be unsure as to what exactly is wrong

There are many factors that contribute to a satisfying marriage/relationship such as; Love, Commitment, Trust, Time, Attention, Good Communication including Listening , Partnership, Tolerance, Patience, Openness, Honesty, Respect, Sharing, Consideration, Generosity, Willingness/Ability to Compromise, Constructive management of Disagreements/Arguments, Willingness to see another’s viewpoint, Ability and Willingness to Forgive/Apologise, Fun. The list is simple and obvious yet it can be very difficult for individuals /couples to restore their marriage/relationship to a satisfying one when difficulties arise or when they drift apart.

There are many areas of closeness that can enhance a marriage/relationship, help it to remain strong and help it to get back on track when it has become distant/difficult. Sometimes couples feel that things are not right between them, they wonder what is wrong and what they can do?

The following four areas of closeness can help guide a couple in assessing how their relationship is and can also guide a couple in how to become closer and improve their relationship when difficulties arise, or when they have become distant from one another.

Areas of Closeness
Doing things Together Physical Closeness
Emotional Closeness Sexual Closeness

None of the four areas above are more important than each other but each can help another area to thrive and all together they can help a relationship become more satisfying, closer, more intimate

Doing Things Together
It is important that couples spend time together. With busy lives, many commitments and children to care for couples can find themselves with very little time for each other. Spending time together regularly, shopping, dining out, going to the cinema, walking, swimming,involvement

26/11/2020

*YOU BROKE IT YOUR SELF !!!*

The whole thing started from when you begin to smile at each other,He would shake you freely without restriction, hugg you to full distinction, then, the rest of the story is that you lost your virginity to Him under unimaginable condition and now that he's got someone else who could service him better, he left you to nurse your weak Emotions...

A man could promise you heavens and earth plus everything in Paradise just to have s*x with you. He could be as sweet as honey, as gentle as a Dove and perhaps more generous than Dangote, just to get hold of the keys to unlock your save zone. And once He's done with you, after you fell for his cat game, you join the list of the street Dogs He's got on his HardDrive ...

You have your self to blame!
Islam says don't move close, you ignore it for an enjoyment that can't stand the test of time. Your mother warned s*x could wait but you simply want to taste it, your father became a monster because he's always monitoring your movements and now that your "Madtrics" result is out, you are seemingly crying like a fire in the sun.

He broke your heart, as expected, but I think you broke it your self, deservedly!
Just as my friend would say; yeye dey smell for some people head

Heart break ko, Car break ni!
okini gbolohun1

03/11/2020

Marriage is a School where you get the Certificate before you start.
A school where you will never graduate,
A school without a break or a free period,
A school where no one is allowed to drop out,
A school which you will have to attend every day of your life,
A school where there is no sick leave or holidays.
A school founded by God:
1. On the foundation of love,
2.The walls are made out of trust,
3.The door made out of acceptance,
4.The windows made out of understanding
5.The furniture made out of blessings
6.The roof made out of faith

Before you forget, you are just a student not the principal, God is the Principal. Even in times of storms, don't be unwise and run outside, remember this school is the safest place to be.

Never go to sleep before completing your assignments for the day Never forget the C-word, Communicate, communicate, communicate to your classmate and to the Principal if you find out something in your classmate (spouse) that you do not appreciate. Remember your classmate is also just a student not a graduate, God is not finished with him/her yet. So take it as a challenge and work on it together.

Do not forget to study, study, study the Holy Book (the main textbook in this school), Start each day with a sacred assembly and end it the same way. Sometimes you will feel like not attending classes, yet you have to. When tempted to quit find courage and continue. Some tests and exams may be tough but remember the Principal knows how much you can bear. But still it is a school better than any other, it is one of the best schools on earth; joy, peace and happiness accompany each lessons of the day.

Different subjects are offered in this school, yet love is the major subject, After all the years of theorizing about it, now you have a chance to practice it. To be loved is a good thing, but to love is a greatest privilege of them all. Marriage is a place of love, so love your spouse...
From; OMOJARE ABDURRAHMON. OA
( OKINI GBOLOHUN)

27/10/2020

💍Marriage is full of sacrifices👌
My dear brother/sister if you can't pay any sacrifice pls don't go into marriage bcos marriage can only be comfortable when you are ready to pay sacrifice every secs.💖💍

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18/09/2020

MUST MARRIAGE LEADS TO DEATH?
Continuation!!!!
Once the people of this generation are not ready to follow the marriage "" OWNER'S MANUAL "" they should be preparing to face the consequences of their choices. Marriage is great and that has been our GOD'S intention to marriage if we wish to follow the ALMIGHTY'S instructions on setting up the institution. To my own opinion, Anything can not be fine without our CREATOR'S will. Marriage can't be blissful without GOD.
I do hear serious stories of frustration, disappointment, pain, regret in my almost six years of mediating/counseling on marital issues. The rate of marriage failure and violence is abysmally increasing with time. The sad touching truth is that religious homes are not excluded from the tales of woes which are common in today's marriages.
In the continuation of this write up, I will be looking at the cause of conflicts in marriage, how to manage conflicts and how to deal with violence and abuses in marriage. The write up will be for those whose choice is to obey our GOD, the creator of love and bond also willing to have a peaceful home.
The continuation will help young people who are intending to marry and the people who are already in their marriages.
I beg GOD to breath on the message and use it to bring joy and blessings back to homes and relationships.
To be continue...........
OMOJARE ABDURRAHMON.OA.
OKINI GBOLOHUN.

15/09/2020

MUST MARRIAGE LEAD TO DEATH?
presently, the rate at which married couples kill themselves is becoming frightening. Why should a journey that started with drumming and dancing lead to violence and untimely death? Why should '''I love you''' degenerate to '''I will kill yoi'''? How can husband or wife become abusive, violent, destructive and untamed? Why is it that, ''' you may now kiss the bride''' is fast becoming ''' you may now kill the bride'''? Is there any reason for divorce at all from any religion point of view especially when death is looming?
These are serious questions begging for sincere answers. These are serious issues from which we must not shy away. We must look critically and sincerely to the knotty issues relating to violence, abuse and divorce in marriage among our Brothers and sisters going into marriage or presently in union of marriage.
In today's world, marriage is fast losing its relevance: marriage is fast becoming a burden rather than blessings. Great lives and destinies are being ruined because of wrong marriages. Many people are suffering in silence ( especially women) as a result of failed marriages.
There is actually nothing wrong with marriage; all the troubles are with the people going into marriage. The youths of today, including religious ones, are ill-informed about marriage; they enter the institution carelessly and senselessly.
To be continue by God's grace.
OMOJARE ABDURRAHMON. OA.
OLORO OKINI GBOLOHUN.

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