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WHY HUSBANDS OFTEN DISRESPECT, ABUSE OR BEAT WIVESMentoring Masterclass by Dr. Bọ́lá AdéwaráIn this short video, we unco...
14/06/2025

WHY HUSBANDS OFTEN DISRESPECT, ABUSE OR BEAT WIVES
Mentoring Masterclass by Dr. Bọ́lá Adéwará
In this short video, we uncover the root causes behind these painful realities, things many people witness but rarely talk about honestly. If you care about healing homes and building better men, this is for you. Watch, reflect, and share. Let’s break the silence and start real change. Let's go there...

WHY HUSBANDS OFTEN DISRESPECT, ABUSE OR BEAT WIVESMentoring Masterclass by Dr. Bọ́lá AdéwaráIn this short video, we uncover the root causes behind these pain...

BEATING LONELINESS IN YOUR OLD AGEMentoring Masterclass by Dr. Bọ́lá AdéwaráIn this Mentoring Masterclass video, I want ...
05/06/2025

BEATING LONELINESS IN YOUR OLD AGE
Mentoring Masterclass by Dr. Bọ́lá Adéwará
In this Mentoring Masterclass video, I want to show you how something as simple as planting vegetables and other foods can be a powerful way to beat loneliness, especially in our later years. A garden is more than soil and seeds; it's therapy, it's fresh food, it's purpose. So come along, let me show you how tending a garden can also tend to your soul. Watch this Mentoring Masterclass video now.

BEATING LONELINESS IN YOUR OLD AGEMentoring Masterclass by Dr. Bọ́lá Adéwará.In this Mentoring Masterclass video, I want to show you how something as simple ...

NGUGI WA THIONG'O:FADING ECHOES OF AFRICAN LITERATURE: By Dr. Bọ́lá Adéwará https://www.bolaadewara.com.ng Ngugi wa Thio...
03/06/2025

NGUGI WA THIONG'O:
FADING ECHOES OF AFRICAN LITERATURE:
By Dr. Bọ́lá Adéwará
https://www.bolaadewara.com.ng
Ngugi wa Thiong'o is gone. With his passing, another pillar of African literary consciousness has crumbled, leaving behind the echo of a voice that once thundered against colonial oppression and whispered the dreams of a liberated continent.

His words, once etched into the soul of a people, now join the hallowed company of Achebe, Soyinka, Bessie Head, Okot p’Bitek, Ayi Kwei Arma and the other titans who wrote not just for glory, but for the soul of Africa. And yet, even as we mourn, we must ask: what remains?

A DIMMING FLAME
Once, literature in Africa was resistance. It was courage. It was prophecy. It was anti-apartheid. Our writers, just as our musicians, stood at the intersection of tradition and modernity, nationhood and exile, silence and speech. They bled truth onto pages that birthed new African imaginaries. They did not write for the applause of the West, but to awaken the African soul. But now, that fire flickers.

This morning I started a stocktaking exercise, looking at when the great names were born and exited. Many of them lived long i to their seventies, eighties and nineties. The literary giants are dying. One by one. And there are too few to take their place. Not because talent is lacking, but because the system has shifted, from pen to screen, from substance to virality, from patient craft to hurried content and rougish ChatGPT. A younger generation, fingers agile over glass screens, is more likely to scroll than to write. They digest in fragments what their ancestors delivered in full courses of thought.

THE STRUGGLES OF THE NEW GRIOTS
Today’s African writers do not wrestle with just the blank page, but with broken systems. Publishing is a battlefield. Traditional publishers are few and often inaccessible, demanding impossible requirements or focusing solely on marketable, often Western-palatable stories. Writers must self-fund, self-edit, self-market, becoming a one-person publishing house in a world that is too busy to read.

Grants and prizes are dead. Literary festivals are now a rarity. Many talented voices die quietly, never finding mentors or fora for self expressions. And what of our languages? Ngugi fought for them. Wrote in Kikuyu. Just like Alàgbà Adébáyọ Fálétí and Prof Akínwùnmí Ìṣòla. They all dreamed of an Africa that tells her stories in her own tongues. Yet, even now, publishing in indigenous languages is nearly impossible. Distribution is worse. Bookstores are shrinking, public libraries dead, and school curriculums still too colonial to embrace contemporary African thought.

A GENERATION DISTRACTED
It’s not that the youth do not care. They are just distracted, by the urgency of survival, the noise of social media, and the weight of disillusionment. They have been told to dream, but the continent often gives them no space to do so. Why write a novel that may never be published when one TikTok video might feed a family?

There are exceptions, of course, brilliant voices still emerging. Writers building small communities online, printing chapbooks, holding readings in cafés and under trees. But they are scattered. Underfunded. Undervalued. The tragedy is not just the loss of the old generation, it is the risk that their torch may fall to the ground, with no one left to pick it up.

YET ALL IS NOT LOST
Still, somewhere in the backrooms of Nigeria, the slums of Kenya, the villages of Malawi, the flats of Johannesburg, and the corners of Accra, someone is writing. Quietly. Painfully. Beautifully. She is fifteen, scribbling stories in the margins of an old science textbook.

He is thirty, rejected five times, still editing a manuscript by candlelight. They are unknown, but they exist. And maybe, just maybe, if we build platforms, open doors, teach the power of words, fund libraries, value books again, and speak our own truths in our own languages, the future is not yet lost.

Ngugi may be gone. But the story is still being written. And it is not yet over.

REFLECTIONS OF DR. JOHN ADEJORO-OLUWAA Mentoring Masterclass interview by Dr. Bólá Adéwará.Welcome to these parts one an...
11/02/2025

REFLECTIONS OF
DR. JOHN ADEJORO-OLUWA
A Mentoring Masterclass interview by Dr. Bólá Adéwará.
Welcome to these parts one and two Mentoring Masterclass interview with Dr. John I. Adejoro-Oluwa, a missionary, apostolic teacher, and former pastor at Foursquare Gospel Church, Lagos. With a passion for restoring lost truths, Bro. John has authored impactful works such as What is Babylon?, If the Foundations Be Destroyed, Embracing His Cross and so many other books. He is also the host of The Power of Endless Life, a widely received radio program across Nigeria and the West Coast. An alumnus of the Bible College of Wales, Bro. John carries the fragrance of Christ in his gentle yet powerful teaching ministry, reaching Africa, the UK, America, and Canada. Alongside his wife, Lydia, and their five children, he remains committed to spreading the Gospel of the Kingdom. Join us as we glean from his insights on mentoring, discipleship, and the power of endless life.
Part 1:
https://youtu.be/n_5NQ3FFqus?si=z6pF98pA6Hs8KOEh

Part 2:
https://youtu.be/4eqRstQLD6Q?si=8kjVToL7SPURdioE

John I. Adejoro-Oluwa, a teacher of the word, was a pastor at Foursquare Gospel Church, Lagos, Nigeria for ten years. Some of his life-changing works include...

19/10/2024

MY ENCOUNTER WITH MR. BORNAGAIN
Friday 18th, I had a funny encounter in a bank. I heard a teller paging someone's name, Mr. Bornagain! Mr. Bornagain!

A young man stepped forward to speak with the teller. I was shocked. Mr. Bornagain ke? Is that a name? I noticed that some people who heard the name also laughed.

After I was done, the journalist in me decided to chat with Mr. Bornagain. When he was through, I accosted him.
'Mr. Bornagain, is that your name or an alias?
'My name, sir.
'Since when did you start bearing it?
'Ever since. My parents named me so
'Are they Christians?
'Of course. Qua Iboe Church, now United...
'Qua what? (He explained that the church now has a new name)
'How do people react or respond when they hear your name?
'Just as you are doing. Many people have asked me same questions you are asking me.
'Are your parents born again?
'I don't know.
'I see. But are you bornagain?
'I don't know. It's just a name for me
'Ok. Do you want to be bornagain?
'I don't know.
'Do you know what it means to be bornagain?
'Of course. You accept Christ
'Ok. You can be born again right now, if you want me to help you.
'I am busy now sir. My sister is in the car...
'Can I pray with you to be filled with the Holy Spirit right now
'To achieve what?
'So that your name and election will be sure
'My sister is in the car waiting for me
'Bornagain, can we exchange numbers or take pictures together...
'My sister is in the car waiting for me...

At that point I allowed Mr. Bornagain to leave as we shook hands, smiling. Nigerians will just give their children all manner of names. Haba! Bornagain indeed!

04/09/2024

PLEASE PRAY FOR THE FULANI CHRISTIANS. I AM HAVING AN INTERVIEW WITH ONE OF THEIR LEADERS SHORTLY. I FEEL SO OVERWHELMED WHEN I SAW THIS VIDEO. YOU CAN NOW SEE THAT NOT ALL FULANI PEOPLE ARE BAD...

I told one of their leaders to send me the lyrics of this song. I'm going to teach the Northern Christian cultural group in my Church. We will sing this song in my Church.

27/08/2024

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S.U.C.C.E.S.S. DEFINED
Mentoring Masterclass by Dr. Bólá Adéwará.
I don't know the author of this video, but this is my explanation of it. I hope this helps you in your journey to success.
*SEE YOUR GOAL
Seeing your goal is about having a clear vision of what you want to achieve within a specific time. Define your objective with precision, so it becomes a tangible target rather than a vague idea. Pick your pen now and write: Three things I must achieve before the end of 2024. Ten things I must achieve in 2025. Write who you will be in five years' time. When you write your goals, you easily see them and give yourself direction, focus, and motivation.

*UNDERSTAND THE OBSTACLES
Understanding the obstacles is about recognising the challenges and barriers that may arise on the path to success. By identifying these potential hurdles early on, you can develop strategies to overcome them, turn challenges into opportunities, and stay focused on your goals.

*CREATE A MENTAL PICTURE*
Creating a mental picture involves visualising your goals clearly in your mind. By imagining the details of what success looks like, you set a clear path for your actions and decisions. This mental image serves as a powerful motivator, helping you stay focused and driven toward achieving your objectives.

*CLEAR YOUR MIND OF SELF-DOUBT
This is about silencing the inner critic that holds you back. Replacing negative thoughts with positive affirmations, focusing on your strengths, and believing in your ability to overcome challenges. By doing so, you create a mindset that’s open to opportunities and resilience in the face of obstacles.

*EMBRACE THE OBSTACLES
What are obstacles? Doors might not open easily. Friends will discourage and mock you. Funding might be difficult. Accessing support and mentorship might be tough, so you will be tempted to abandon the dream. No, dont. Confront these with determination. Know that obstacles are essential to success. They are gatekeepers to stop weak people from going in to success. Only strong people can pass.

*STAY ON TRACK
This means maintaining focus on your goals despite distractions or challenges. It involves consistently working towards your objectives, acquiring skill and mentorship, adjusting when necessary, and resisting the urge to deviate from your planned path. Every day, give attention to it. Take a step on it!

*SHOW THE WORLD YOU CAN DO IT.
When you are confident in yourself, step out boldly. Social media is there to announce you. Show the world you can. Don't be a good dancer in darkness. Confidently prove your skills and let your abilities speak for themselves. Take your skill to where people need it. Use your talent and ability to improve your life and lift people around you. Your success has no value when it benefits you only!
QUOTABLE QUOTE
Your success has no value when it benefits you only!
-- Bólá Adéwará.

16/08/2024

MY FIRST 50 AFRICAN WRITERS
By Bólá Adéwará
The following list features African writers whose works have profoundly influenced me. I've arranged them based on the depth of my investment in their books and the impact their writings have had on me. These choices reflect my personal preferences and the deep admiration I have for their works which shaped my literary skills and passion for writing. My reading of literature books ended with this generation of writers. Now, I read biographies, philosophies, opinions and, most importantly, the Bible.
My first 50 African writers:
1. D. O. Fagunwa (Nigeria)
2. Ngũgĩ wa Thiong'o (Kenya)
3. Adebayo Faleti (Nigeria)
4. Akinwumi Isola (Nigeria)
5. Wole Soyinka (Nigeria)
6. Chinua Achebe (Nigeria)
7. Peter Abrahams (South Africa)
8. Ama Ata Aidoo (Ghana)
9. Ayi Kwei Armah (Ghana)
10 Dambudzo Marechera (Zimbabwe)
11. Ousmane Sembène (Senegal)
12. Mariama Bâ (Senegal)
13. Camara Laye (Senegal)
14. Buchi Emecheta (Nigeria)
15. Flora Nwapa (Nigeria)
16. Mabel Segun (Nigeria)
17. Athol Fugard (South Africa)
18. John Pepper Clark-Bekederemo (Nigeria)
19. Elechi Amadi (Nigeria)
20. Chukwuemeka Ike (Nigeria)
21. Zeinab Alkali (Nigeria)
22. Ken Saro-Wiwa (Nigeria)
23. Léopold Sédar Senghor (Senegal)
24. Adaora Lily Ulasi (Nigeria)
25. T. M. Aluko (Nigeria)
26. Aminata Sow Fall (Senegal)
27. Nadine Gordimer (South Africa)
28. Ferdinand Oyono (Cameroon)
29. Okot p'Bitek (Uganda)
30. Cyprian Ekwensi (Nigeria)
31. Christopher Okigbo (Nigeria)
32. Kofi Awoonor (Ghana)
33. Doris Lessing (Zimbabwe/South Africa)
34. Bessie Head (Botswana/South Africa)
35. Mongo Beti (Cameroon)
36. Dennis Brutus (South Africa)
37. Nuruddin Farah (Somalia)
38. Mazisi Kunene (South Africa)
39. Zulu Sofola (Nigeria)
40. Naguib Mahfouz (Egypt)
41. Léopold Sédar Senghor (Senegal)
42. Syl Cheney-Coker (Sierra Leone)
43. Lenrie Peters (South Africa)
44. Nkem Nwankwo (Nigeria)
45. Gabriel Okara (Nigeria)
46. Paulina Chiziane (Mozambique)
47. Yambo Ouologuem (Mali)
48. Alex La Guma (South Africa)
49. Thomas Mofolo (Lesotho)
50. Alan Paton (South Africa)

09/08/2024

Pastor Bola, I think I have to speak to you. I don't mind if you post online or not, decide sir. just don't put my name. I have been married for five years now to a my wife. I met her in a redeem church when I followed my friend to do a thanksgiving. She was the choir leader in their church and I am a Catholic. But because I love her and want to please her, I left the Catholic church and joined her in her church. I go there often. If I knew this is what they do in redeem I would never have gone there with her. Five years no child. I am not bothered because I know God will do it. We are never barren in my family. I notice that two of her sister who have been married for years have not conceived till now. The husband of one of them has stepped out and has a twin with a girl in Kogi state.
Since March, I find out that my wife has been bathing with salt. Sometime with leaves. All manner of leaves. We don't do this in Catholic church. Is this what they do in redeem? I am sorry, I don't know if redeem permits this but I know she is close to the wives of her pastors and they come to our house to pray with her. I am suspecting them. How come she is bathing with salt and leaves? Sebi na me suppose to dey complain but I am not. I trust God. How come a choir mistress is bathing with salt and leaves? When I told her mother, another redeem person, she said some leaves dey wash away bad luck and salt water chase demons away. She said God gave us leaves for healing. These coming from Christianns? We don't do this in Catholic church. I told her to stop it or she might put our marriage on the line. Since then she stopped bathing when I am at home. I didn't notice it quickly. She will not go to work at the time she always go so she could bath after ive gone. Sometime she will bath so early when I still dey bed. I didn't know it's this urhobo wayo she dey use for me. Three days ago, she was bathing around 4am. She thought I was sleeping. I stood up and went to the bathroom and tasted the water. Salt water. I have told my parents that my wife don start dey do juju and it's like I was warned to marry fellow Catholic but I went to marry from these Churches. Pastor Bola, do you Pentecostal pastors allow your members to bath with salts and leaves? To achieve what? Small time you Pentecostal will be abusing we Catholics of saying holy mary but you do worse things in secret. I can't stick it o because I don't want anybody to initiate me into any cult. Thank you sir. I will go back to my Catholic church.

THANK YOU JESUS...My sad television experience in Biola's house.One of the problems of mankind is that when we are in a ...
05/07/2024

THANK YOU JESUS...
My sad television experience in Biola's house.
One of the problems of mankind is that when we are in a bad state, we remember to pray always, asking God to take us out of the state. We pray so hard. We pray long prayers. We fast and do all manner of religious things. But once we are out of the problem, we just say thank you Lord. We push the situation behind us as if it was not the same pain that tormented us for a long time.
This picture reminds me of the early, middle and late 1970s, when black and white television was a sign of affluence. I remember how my friends and I, Amechi, Seye, Dele, Rasaki, Kayode, Sola, etc would go and line up behind the windows of Mama Biola to watch Baba Sala, Hotel le Jordan, Jaguar, (My belle o, my head o), Art Alade Show, Baba Mero, Village Headmaster, Winds against my Soul, Kootu Asipa, Festac '77, Sura de Tailor, The Bar Beach Show, Bode Wasimi, etc.
If you must watch any of the plays at 8pm tru Mama Biola's window, we would put stones on the floor outside the window to take space. Also, no one dared offend Biola during the day or else, you will be penalised at night. Biola could get angry and lock the window or pour you water from inside.
I knew how to befriend Biola. I would bribe her with a sweet called Epon Baba Sala or alewa, a kind of sweet common in the north. That night, Biola would invite me inside their parlour, where I would sit quietly because Baba Biola would be seated, also watching.
I remember one night when I entered their parlour without doing the normal during the day. Biola sent me out. The programe was Hotel le Jordan. I began to cry. Biola slammed the door behind me and the space outside was filled with Amechi, Seye, etc. I had no where to stand and peep. It was a red letter day for me. I cried home.
I met Mama, already sleeping in bed. She saw me in tears. What happened? I narrated how Biola ejected me because I didn't give her Epon Baba Sala during the day. Mama looked at me with pains in her eyes. She sat on the bed, her head bowed. With the power of hindsight now, I could imagine the pains a mother would have over the shame her son encountered because they could not afford television in their own house.
After a while, I remember Mama said, Segun, ni ola, ni ola, wa wo television ninu ile yi. (My son Segun, tomorrow, I say tomorrow, you will watch TV in this house). I can't remember where my dad was. But I remember Mama making that statement. You see, when some men remember their mothers before their fathers, don't blame them. I am in tears as I write this. Mama, I love you.
The following day, I came back from school, afternoon school, around 6pm. When I entered the parlour, I saw a brand new Sanyo television on the table. I went mad. Mama had done it. She went to borrow money, one hundred naira and bought the tv, to save her son, Segun, me, from the menace of bribing Biola with Epon Baba Sala.
Pronto, I ran out to tell my friends that my Mama has bought a TV. We were free from Biola. The following day, our parlour was filled that evening, starting with Sesame Street at 4pm. Those days, TV broadcast in Kaduna was only from 4pm to 10pm. Later, it shifted to 12 midnight. Later, the morning session 9am to 12 noon started. That time, there was no NTA. It was NTV and in Ibadan, it was WNTV, first in Africa. In Kaduna, it was RTK, Radio Television Kaduna.
Back to my gratitude: so television can become 100 for a penny in Nigeria? So my parents too could gather money and buy tv for us? Television! This magic box that terrorised so many people in the early 70s has now become nothing. I've not watched tv in the last three months. I have no time! Television is even dead in Nigeria.
I return the glory to you God that when you turn our captivity around, we were like them that dream. Thank you for the experience with Biola because it makes me appreciate you everyday of my life. Biola, wherever you are today, I owe no grudge against you. If you had not sent me out thay night, mama wouldn't have been pained to save her son from needless ignominy.
On behalf of the generations who stood behind windows of people who could afford tv in the 1970s, I thank you Lord! I thank you Lord. Today, we can look back with laughters, and hearts filled with gratitude, and say, we had a great time watching tv from behind the windows!

ISSUES TO DISCUSS AND AGREE UPON BEFORE MARRIAGEMentoring Masterclass by Dr Bólá AdéwaráThis lecture explores the essent...
14/05/2024

ISSUES TO DISCUSS AND AGREE UPON BEFORE MARRIAGE
Mentoring Masterclass by Dr Bólá Adéwará
This lecture explores the essential conversations couples should have before saying “I do.” Marriage is not just a celebration of love; it is a partnership that thrives on understanding, mutual respect, and shared values. This is to ensure that your journey to the altar is as informed as it is joyful.

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ISSUES TO DISCUSS AND AGREE UPON BEFORE THE VOWSMentoring Masterclass by Dr Bólá Adéwará.This lecture explores the essential conversations couples should hav...

WE ARE SET FOR 2024: A sneak preview of program.   Join us at 1. MENTORING MASTERCLASS TIKTOK LIVE2. MENTORING MASTERCLA...
23/12/2023

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