17/10/2024
" I'm Tired of Lf already, This life is empty
This is my wife, we dated for 4 years & even had our first child out of wedlock. i had long dropped out of school before i met her due to financial crisis. However, i met my wife here a graduate & she has been with me through out my humble beginnings. Even when she got pregnant. I couldn't afford to care for her financially bcoz i didn't hv a job then, but her parents took care of everything even though, i also assist from the very little i got from the various temporal odd jobs i was into that time like brick laying, cutting grass in people's farms etc. Luckily, when our baby was a year & a half. One of the banks which my wife had applied for a job in, called her up, offered her the job & proposed to her a huge salary. This was just the beginning of the good life & blessings God had instored for us...
The bank gave her an official car, an apartment & a 6 months salary. In which, she surprised me by, giving me 70% of the amount she received & advised that i start up something, no matter how little, even if it's an "Okrika business" since, i didn't really hv a permanent job then. 6 Months gone in the business, i was trying my best to put in best of my efforts. However, life, started becoming better for me. My wife further advised that, i should worry less about her & the baby since, she could handle it. she advised that I concentrate in my business & save up as much as i could.
After a year gone in my okrika business. i didn't know that my wife was saving as she again, surprised me with a 4 months pay of her salary. I added the money to the amount i had also managed to save, she further took a loan from the Bank wr she works & handed the huge sums to me, adding to the previous amount all together was more than enough for me to start up large. Well, i decided to switch from okrika business to an electronic business & boom! this is were my success story began. All thanks to this woman. In a space of 2yrs into the business, i had paid up every dept we owed & even started up my first building project. After the completion of my first building, i had it furnished. By this time, My wife was 2 months pregnant. We got married the same month & moved into our new home on our wedding day. It was a huge celebration. This was the happiest day of our lives. Finally, it was the day we've been praying & waiting for. Our plans & dreames had finally come to true. We were all excited but little did we know, our happiness was gonna be short l!v3d.
3 years later, i have several buildings & cars in my name, my businesses are doing well. But the devu decided to come in-between my marriage & destroy my beautiful home. I do not know how but after our 3rd baby, my wife suddenly became un,attrac,t!ve in my eyes as her body structure is nolonger the same even though she used to be such a pretty lady back then. i found myself, seing other women more attractive & even started sl33p!n with them, even right down to our neighbors & my wife's friends. During the 4th year of our marriage, It got even worse when I started sleeping out for days & d0m3sticàlly started being abúsv to her & the kids until, she finally left as she couldn't take it anymore. Even after my wife served me dvos papers, with her being the custodian of the kids. I, happily & quickly signed them even without any remorse. All i wanted was to be free & hv space to enjoy my life & this was how my lovely family got destroyed by the dévu...
It's been a year gone. After everything, I've realized how empty life can be without the people that you love. I've had 2 more sons from 2 different women but i still feel empty. My wife on the other hand is about 5 months pregnant for another man. I learned intends to marry her & that's what's k1lln me the most. I honestly still love my wife & want my family back reason, I'm telling my story to the world today. I believe God has blessed w0men with the gift of endurance, i believe we can still rebuild our happy home just as it used to. Pls people, help me touch my wife's heart & relieve me from this dprss!0n that I'm going through. For the past 3 months, I've begged , I've cr!ed, I've knelt in public, I've called up family meetings & seen several pastors to help me beg my wife to no avail.
Angella! i pray & hope you see this. My life is a m3ss without you, pls lets fix & rebuild our home. the dprssn is slowly end!n me. pls, Remember how we started. Pls lets do this for the sake of the kids for they deserve better. They need us. Marriage is for better & w0rse, Huni, pls lets not let the "w0rse" get the best of us😭🙏"
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