28/08/2024
Explanations of the proverb:
In Yorùbá culture, children are expected to obey their elders and conduct themselves as Omoluabi (responsible individuals). However, when the elder's authority is compromised, and they lose the respect of the child, they may resort to gentler approaches to gain compliance. Such an elder is referred to as Àgbà'yà. The loss of respect typically stems from the elder's past actions, which tarnished their integrity.
Similarly, when a leader fails to command respect from their subordinates, they may use softer tactics to achieve cooperation, which ideally should be given willingly.
This proverb suggests that if an elder or leader maintains their integrity and authority, they won't need to resort to incentives or sweet talk to get others to follow their instructions.
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