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I had to post this content again because the last one got deleted. I’ve been seeing a lot of Vincenzo edits on my fyp la...
11/09/2024

I had to post this content again because the last one got deleted. I’ve been seeing a lot of Vincenzo edits on my fyp lately. Dear Netflix, can we get a season 2, please? Or maybe a Vincenzo franchise or something. Just return our dear Mafia Corn Salad to my screen! 🤭🥰

"Ahh! Them don use this one too. Only God knows where she went or who she was with. All these girls sef!”"They don’t wan...
05/09/2024

"Ahh! Them don use this one too. Only God knows where she went or who she was with. All these girls sef!”

"They don’t want to stay with their broke boyfriends. They’d rather chase after rich men and yahoo boys for money and human hair. Now look at what happened to her!”

"What was she doing out late at night? She’s probably a hookup girl or coming from some man’s house. Now them don use her. Chai!"

These are just a few of the t*rrible comments that surface when yet another woman’s mut!lated body is found. A woman, a girl...

And it doesn’t stop there…

People take pictures and plaster them all over social media with the same insēnsîtive comments and unwarranted “advice” for women. Instead of condëmning the mønsters behind these horrif*c acts, the blame quickly shifts to the vict!ms.

Don’t you realize you’re indirectly supporting ritual kill*ngs, body harvest!ng, m*rder, sexûal v!olence, and more?

Basically, you're implying that it's acceptable for these crimïnals to target women simply for not sticking with poor boyfriends, being out at night, or simply for existing as women. The tragic irony is that now even 'broke boyfriends' kîll their girlfriends for money.

Christianah was recently murdëred by her classmate Adeleye Ayomide, who had already k!lled his ex-girlfriend and his sister.

Mercy was att*cked in her own bed by her 15-year-old neighbor who broke in, repeatedly h!t her with a pestle, and rapèd her. She’s now suffering from severe brain injur!es.

Augusta was k!lled by her boyfriend.

Bamishe was on her way home from work when she was kidnapp*d, k!lled, and had her body p*rts harvested.

Ini went to a job interview and was räped and kil!ed.

Girls are k!dnapped and k!lled on their way to school.

Every time you blame a vict!m or make excuses for these cr!mes, you’re giving ev!l people the green light to keep going.

Women and girls just living their lives are being taken down by these crim!nals. Instead of teaching girls how to stay safe, how about we focus on eradicating the ev!l in our society?

I have a lot to say but I’m honestly drained.



- Lydia Làdej

29/08/2024

Nigerian singer Dammy Krane has been released from police custody nearly a week after his arrest for defaming fellow artist Davido.

13/08/2024

Award-winning Afrobeat artist Burna Boy has mocked South Africans after a Caucasian woman was crowned Miss South Africa, following the withdrawal of Nigerian-South African model Chidimma Adetshina from the competition.

13/08/2024

The Femi Otedola Foundation has donated the sum of N5 million to the family of Sodiq Olayode, who recently welcomed a set of quadruplets.

02/08/2024

Nigerians on social media have raised ₦1.8 million for Ogwu Benjamin Chijioke, who during Thursday’s nationwide protest, vented his frustration over his difficulty in providing for his 13-year-old son, a programmer, due to the country’s economic challenges.

Here’s to the iconic SaNini ship 🥂🤭As Biggie gets ready to throw open his doors to welcome in the Dynamic Duo housemates...
28/07/2024

Here’s to the iconic SaNini ship 🥂🤭

As Biggie gets ready to throw open his doors to welcome in the Dynamic Duo housemates, here’s to the next round of BBNaija ships that will sail soon and to the shippers that will experience joy and premium heartbreak 🥂❤️

21/06/2024

The 2024 Ojude Oba festival in Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State, held on Tuesday, was a mind blowing event.

Spoilers alert ‼️ So I waited for all the episodes of Queen Of Tears to drop on Netflix before finally watching. Now tha...
04/05/2024

Spoilers alert ‼️ So I waited for all the episodes of Queen Of Tears to drop on Netflix before finally watching. Now that I’m done watching, I have a lot to say!! Swipe to read my thoughts 😊

That scene in the last slide broke my heart anyhow!!! 🧎‍♀️😭

Alright, first off, allow me to commend the cast and crew of this series for a job well done. Accept all of your flowers...
21/03/2024

Alright, first off, allow me to commend the cast and crew of this series for a job well done. Accept all of your flowers 👏 Note that this article is not a review. It's more about the quirks of some of the characters and the life lessons I got from the series. I had planned to write and share the article earlier but I thought to wait until after a lot of movie lovers had perhaps seen the series as I knew my article might contain spoilers.

One thing I noticed was, selfishness is one distinct trait that nearly all of the main characters. Anyway, let’s dive into the details. Swipe to read my takes on some of the characters 🤭

Do we realize that in the process of getting justice for Imole, we have turned to bullîes ourselves? No doubt, we all lo...
22/09/2023

Do we realize that in the process of getting justice for Imole, we have turned to bullîes ourselves? No doubt, we all love Mohbad so much and that’s so beautiful to see. We are trying to fish out his tormentôrs and get justice for him and this is a noble cause. However, why do we think we have the right to decide how he should be mourned? Why do we think other people don’t love him or mourn him like we do? Is there even a right way to mourn?

Why are we bullyîng people for not mourning enough? Why are we accusing some people of “chasing clout? It’s easy to type tribute online and not do anything behind the scene to help get justice. Why are we dragging people we think are too quiet online?

His mother came out to cry for justice, we said she was shedding crocodile tears. We have zero idea about what went wrong in her marriage or the entire family and yet we judged her. Public figures came to pay condolence visits to her, we asked why she was in her son’s house receiving them. Should she have gone to receive them in a bush or hide away and not mourn her child because we Mohbad’s biological parents don’t like her?

We keep asking “where’s his wife?” so we can dissect her decide if she looks guilty or grieving enough. It’s bad enough that we have dragged her for not making noise about her husband’s situation when he was alive even though this lady had no clout prior to now. Her husband that had clout and cried out when he was alive, we didn’t listen but we think we would have listened to her? We didn’t even care that this young lady just lost a man she had loved for 10years.

Yes, ALL the people close to Mohbad, including his loved ones, need to be thoroughly questioned about his death but is it by bullyîng and defaming their character like as if they are not grieving too? Is it by making false accusations without concrete evidence against them?

Who do we think we are exactly? Sango Olukoso? Who dîed and made us God? How did we become bullîes fightîng against bullyîng and oppressiôn?

Anyway, ✊

*Drops pen*

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