25/08/2024
VISION IN PERSONALITY
The consciousness that you have a bout your personality and who you envisage to become, how you want to be perceived, addressed and related with is a function of your vision in personality.
This is the kind of vision that gives you the awareness of developing and positioning yourself and operational pattern to become both consciously and unconsciously comported, composed, respectable, acceptable impactful and positively influential both in your private and public life.
You are not supposed to live and operate anyhow. There is need for boundaries, principles, policies, disciplinary decisions, goals and objectives with which you pattern and operate your life.
Some people just talk any how that they are not even conscious of where they talk, what they say, people they shouldn’t discuss certain issues with and so on. Some just eat anyhow, dress anyhow, sit anyhow, walk and stand any how. People with vision in personality are conscious of how their behavioral uniqueness and pattern influence and shape their lives and the lives of people who are associated with their daily living.
There are people who are deficient in self comportment and coordination, and when you try to draw their attention to it with some measures of correction, they will take offence. Indirectly, it means they need no correction even if those lapses may end up crippling their career, relationships, business, finance, ministry and other aspects of their lives in future.
I once worked with a boss who on an occasion prepared a letter of invitation to be sent to some dignitaries to attend his event, and I spotted an error in the letter, which I drew his attention to, emphasizing the need for a correction and reprint of the letter to avoid people of such caliber turning down his invitation due to the error.
In his reaction, he said, “You like spotting mistakes for corrections every time. Are you a perfect man? Just forget about it, it doesn’t matter.”
After much of his yelling, I said, ‘I’m sorry, sir!’ And I left him.
Friends, in this journey of life, I’ve learnt a lot of what is called ‘ignorance in oversight’ in a lot of people, and how it has crippled a lot in them due to negligence.
To cut a long story short, some of those dignitaries spotted those errors, and eventually turned down the invitation.
There are people who don’t see anything wrong about their errors, they don’t see themselves ever being wrong, and they also don’t feel they need to be corrected. That’s a lack of vision in personality.
Also, bear in mind that, if you have a vision in personality, you will be detested and labelled as an extremist by ‘anyhow’ people. So, don’t be perturbed.
Many people have lost opportunities, cut their supposed extended privileges short and deprived themselves some access in life as a result of their lack of vision in personality.
In case you never knew, there are people who are not easily moved by what you present, but they are conscious of what your backend is made of, just to ascertain the foundational stand of your personality. So, stop feeling or saying, ‘it doesn’t matter.’ Everything in life matters, please!
It doesn’t matter how well gifted, talented, endowed, well positioned, well placed, eloquent, well connected, advantageous, beautiful or handsome you might be, if you don’t have the consciousness of your self comportment, coordination and perception in your inward and outward personality, chances are you may never get far in life, because your hidden shortcomings may expose and hack you down.
Living an ‘anyhow’ life, or a life of ‘it doesn’t matter,’ is a lack of vision in personality and a stigma that can trigger rejection and disqualification.
Watch it, and safeguard your life time accesses and opportunities.
..See you at the top!