De Wesley's

14/09/2025

If after 3 Caesarean Sections you’re still keeping baby clothes, baby walker, baby cot, and even that feeding bottle from 5 years ago… just unfollow me abeg!

Because you and I know what that means….you’re secretly expecting to go for “one more CS,” right?

My sister, don’t let womb turn to experiment lab o. After 3 CS, the best gift you can give yourself is rest, recovery, and life… not another round of surgery.

Your children need you alive more than they need a younger sibling.
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14/09/2025

Too many women have lost their lives… not because they were sick, but because society pressured them to try again for a male or female child.

After 3 boys, after 3 girls… people keep whispering: “You must have a son” or “You must have a daughter.”
And in the process…. so many wombs have been damaged, so many lives cut short.

Here’s the truth
A child is a child….boy or girl.
No gender is worth your bl000d or your life.
What every family needs is a healthy mother and a healthy baby.

To every woman reading this….Please, don’t let pressure push you into harm’s way. Your life is worth more than society’s opinions.

I’m a proud mother of 3 beautiful girls… How about you?

14/09/2025

De Wesley's

13/09/2025

13/09/2025

Ladies, let’s talk!
Why is it that once you marry, your family starts acting like they are shareholders in your womb?
One month after wedding ….Any good news yet?

Three months later….You should hurry o, before your mates leave you behind.

Six months later….They’re already sending you baby names and maternity gown styles. Kilode?. Meanwhile, nobody is asking if your body is ready, if your health is strong, or if you even want to enjoy small honeymoon first.

Let’s be honest…society sometimes pressures women into back-to-back pregnancies without considering the toll it takes on our health, but truth is…a woman is not a baby-making factory. She’s a human being who deserves care, spacing, and rest.

Ladies, do you agree? Or am I the only one who feels like mother-inlaws, aunties and uncles should go and mind their own ovaries?
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13/09/2025

Where can I find jollof rice?

13/09/2025

Don’t Walk Into That Operating Room Blindfolded!

Some people sign consent forms like they’re signing a delivery note for Jollof rice.
But wait o… this is surgery, not takeout.

Before you cross that red line, ask the golden questions…
Who is my surgeon?
Who is my anesthetist?

Because let’s be honest, the surgeon may hold the knife, but the anesthetist literally holds your Wi-Fi connection to life…one wrong move and network go off!

So shine your eyes!
Ask for their name.
Ask about their experience.
Be sure you’re in safe, professional hands.

Remember, life has no “undo” button. Your safety is not negotiable.

13/09/2025

So now every woman needs a holy sl@p? 😂 Fear of what exactly?

Your husbands might sue me biko😀

13/09/2025

From my Lover boy🥰🥰🥰my husband for life

13/09/2025

Catholic song

13/09/2025

Clearing the Air on Cesarean Section & Myomectomy (Fibroid Removal)

Many women facing C-section also have fibroids, and the big question is.. Can my surgeon remove the fibroid at the same time?

Here’s the gist without medical jargon

Consent First… Your surgeon is not a magician pulling surprises from a hat. No consent, No fibroid removal unless your life is at stake…then, safety first.

Surgeos Sometimes Avoid removing it
because fibroids can bleed like they’re auditioning for cooking the largest African

That’s why many surgeons prefer to wait instead of turning the CS into a drama series.

But now, modern Practice with better surgical techniques, skilled hands and a trained Anesthetist, CS + Myomectomy can be done safely in carefully chosen cases

Think of it as “buy one, get one free”surgery but only if it’s safe for you.

It is not One-Size-Fits-All, It depends on…
The fibroid’s size
Its location …inside, outside, or photobombing your uterus wall and your health & recovery goals.

But the bottom line is…. having the conversation with your surgeon before surgery.
Because at the end of the day, it’s your body, your consent, your health.

13/09/2025

Don’t be too selfish not to wake up after your general anesthesia because no one will carry or care for your newborn baby they way you’ll do.

Because if you try it, na me go give you one soothing slap ....the kind that will chase out any satan wey dey hold you down.

As anesthetists, we don’t play with our patients’ lives. We’ll bag you, pump you, monitor you, and if need be… add small holy slap to wake you back to life.

At the end of the day, our greatest joy is seeing you open your eyes and smile again.