10/03/2026
my husband slept with my maid and she beat him up, I have had a maid for 5 years now who I enrolled in school, I covered her necessities I even sent her salary to her mom as requested by her. disrespect started when my husband began to make passes at her she told me about it and I cautioned my husband, this maid has been so good to me and my kids and I didn’t want to send her away along the line she gradually fell for my husband, I noticed her body language changed, I simply ignored she and my husband because I do not need to question what an adult does with their body I'm so selfish like that right before my eyes they started dating and they knew I know about it and their lack of concern simply doesn't concern me either I deliberately stopped her from cooking for anyone I told her to only cook for my husband, I also told my husband to be paying her since I was the one paying her previously, all of a sudden my husband stopped eating my food, I didn’t sack her, I simply got a come and go nanny and I ignored them totally I don’t intend reporting this issue to anybody since they are both adult. One day I came back from work and my nanny told me how my husband and this girl had a disagreement over money issue, they fought each other and my husband injured her on her face this lady called her cousin to come and beat up my husband the also called the police who came to arrest my husband and he’s still in the office even as I’m writing this. It’s been four days now since he was carried and he needs a guarantor for his bail, he called me to come and be his guarantor and I ignored him and my maid has left the house also the girl is actually pressing charges and my husband will be taken to court anyway his brother has agreed to be his guarantor and by this weekend he will be released and start going to court he has asked me to forgive him and show him support that I should not let the maid win and I responded “what’s my business” I don’t care who lose or wins right now I’m stuck I between, should I really help my husband or let him take his chances alone because right now I don’t care if he goes to jail or not because I'm doing well financially and | lack absolutely nothing now my husband is asking me to support him because he got into trouble with the maid I have been in-my lane since and I don't intend to leave that lane. What should I do I’m confused .
