18/06/2026
From time to time, people ask me a question that makes me smile.
"Ronke, why are you still in school?"
On the surface, it seems like a reasonable question.
I already have two degrees. I have taught in schools, served as a principal, managed educational institutions, built a business, written books, coached professionals, and trained thousands of people.
So, why would I still be interested in pursuing a PhD?
My answer is always the same: I am not done learning.
One of the things life has taught me is that the more you know, the more you realise how much you do not know.
Every time I think I have gained a good understanding of something, I discover another layer that challenges my thinking and stretches my perspective.
That is one reason I love learning. It keeps you humble and relevant.
Learning prevents you from becoming trapped in yesterday's knowledge while the world moves forward without you.
For me, a PhD is never just about adding another certificate to my collection.
It is about developing the discipline of research. It is about learning how to think more deeply, ask better questions, and contribute meaningfully to knowledge in my field. It is about challenging myself to grow beyond my current level.
A few years ago, I started that journey.
Then life happened.
Between running a school, managing a business, coaching clients, writing books, and handling other responsibilities, I had to put the programme on hold.
Some people assumed that was the end of the story. It is not.
I still intend to go back and finish what I started. This is not because I need people to call me "Doctor." I want to finish because I made a commitment to myself.
Over the years, I have learned that unfinished dreams have a way of lingering in the heart. They keep reminding you that there is still work to be done.
One of those dreams for me is completing my PhD. So, by God's grace, I will return to it.
If there is one lesson I hope you take from this, dear friend, it is that learning should never have an expiry date.
Do not allow age, setbacks, responsibilities, or temporary delays to convince you that your journey is over.
Sometimes a dream is postponed does not mean it is cancelled.
Sometimes progress is slower than you planned. But that doesn't mean you should stop.
Keep learning, growing, and moving forward.
And if there is something meaningful you started but have not yet finished, do not give up on it, my dear friend.
Ronke Amos