14/03/2012
1.Give up trying to be perfect.
2.Give up comparing yourself to others.
3.Give up dwelling on the past or worrying too much about the future. – Right now is the only moment guaranteed to you.
4.Give up complaining. – Do something about it
5.Give up holding grudges. – Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
6.Give up waiting. – What we don’t start today won’t be finished by tomorrow.
7.Give up lying. – In the long-run the truth always reveals itself.
8.Give up trying to avoid mistakes. – The only mistake that can truly hurt you is choosing to do nothing simply because you’re too scared to make a mistake.
9.Give up saying, “I can’t.”
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10.Give up trying to be everything to everyone.
11.Give up thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises.
12.Give up setting small goals for yourself. – Many people set small goals because they’re afraid to fail.
13.Give up trying to do everything by yourself. – You are the sum of the people you spend the most time with. If you work together, you will be far more capable and powerful than you ever could have been alone.
14.Give up buying things you don’t need. – Manage your money wisely so your money does not manage you. Do not spend to impress others. Do not live life trying to fool yourself into thinking wealth is measured in material objects.
15.Give up blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can live your dream life depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life.
16.Give up making mountains out of molehills.
17.Give up trying to live up to the expectations of others. – Work on it for real and exceed your own expectations. Everything else will fall into place.
18.Give up the ‘easy street’ mentality. – There is too much emphasis on finding a ‘quick fix’ in today’s society. For example taking diet pills to lose weight instead of exercising and eating well.
19.Give up making promises you can’t keep. – Don’t over-promise.
20.Give up letting your thoughts and feelings bottle up inside. – People are not mind readers. They will never know how you feel unless you tell them.
21.Give up beating around the bush. – Say what you mean and mean what you say. Communicate effectively.
22.Give up avoiding change. – However good or bad a situation is now, it will change. That’s the one thing you can count on. So embrace change and realize that change happens for a reason.
23.Give up your sense of entitlement. – Nobody is entitled to anything in this world. We are all equal. We breathe the same air. We get what we give. We get what we earn.
24.Give up waiting until the last minute. – Those who fail to plan, plan to fail.
25.Give up being dramatic. – Stay out of other people’s drama and don’t needlessly create your own.
26.Give up being anti-athletic. – Get your body moving! Simply take a long, relaxing walk or commit 30 minutes to an at-home exercise program.
27.Give up junk food. – You are what you eat.
28.Give up eating as a means of entertainment. – Don’t eat when you’re bored. Eat when you’re hungry.
29.Give up foolish habits that you know are foolish. – Don’t text and drive. Don’t drink and drive. Don’t smoke.
30.Give up relationships with people who bring you down. – Saying “no” to right people gives you the time and resources required to say “yes” to right opportunities. Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and like minded.
31.Give up being shy. – Network with people. Meet new people. Ask questions. Introduce yourself.
32.Give up worrying about what others think of you. – Unless you’re trying to make a great first impression (job interview, first date, etc.), don’t let the opinions of others stand in your way.
What is important is how you feel about yourself.
33.Give up doing the same thing over and over again. – In order to grow, you must expand your horizons and break free of your comfort zone. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.
34.Give up persistent multi-tasking. – Do one thing at a time and do it right.
35.Give up thinking others are luckier than you. – The harder you work, the luckier you will become.
36.Give up making emotional decisions. – Don’t let your emotions trump your intelligence. Slow down and think things through before you make any life-changing decisions.
37.Give up doing the wrong things just because you can get away with it. – Just because you can get away with something doesn’t mean you should do it.
38.Give up focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story.
39.Give up taking yourself so seriously. – Few others do anyway. So enjoy yourself and have a little fun while you can.
40.Give up spending your life working in a career field you’re not passionate about. – Life is too short for such nonsense.
41.Give up thinking about the things you don’t have. – Appreciate everything you do have. Many people aren’t so lucky.
42.Give up doubting others. – People who are determined do remarkable things. Remember, the one who says it can’t be done should never interrupt the one doing it.
43.Give up fussing with every beauty product on the market. – Good looks attracts the eyes. Personality attracts the heart. Be proud to be you. That’s when you’re beautiful.
44.Give up trying to fit in. – Don’t mold yourself into someone you’re not. Be yourself. Oftentimes, the only reason they want you to fit in is that once you do they can ignore you and go about their business.
45.Give up trying to avoid risk. – There’s no such thing as ‘risk free.’ Everything you do or don’t do has an inherent risk.life itself is a risk.
46.Give up putting your own needs on the back burner. – Yes, help others, but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
.....Give up everything that makes you feel less worthy of yourself!..Give up drugs,abusive relationship (before it's too late).
......Instead do what makes you happy and live a life worthy of emulation by the younger generation,be a role model to the youth and people around you...Must of it all be a role model to yourself.
