28/05/2024
Ladies, here are 19 types of men you should never ever marry. We don’t care how much you love him, how prayerful he is, how handsome he is or how rich he is, don’t marry him.
1. A man without ambition
Marriage is a lifetime contract, and I’m sure you won’t sign up with a man who doesn’t know where he is going. He’d just quit his job, stayed at home a lot and whiled away the hours on his video games. He has no plans for his life
2.A man who doesn’t fear God
By wisdom a house is built and the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. A man has a responsibility to father you and your children. He is the leader and the head of the family. Marry a man that would build you in the fear of God and cultivate you to be better.
3.The Addict
Addictive to alcohol, drugs, or po*******hy will lead to destruction. And though your relationship may seem to challenge him in the right direction, don’t be fooled that he’ll so quickly “give it all up for you,” without the aid and accountability of professional help. You are not the one to set him free and your role is not to try to change him. Only God can.
4.The Abuser
You are worth far too much to be abused by anyone. Move quickly away from anyone who brings you physical, verbal, or deep emotional harm. Marriage is built on deep love and respect and this is most certainly no way to begin. See the warning signs for what they are. On the other hand my dear sisters, avoid anything that will lead to these.
5.The Controller
This man will dominate and strive to make every decision for you, decide who you should spend time or who you should no longer see. Marrying a control freak shouldn’t even be an option. The only people that can help them are professionally trained therapists. You should just move on.
6.The Hot-tempered Man
A man, who cannot control his temper before you’re married, will most certainly be a man who cannot control his temper after you’re married. In most cases, it will worsen.
No matter what our personality type, it still doesn’t give us room to plow over anyone in our pathway with harsh words and rants. Take time in different scenarios to see how he responds, especially under pressure.
7.The Mama’s Boy
Let me first mention this; We do not mean that someone who loves his mother and cares for his mother is terrible. In fact, it’s a big turn. However, there must be a rule, a limit. Every little thing cannot be done except according to his mother. Imagine that the man asks his mother what to wear or what to eat, or to continually talk to the phone when he is with you.
When the guy you’re dating still has every bill paid by his parents, they control every decision he makes, and he cares more about what Mama thinks than what you think – struggle is ahead.
8.The Liar
We all lie sometimes; but it becomes very serious when it is rampant. So what about those “little white lies” you started noticing along the way? In reality, there’s no such thing as little white lies. Any lie is meant to hide, deceive, or manipulate truth. There is no room for dishonesty in a healthy, loving relationship. It’s a dangerous trap and you will always be left wondering what he’s hiding.
9:Dishonest Man: Have you noticed that he lies about a lot of things, even things that do not really matter? Some men are perpetual liars and thinking about settling down with such a man would only bring you more heartbreak.
10. The Unambitious Man: A man who hopes to support his family someday should have some type of plan. When the man you are with does not seem to have any sort of idea of what he wants to do with his life, then it is best to get off that relationship train. A man should be a leader in his family, but if he does not know where he is headed, how would he be able to lead right?
11:The Commitment-Phobe: Just like there are some women who have issues with committing to anything, we also have men who are this way. If he is afraid of commitment then it is no use convincing him that committing to a marriage is a good idea.
12:The Cheat: Does he cheat on you time and time again? Does he always seem to be looking for the next lay even while he professes his love to you? Then it is a bad idea to consider such a man for marriage. Cheats hardly change who they are, no matter how many times they promise they will still cheat on u.
13:The Stingy Man: A man who finds it difficult to be generous with his material possessions, even when he has more than enough to share, might not be the best family-man. Marriage involves a lot of sharing and if he is too self obsessed to see the needs of someone else, that union would end up being one-sided.
14. The Addict: Any addiction becomes an extra work for the partner involved. If you suspect he might be an alcohol, ci******es, drugs, s*x, etc addict, then it is better to save yourself future pain and unhappiness by looking for someone else. Dating an addict automatically puts you and your family in second place. Something else will always come first and this would usually have an adverse effect on you and your marriage.
15:The Insecure Man: Does he always seem jealous or insecure of anything and anybody you come in contact with? Trust is very important in a relationship and even more crucial in a marriage. If he is always suspicious of every single person that comes close to you, then think twice about being in a lifetime partnership with him. A marriage would not last long if one partner consistently suspect the other one of being unfaithful.
16:The Disrespectful Man: A man who is disrespectful to you or even everyone in general would not make a good husband. Respect is very important in every relationship and if you constantly feel disrespected, then it certainly would not lead to a happy home
The workaholic:This guy is great, hardworking and successful, but his work constantly takes priority over you. He’s always travelling and cancelling dates. Every time you ask him to come and meet your parents, somehow work gets in the way. If you marry him, he’s going to take care of you financially, but you will be dissatisfied in so many other ways.
17.A man who hates his Family
Our parents can get on our nerves sometimes, but it does not mean to cut your parents off from your life. The family is where we were born and raised, and we cannot forget our family. Remember a man who has forgotten his parents can quickly forget you in a day or two. If he hates his parents, then he will not be able to behave around your family. He will not be a family man.
18. An Immature man
Nothing can be more frustrating than being in a relationship with a man who is immature and indecisive. Immaturity is a clear sign of emotional instability. It is sometimes not about age but the state of mind. He never accept his mistakes, instead, he resorts to point figures at everyone. My dear sister never marry a man who is immature and can not take decision on his own.
19.The lazy man
The next thing God gave man after putting him in the Garden was WORK. (Gen. 2:15). God gave man work before giving him a woman. That means a man needs a job before he gets a woman. A woman is to help the man and if the man is not working, what is the woman coming to do?
Does he hate working? Does he spend all of his money on frivolous things? Whatever the case, you probably do not want to marry someone who can’t hold on to his money. It is much smarter to marry someone who is financially stable. This does not mean you should only “marry rich.” This means you should “marry responsibly.”
Conclusion
Since marriage is a long journey, the foundation is very significant. Never assume he will change when you get married, if he can’t change now, am sorry he may not change later, it may even worsen.
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