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MayJewel, Lagos (2026)

10/09/2026

COUPLE’S RIFT

“MY HUSBAND’S FEMALE BOSS BOUGHT HIM A SET OF BOXERS AS A BIRTHDAY GIFT.”

Can you imagine what happened in this home yesterday?

It was my husband’s birthday, and among the gifts he brought home was a set of boxers his female boss bought for him.

The moment I saw it, I became uncomfortable.

I asked him, “Why would your female boss buy you underwear as a birthday gift? And why did you accept it?”

My husband said there was absolutely nothing wrong with it and that I was making an issue out of nothing.

But I told him I wasn't comfortable with him keeping the gift and asked him to return it.

Now, what started as a simple conversation has turned into a serious quarrel between us.

My husband insists that the gift means nothing, while I feel that some boundaries should exist when you are married, especially when it involves the opposite s*x.

So, please, I need your honest opinions:

Am I overreacting?

Would you be comfortable if your spouse received underwear as a birthday gift from a boss or colleague of the opposite s*x?

Should my husband return the gift, or should I simply let it go?

And most importantly, how can this couple settle this matter and bring peace back into their home?

Let's hear from both the men and women. 👇🏽
Please, no insults. What would YOU do?

09/09/2026

The preacher addressing the Word-of-Faith fanatics, and honestly, he called them out!

Are you still in this business of defrauding God’s people while claiming that God told you? You are a fr@udster,
Repent 🙏

08/09/2026

THE KIND OF CHURCH STILL EXIST, GLORYYYYY

06/09/2026

Chaiii! 🥹❤️ I honestly wasn’t expecting this one.
My name was mentioned in a page where people were asked to mention who they love....to find out that....

Someone described me as lovable, disciplined, courageous, her everyday woman crushes, and a one who carries a message she has refused to allow to be adulterated,...
She mentioned Iwere Mary Aima

Of course, I had to go and check! 😂 Only to discover that this beautiful woman, who happens to be a pastor, was speaking about me with such genuine admiration.

I won’t lie, I got goosebumps. 🥹❤️ Not because I think I am all that, but because moments like this remind me that people are watching.

Sometimes, you have no idea who is being encouraged by your consistency, your courage, your convictions, or simply by the fact that you keep showing up and refusing to dilute what you believe God has given you.

And this is not the first time to hear something like this about me, . In fact, I’m beginning to realise that the kind of people who love and appreciate me are also telling me something about the kind of people I attract. And honestly, that is fulfilling. 🥰

So, to those who choose to dislike me, misunderstand me, or even h@te me...what exactly do I need it for? 😂 JESUS IS ENOUGH KE!🥰

Can you see why ijust keep walking tall in my heels, minding my business and doing what I believe God has called me to do!. 👠😌

Besides, I sometimes wonder if some of this “h@te/ dislike is really h@te at all. It might just be love with a little touch of jealousy. 🤣🤣🤣

You no fit h@te me nah… na small sco-sco dey do you! 🤪😝😂

But seriously, to everyone who loves, supports, respects, prays for, encourages and appreciates me: I appreciate una gannnn! ❤️

You are deeply loved, respected and valued, not because of what you can do for me, but simply because of who you truly are. 😍🥰🤩

To my respected Pastor, Child of the most high, you know i love you, my like-mind 🙏

And above all, to God be all the glory. If there is anything beautiful in me that people see, I know where it comes from. 🙏🏽❤️

May I never become so full of myself that I forget the One who gave me the grace to become myself.
GLORY TO GOD

05/09/2026

WHEN WE DON'T UNDERSTAND GOD'S WAYS

There are questions I have wrestled with for years as a growing believer, not questions born out of doubt or an attempt to question God, but questions arising from a sincere desire to understand His ways.

One of them is this:

HOW DO WE UNDERSTAND THE SEASONS OF WAITING THAT SOME FAITHFUL BELIEVERS EXPERIENCE?

We believe that God is good. We believe that He answers prayers. We believe that He gives children, provides for His people, and cares deeply about the needs of His children.

Yet, we have seen faithful believers pray, fast, believe God, and wait for years, even decades, for the fruit of the womb. Some eventually have children, while others never do.

At the same time, some people who do not profess faith in God have children almost effortlessly and sometimes in large numbers.

I am not against IVF or any legitimate medical intervention. But I also understand why someone who has prayed and waited for years may eventually seek medical assistance. The years of waiting, disappointments, failed attempts and emotional pain can be incredibly difficult.

And the same tension exists beyond childbearing.

How do we understand the fact that some faithful Christians prosper financially while others struggle for years?

Why do some believers have more than enough while others can barely survive?

Why do some ministers live in great abundance while other genuine servants of God live modestly or struggle financially?

And if material prosperity is presented as a clear evidence of God's favour, how then should we understand the lives of faithful believers who remain financially challenged?

Likewise, if having children is presented as evidence of God's blessing, how should we understand the faithful believer who has prayed for years and remains childless?

These are not questions I am asking because I think God owes us an explanation.

Neither am I questioning His sovereignty or goodness.

I am simply trying to reconcile what I was taught about faith, prayer and God's blessings with the realities I have observed among God's people.

Perhaps God's ways are much deeper than the formulas we sometimes create around Him.

Perhaps His goodness cannot always be measured by how quickly a prayer is answered, how much money someone has, how many children they have, or how comfortable their life appears.

The Bible tells us:

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD.... Isaiah 55:8

So I am asking;

HOW DO WE, AS BELIEVERS, UNDERSTAND GOD'S GOODNESS WHEN HIS WAYS AND TIMING ARE BEYOND OUR UNDERSTANDING?

I genuinely want to hear from you.

Please share your thoughts. Your contribution is highly needed.

03/09/2026

YESTERDAY, I ASKED A SINCERE FROM ACTS 2:44–45:

“And all that believed were together, and had all things common; And sold their possessions and goods, and parted them to all men, as every man had need.”

I asked:

DOES THIS TYPE OF CHURCH STILL EXIST TODAY?

A church where believers genuinely care for one another...not just with words, but with their resources.

Acts 4:34 says:

“Neither was there any among them that lacked…”

I AM HAPPY TO SAY THAT THESE TWO RESPONSES I RECIEVED ENCOURAGED ME

Someone shared what a particular church is doing in the Western world, and another person mentioned Pastor Sarah Omakwu's church in Abuja.

Honestly, THIS MAKES ME HAPPY!

It reminds me that this kind of Christianity is not completely lost.

There are still churches where the needs of people matter not just yearly....

There are still pastors who understand that the church is not merely a place where resources are gathered, but also a place where resources are used to care for people.

There are still believers who are willing to give, share, sacrifice and lift others.

LET US CELEBRATE THESE CHURCHES!

To the churches doing this, may God continue to strengthen you, increase your capacity and make you a greater blessing to your communities.

And to Pastor Sarah, wherever you are, please know that many of us appreciate what you are doing. May God continue to give you wisdom, grace and resources to serve His people.

Let us show Pastor Sarah some love in whatever way we can. ❤️

And to the churches that are doing similar things:

PLEASE, KEEP GOING.

Your example matters.

Hello, churches, take a clue from these examples and let us rediscover what it means for our “barns” to be full through genuine generosity, responsible stewardship and the blessing of God...not through constantly pressuring, cajoling people into giving tithes and sowing seeds.

After all, if the needs of God's people are genuinely being met, giving becomes an expression of love and gratitude, not something people are manipulated into doing, sweating profusely upon explaining why tithes, first fruit and seed sowing are what opens financial doors

THAT THING NO DEY STRESS UNA NI? 😂

Let the Church be a blessing to the people.
Let our giving go beyond building institutions.

LET IT ALSO BUILD PEOPLE.

May God help us become the kind of Church where, as Acts 4:34 says:

“NEITHER WAS THERE ANY AMONG THEM THAT LACKED.

02/09/2026

“EVERYONE THAT HAD BROUGHT…”

Acts 2:44–45 (KJV)

“And all that believed were together, and had all things common; And sold their possessions and goods, and parted them to all men, as every man had need.”

I have a sincere question:

Does this type of church still exist today?

A church where believers genuinely cared for one another ,not just with words, but with their resources.

A church where those who had more were willing to share with those who had need.

A church where the focus was not merely on what people could bring to the church, but also on how the church could meet the needs of the people.

The early church demonstrated a Christianity that was deeply concerned about the welfare of fellow believers.

Acts 4:34 (KJV)

Neither was there any among them that lacked…

This is not a call to force Christians to sell their possessions. It is a challenge to examine the heart of Christian fellowship, generosity, sacrifice and care for the needy.

So I ask again:

Does this type of church still exist today?

And if it does, where is it?

01/09/2026

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! John Bamas, Oluchi Njoku. Blessings

01/09/2026

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31/08/2026

I HAVE GREAT RESPECT FOR DR. ABEL DAMINA, BUT…

I have been following the recent attacks and criticisms against Dr. Abel Damina, and I believe we need to approach this matter with truth, wisdom and love.

First, let me say this clearly: I respect Dr. Damina.

I respect him for having the courage to confront teachings in the Church that many were afraid to challenge, teachings that, in my view, have impoverished, enslaved and hindered many and, in some cases, have contributed to devastating consequences.

His emphasis on bringing people back to Christ and the Gospel rather than money, rituals and material offerings is, to me, a commendable corrective.

Kudos to you, sir, abelfor having the courage to speak.

But my respect for a teacher does not mean I believe everything he teaches is automatically sound. A preacher can correctly expose a false practice and still arrive at an incorrect conclusion on another doctrine. This applies to Dr. Damina, and it applies to every other teacher.

No human being has 100% knowledge of Scripture. Paul said:

For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.
1 Corinthians 13:9

That is why the Bereans did not simply accept even Paul's teaching without examination:

They received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.
Acts 17:11

So, I believe we should do the same with every preacher, including Dr. Damina.

There are many of his teachings that I find biblically strong. There are others that I consider legitimate theological interpretations that Christians can respectfully debate. And there are also conclusions that I believe deserve serious scrutiny.

The question should not simply be, “Is Damina right or wrong?

The question should be:

What does Scripture actually say?

And this is where I believe we have a beautiful opportunity in the Body of Christ, especially now. We can teach, question, examine and correct one another. We can appreciate what a teacher has helped us to see while still testing his conclusions against Scripture.

And I still trace this beautiful awakening, this alarmic voice calling the Church back to serious examination of Scripture, to Dr. Damina.

Disagreement does not require insult. Correction does not require contempt.

Paul says:

And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient.
2 Timothy 2:24

And we are instructed to be:

Speaking the truth in love.
Ephesians 4:15

Yes, be bold. Be firm. Confront error.

But even when you are firm with the message, let your heart not forget love.

And please, don't judge Dr. Damina simply because you do not understand a particular teaching or because of what others say about him. Listen to his messages from beginning to end, examine the context, search the Scriptures, and do so with an open and discerning heart.

Mind you, doctrinal evaluation is not the same as taking a teaching literally; it requires examining the context and comparing the conclusion with the entirety of Scripture.

Let us search the Scriptures, challenge doctrines, correct errors and remain humble enough to say:

“Let me examine this again.”

Because at the end of all our theological arguments, we are still dealing with people for whom Christ died.

Truth matters.
Sound doctrine matters.
Correction matters.
But love matters too.

MayJewel

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