18/09/2025
Pastor Shares How Her 42yr Old Friend Remained Single Because Of Her Policies
Canada-based Nigerian Pastor, Temmy Omoileri recounts how her 42-year-old friend has remained single because of her strict policies and expectations from her partners.
She was reacting to a viral video of unmarried women wearing wedding gowns in a church event.
My childhood friend is 42 soon to be 43, never married and no kids.
While we were younger she insisted on not marrying anyone who's more than 5 years older than her. Most guys just hold, eat and leave. She was a devoted believer, unlike me then. She acts like she's better than all.
When I arrived Canada, i introduced 2 different men who were in their 50s then she was in her mid 30s, she engaged them but kept it cold, they walked away.
She later told me that her pastor whom she was very close too, lost his wife, I said eyahhh. Hopefully you can marry him if he likes you, at least you be church girl. She said lailai. Unknown to me, they've been extremely close. The man has been sponsoring her lifestyle, he's a lawyer but early 60s and she's already 40.
According to her, she goes to cook, clean the house do everything but nothing else. So the pastor officially asked her out and she refused. The man was shocked, he really liked her. Told her to go take a masters program which he paid for.
But, according to my friend, he's too old for her. Auntie you're 40 already. She attended my first wedding, now they 2nd one. I told her, Ore, you need to work on your character ooo.
The pastor complained to her that despite all he's doing for her, she has never for oneday buy him a gift. The pastor withdrew all his financial commitment and stop answering her calls. A year later, the man remarried and she was very angry and jealous. She claimed he never loved her and he wouldn't have stopped helping her if he did. I told her, I'm proud of the pastor. I will be angry at him of he didn't withdraw.
She doesn't call first, check in and all..
Ano