05/01/2025
Your talking stage is long because you are making noise instead of talking.
The new name for situationship is talking stage - a period when people waste each other’s time.
After reading my post yesterday, a sister shared how she was in a “talking stage” for 7 months. They spent time together, called each other pet names, and were loving up on each other.
She kept waiting and waiting for 7 months and the Bro didn't say anything. So, she decided to break the ice by asking him to define what they were doing.
He did semi-definition😅
Do you know what semi-definition is? When you are given a definition that still leaves you hanging and unsure of your stand in the person’s life.
When people spend so much time in what they call “talking stage”, it is a sign that someone is unintentional in the equation.
You can't afford to offer yourself as a plaything to an unserious person this year.
It doesn't take an intentional person so long to decide whether or not they want you in their life.
You too, take your life seriously. You are not a child😅
Stop getting carried away by the attention you're enjoying. They are calling you morning, afternoon, and night but you guys are “just friends”👀
Why are you hugging for 20 seconds? Do friends kiss?
Have that talk and stop deceiving yourself.
December 2025 will soon reach again and you'll be beefing innocent couples who were intentional and didn't waste time in talking stage.
Nelson Asuen
