02/01/2024
Please Ma I need motherly advice from you and all mothers in this platform
I will be 25 next year May and there is this guy I’ve been dating for the past 5 years I love this guy so much and he loves me more than I do,this guy deflowered me and he’s the only man I’ve ever known,but this guy is broke,at first I felt things we get better but it seems it’s getting worse,I’m from a very poor background and I’ve been hustling since I finished secondary school and I have a very good job I’m also doing a part time programme but this guy is not even contributing to my life financially in any way,if he has he will give me in fact I have 100 percent access to his finances but I don’t know why things are not working for him.he is talking marriage by next year and I’m ready too but I’m scared,I give this guy money and this is not what I want for my life,he’s 32 years old and is a gospel singer planning to go to music school next year.Aside from the financial aspect he’s a perfect man,prayerful,caring and all but I don’t know why things are like that with him and his entire family.Please what can I do? I support this guy with money several times and I once opened a pos for him but he later stopped due to some reasons,I even got his current job for him and he’s not lazy but I’m tired