21/04/2025
I'm traumatized 😭
Early 2022, I met this girl, she is in her second year University education. We entered into serious relationship which we agreed will definitely lead to marriage.
Since she accepted that it will lead to marriage, I decided to invest in her. I had a building project, I stopped it, then the money I saved, 2.5mil for the project and my business, I used it on her. First was her mum who fall sick, and the bill amounted to 500k. She plea that I help since I have the money. That when we marry we can push and complete the house project, that she doesn't want to lose the mum. Then, I supply all her needs in school and her family needs too. This was how I spent all the money on me. Because I love her and ready to end up with her. And she was sincere.
Lately, my shop was demolished by Wike in Abuja. And I lost lots of my goods. Now I'm back to square one.
Here is The problem.
Since I lost my shop, and couldn't supply her needs as usual, she started misbehaving. At times she will miss my calls without calling back. Sometimes her line will be busy on calls all the time. When I asked whom she is busy with, she will say it's their course mates class's group studies. Sometimes she will get angry for asking her why her number is busy for long time. She has changed and its killing my spirit. Days will pass, she won't border to call unless I call. I will recharge her phone, she will use the credit but won't even call to say thanks. I will be the one to call and ask if she received it.
Please what should I do? I'm emotionally down 😭 help
