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12/05/2025

10 TRAITS IN A WOMAN THAT ATTRACT A MAN:

1. GENTLENESS

A woman who doesn't love drama, one who is inviting and peaceful. Men gravitate to where there is peace and calmness for peace of mind.

2. CONFIDENCE

A woman who knows who she is; she acts, talks, and dresses like the Queen that she is. She is not hiding behind him. She is powerful all by herself. Confidence is attractive and sexy.

3. GOOD COMMUNICATION

A woman who knows how to talk, she is friendly, funny, and speaks with the right tone. She is not rude, insulting, or irrational. She is easy to talk to. Can speak in writing too. It makes him miss her when apart.

4. VALUES

A woman with her stand. She has her set of beliefs and is not easily swayed by friends, trends, social media, moods, or the chase for attention. A woman who understands what she is to a man of value.

5. NURTURING WAYS

A woman who grows people and grows things. She adds value and makes things better. She manages well, handles well, and hatches to multiply after incubation.

6. SELF LOVE

A woman who loves herself. She has a healthy self-esteem. She is not insecure, suspecting every woman who interacts with her man. She is not intimidated by other women, she knows her worth.

7. PURPOSE-DRIVEN

A woman who has her own personal dreams and goals, objectives, aims, and vision. She is hardworking. She has something she loves to do that fires her up. She is busy being her.

8. ENGAGING PERSONALITY

A woman who is not passive, waiting for the man to do everything as she complains when he doesn't. She is a life partner, playing her role. Helping in making decisions, seeking opportunities, and participating. A man loves a woman to walk hand in hand.

9. PATIENCE

A woman who knows she will not get everything she desires immediately. She doesn't put pressure on him. Doesn't gaslight her man. She celebrates growth no matter how small.

10. DEPTH

A woman who can challenge him and inspire him. He listens to her talk and goes "Wow!".

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11/05/2025

MATURITY IN RELATIONSHIP:

1. If you must end a relationship, end it peacefully. No need for war after breakup.

2. Saying a guy is not wise because you ate his money and he didn't/couldn't sleep with you is foolishness.

3. Announcing to the whole world after sleeping with a lady is also foolishness.

4. Stop abusing people because they turned down your proposal.

5. Learn to turn down people's proposal politely and respectfully without insulting and embarrassing them.

6. Don't fight side chics or side guys. If it's not a r@pe case, hold your partner responsible.

7. Don't be offended when someone says "NO" to you. No be quarrel, everyone still reserve their right to say no or yes.

8. If anyone is ignoring you, ignore them too and if they come back to say hi, reply with hello. Life is simple and short.

9. Think twice before you leave your relationship. Think twice before you go back to your ex.

10. Focus on your goals, do your thing, stay safe and be happy. Be confident, believe and trust God.

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11/05/2025

10 DARK SECRETS YOU’RE HIDING FROM YOURSELF (BUT YOU KNOW IT’S TRUE)

1. You secretly enjoy seeing others fail — You won’t admit it, but when someone messes up, it feels a little better for you.

2. You love the drama — You act like you hate it, but you’re always involved in some kind of chaos.

3. You lie to feel better — Saying you don’t care is your favorite lie, but deep down, you do care.

4. You feel good when others struggle — When someone else has a hard time, you feel better about your own life.

5. You play the victim — It's easier to blame others than face your own mistakes.

6. You hate seeing others win — When someone else gets what you wanted, it stings.

7. You crave attention — You pretend you don’t care, but you need people to notice you.

8. You keep toxic people around — You know they’re bad for you, but chaos feels better than being alone.

9. You regret your mistakes but never learn from them — You keep making the same dumb choices, hoping things will change.

10. You manipulate when you need to — You have a way of getting what you want, even if it’s not always fair.

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11/05/2025

5 GOLDEN RULES FOR ATTRACTING A WOMAN WITH A GENUINE DESIRE FOR YOU:

( she won’t think of another man again)

1) stop being angry about female nature.

Female nature can never change. And you shouldn't be angry about it because it's a fool's errand. Instead of being embittered about female nature, try to find leverage—Learn game.

When you learn game and improve yourself, everything becomes easier for you. But when you are angry towards women, women that you deep down WANT in your life, you will never get them. Simply because your anger will blind you from making yourself better to attract women.

And even if you have game, It would be hard for you to keep women in your life when you resent them.

2) Never let disrespect slide. She's like a child. And she will definitely misbehave. If you ignore her misbehaviour so you won't lose her or because you want peace to reign, trust me, she won't respect you.

She will continue to misbehave and misbehave and misbehave. And you will continue to swallow it and all the respect she has for you will disappear.

3) Go after women that show interest in you. This makes EVERYTHING easier for you as a man. A woman with genuine interest in you won't be interested in making your life harder. Her presence will bring peace. She won't play games. But when you go after women...
..who don't have any interest in you, they make your life chaotic.

4) Don't let her tame you: You need to be the same man she entered into a relationship with. Don't let her transform you into a beta. Be the same man, she fell for even when you are in a relationship.

Don't make the mistake of changing yourself. Because the moment you pander to her, she loses respect and attraction for you.

5) Go after women who are into the same things as you: The relationship will last long when you are with a woman who is into the same things as you. For instance:

If she's a slut, you don't need such a woman in your life. If you are into fitness and she smokes or drinks, you shouldn't associate yourself with such a woman.

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20/04/2025

THE 14 TYPES OF GUYS WHO STAY SINGLE:

1. Picky Choosers: Men with specific criteria for their ideal partner that can make it challenging to find a match.

2. Shy Guys: Men who struggle with self-esteem and initiating conversations with women.

3. Man-Child: Immature men looking for someone to cater to their needs without reciprocating in a relationship.

4. Players: Men who avoid commitment, preferring to flirt and keep their options open.

5. Bitter Men: Those who have been hurt in past relationships and carry negative emotions towards women.

6. Unattractive: Men who don't fit societal beauty standards and struggle to attract women.

7. Secretly Gay: Men who hide their true identities due to societal pressures and fear of judgment.

8. Lack Confidence: Men who lack self-belief and struggle to approach women due to past insecurities.

9. Too Nice: Men who are overly agreeable and end up in the friend zone rather than romantic relationships.

10. Lack Effort: Men who don't actively pursue relationships, leading to disinterest from potential partners.

11. Fear Intimacy: Men who fear vulnerability and intimacy in relationships, pushing away potential partners.

12. Choose to be Single: Men who consciously prefer to stay single for personal reasons.

13. Just Want Se¥: Men who seek physical gratification without commitment, commonly known as hook-up men.

14. Workaholics: Men who prioritize their career over relationships, leading to being single due to lack of time and energy for dating.

While these reasons may keep a man single, they are not permanent, and individuals can choose to work on themselves, set boundaries, and be more sincere to improve their chances of finding a fulfilling relationship.

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14/04/2025

NEVER DO THESE 8 THINGS FOR A WOMAN:

1. Don’t give her free attention.

Low-value unconfident males are always trying to buy a woman’s attention and validation by showering her with free attention, compliments, favors, and constant texting.

If she can’t reciprocate the attention and investment, she’s just using you.

Don’t be a sucker.

2. Don’t try to impress her.

Too many males bend over backwards, spending excessive money, time, and effort trying to impress and win over a female through grandiose displays and demonstrations.

A truly grounded, self-assured man doesn’t need to foolishly waste resources proving anything to a woman.

He has intrinsic confidence in his worth without resorting to showy games and gimmicks.

Men of value remain unshakably self-possessed.

3. Don’t be her therapist.

So many clueless males listen to every little emotional issue and insipid drama fest their female friend vents about for hours on end, acting as an unpaid, unappreciated therapist.

Wake up, she’s just using you as an emotional tampon while getting her actual intimacy needs met elsewhere.

A high-value man has self-worth and better things to do than be some woman’s surrogate mom.

Keep talks brief and avoid her emotional chaos.

4. Don’t let her control you.

Guys too many women say they want a nice, agreeable partner who follows their lead until they actually get one.

Then they’re inevitably turned off by the lack of strength and autonomy. You think the high-value businessmen, celebrities, and athletes that females swoon over let some broad dictate all their decisions and actions of course not?

Make your own choices like a self-directed man.

5. Don’t abandon your boundaries.

Women are masters at pushing men’s boundaries in insidious ways, cajoling them to abandon principles and do things they’re distinctly uncomfortable with all in the name of making her happy.

Once you cross that line for her, she’ll promptly lose respect for your lack of integrity.

High-value Alphas don’t yield their standards and fold their boundaries on a whim for the sake of plating a woman’s entitlement.

6. Don’t revolve your life around her.

Too many young men these days have zero sense of ambition, identity, or social circles outside of pathetically revolving their entire lives around whatever woman reluctantly gives them crumbs of attention and physical intimacy.

They happily sideline their interests, hobbies, goals, and guy friends to chase the near miss validation of being some female’s obsessive orbiter. Women can sense the soul-crushing thirst from a mile away, and it’s utterly repulsive.

A man of high value doesn’t alter the core of who he is for the sake of any female.

7. Don’t tolerate manipulation.

Women are masters of subtle and not-so-subtle manipulation tactics from a very young age.

Pouting, playing dumb, using guilt, and crying are just a few of the patterns you’ll see.

The second a high-value man detects these emotional ploys, he shuts them down immediately and refuses to play into the manipulation games.

He sees through transparent attempts to garner pity and unearned sympathy.

He’s not so psychologically weak that he falls for childish mind-warping techniques.

8. Don’t morally compromise.

High-value, high-integrity men don’t gradually corrode their principles and core virtues by indulging female partners who try to convince them to stray from their moral compass through persistent coaxing and rationalizing.

Whether it’s prolifically lying, cheating, or anything else that would wound their conscience, truly grounded men hold fast to their ethical stances rather than slowly eroding them to keep a woman superficially interested or content through guilt and games.

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12/04/2025

15 RED FLAGS IN A MAN:

1. He believes his parents are responsible for his miserable life.

2. He's a nice guy who's always available & doesn't have a life.

3. He distracts himself with pleasure and has no purpose in life.

4. Likes gossiping about others.

5. Give constant excuses and whine about his problems.

6. Lack self-discipline to take action.

7. Has a victim mentality.

8. He can't control his emotions and get easily offended.

9. He is desperate and puts women on pedestal.

10. He's fat and in terrible shape but doing nothing about it.

11. He can't control his sexual urges and food cravings.

12. Has a weak eye contact, sloppy handshake and afraid to stand for what he believes in.

13. Complains instead of fixing his own problems.

14. If he smokes w**d he's a weak man.

15. He's easily influenced and always looking for validation from others.

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11/04/2025

HOW A MAN CAN MAKE HIMSELF SEXIER TO WOMEN:

1. Develop a calm and collected presence

Masculine energy is calm, grounded, and composed.

Most men move with nervous, erratic energy—constantly fidgeting, over-explaining, trying to win approval.

A man who’s slow, intentional, and unbothered by chaos creates a magnetic presence.

It signals inner confidence and emotional control—two traits that women unconsciously crave in a partner.

Stillness is power. Stop chasing attention. Let it chase you.

2. Be unavailable… but not aloof

Too many men think constant attention equals affection.

It doesn’t—it signals neediness.

The man who’s building his life, focused on his mission, and not always available comes off as valuable.

When she knows you’re not sitting around waiting for her, your attention becomes rare—and rare is sexy.

The goal isn’t to play games—it’s to have a life so full that she naturally wants to be part of it.

3. Show ambition without announcing it

The most attractive men aren’t the ones constantly bragging about their goals.

They’re the ones working quietly, letting their results speak for them.

You don’t need to broadcast your ambition—just live it.

Be that man who’s clearly chasing something greater, who wakes up with purpose, and whose actions reflect future success.

Women are deeply drawn to drive. It makes them feel they’re choosing a man going somewhere.

4. Dress like your image matters—because it does

Style is a reflection of how much you value yourself.

If you look like you just rolled out of bed, people will assume your life is in the same condition.

You don’t need designer clothes.

You need well-fitted, clean, intentional outfits.

Stick to timeless masculine styles: solid colors, tailored jeans, a fitted tee, clean shoes, a subtle scent.

If you look put together, she’ll assume everything else is too.

5. Master the art of eye contact

Most men avoid deep eye contact out of insecurity.

But the eyes are where attraction begins.

When you look into her eyes—without flinching, without rushing, without creepy intensity—you communicate confidence, comfort, and clarity.

Hold the gaze. Smile lightly. Speak slowly.

It tells her: You are present. You are masculine. You are unshaken.

6. Speak with calm, deliberate energy

Stop rushing.

Fast talk = nervous talk. And it instantly kills attraction.

Speak like a man who isn’t afraid of silence.

Use pauses. Emphasize important words. Cut the filler.

A slow, controlled tone communicates strength.

Women will lean in to hear you—not because you’re loud, but because you’re grounded.

7. Build a world that excites you

Sexiness isn’t just physical.

A man with passion, purpose, and personal pursuits becomes 10x more attractive.

Whether it’s building a business, mastering a craft, or leading a tribe—women feel drawn to men who are in motion.

If your life is empty, you’ll expect her to fill it.

But if your life is full, she’ll want to be part of it.

8. Lead—without being controlling

Masculine leadership is not dominance.

It’s clarity. Direction. Presence.

Know what you want. Make decisions.

Whether it’s choosing the restaurant, setting plans, or handling problems—show initiative.

Women don’t want to carry the mental burden of leading.

They want a man they can trust to move through life with purpose and decisiveness.

9. Control your emotional spikes

Your emotional control is one of your greatest assets.

Reacting emotionally to problems, getting angry easily, or constantly seeking validation makes you feel unstable.

Women want to feel safe with a man.

And safety comes from knowing he won’t break down at every challenge.

Be the calm during chaos. The rock when storms hit.

That kind of emotional composure is magnetic.

10. Leave a bit of mystery

If you share everything too soon, there’s no chase.

No curiosity. No tension.

Keep some layers hidden.

Let her earn access to the deeper sides of you.

Don’t tell her every thought. Don’t explain every move.

Let her wonder. Let her guess. Let her want more.

Mystery isn’t manipulation. It’s maintaining self-respect and boundaries while building anticipation.

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11/04/2025

WINNING A WOMAN’S HEART❤️: LIFE LESSONS TO LIVE BY.

1. Know Her Well – To win a woman's heart, a man should understand both how she presents herself and how she feels inside.

2. Life is Uncertain – We see people pass away every day, but we often think it won't happen to us.

3. Different Focus – Women usually care about looks, while men often think about social status. It’s like they wear different masks to connect with each other.

4. Share Secrets – Telling secrets to someone can create attraction, even with strangers.

5. Happiness and Sleep – When you’re happy, you need less sleep. When you’re sad, you feel like you need more rest.

6. True Strength – Many believe being strong means not feeling pain, but truly strong people feel pain and keep moving forward.

7. Confident Men – Confident men don’t worry about what others think during tough times; they share their feelings openly.

8. Insecure Men – Insecure men often doubt themselves; they may apologize too much or try to win people over with gifts.

9. Self-Deception – People are good at lying to themselves and to others.

10. Women and Power – Women usually prefer men who have social influence. Being overly flattering or submissive may not work well.

11. Actions Speak – You can learn a lot about someone just by watching what they do.

12. Too Much Admiration – Women often find it unattractive when men praise them too much.

13. Worrying Doesn't Help – Worrying rarely makes a situation better.

14. Feeling Insulted – You might feel insulted only if you believe there’s a bit of truth in the insult.

15. Take Action – Taking action gives you a boost; the more you do, the more motivated you feel.

16. Friend Zone – Nice guys sometimes focus too much on making women comfortable and end up stuck in the friend zone, with women showing little interest.

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07/04/2025

With Ernesto global – I just made it onto their weekly engagement list by being one of their top engagers! 🎉

07/04/2025

COMMON SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN:

1. When a woman is mad, she doesn’t mean everything she says. A hug can help calm her down.

2. A woman feels sad when she is away from the man she loves.

3. It takes time for a woman to trust a man. If you mess up, it’s hard to win her back.

4. A woman is like a school; you will always learn new things about her.

5. Your marriage certificate is not a "license" to stop trying. It’s just a "learning permit." Keep showing her love.

6. A woman can be upset now and happy later. How you treat her makes a big difference.

7. A woman remembers hurts very well, so be careful with your words and always support her.

8. Women can keep secrets. When they are tough on the outside, they may be sad inside. Be her best friend.

9. Women like to feel special. Sometimes they want you to ask nicely. Treat them like they are important.

10. A woman's presence is important, even if you don't notice it. When she’s not around, things feel different.

11. If she loves you, she will do things to make you happy. Don’t force her feelings.

12. If you don’t take care of her, she might find someone else who will.

13. If a woman loves you, she might be shy to ask for money. But as a good partner, be ready to help her without her asking.

If you have a great woman in your life, appreciate her. She’s a treasure. Don’t hurt her because others would love to have someone like her.

Behind every successful man, there’s a good, honest woman. ❤️

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06/04/2025

11 STUPID HABITS THAT WILL KEEP YOU BROKE AND MISERABLE:

1. Spending to impress

You’re buying designer clothes, popping bottles, and trying to flex on social media while your bank account is crying for help.

Bro, real wealth is quiet, only clowns need validation.

2. Living paycheck to paycheck

You earn just enough to survive, then blow it all before your next check.

No savings, no investments, just vibes. You’re one emergency away from total disaster.

3. Ignoring financial education

You know every football stat and celebrity gossip, but you don’t know how to grow money.

Broke people avoid learning about wealth, and that’s why they stay broke.

4. Relying on one source of income

If your only income is your 9-5 job, you're playing a dangerous game. The moment that paycheck stops, you're finished.

Wealthy men build multiple streams of income.

5. Being comfortable with mediocrity

You do the bare minimum, refuse to upgrade your skills, and expect life to bless you.

Success demands action, but you're sitting around making excuses.

6. Loan addiction

Borrowing money for liabilities instead of assets is financial su***de.

If you’re taking loans to buy nonsense, you’re signing up for a lifetime of debt slavery.

7. Wasting time on distractions

You spend hours scrolling social media, watching Netflix, or arguing online.

Meanwhile, disciplined men are using that same time to build businesses and level up.

8. Emotional spending

You’re sad? You buy something. You’re happy? You buy something.

Your emotions control your wallet, and that's why you're always broke.

9. Trying to save your way to wealth

Saving is important, but if you don’t invest and grow your money, inflation will eat it alive.

Money sitting in a bank won’t make you rich.

10. Chasing women instead of wealth

You spend all your energy trying to impress women, taking them on expensive dates, and simping your way into poverty.

Focus on your bag, when you're successful, women will chase you.

11. Blaming the system instead of adapting

Yes, life is unfair. Yes, the economy is tough.

But the men who win don’t waste time complaining, they find ways to dominate regardless of the situation.

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