14/12/2023
Marriage Talk.
Your life will change forever either to GOOD or to BAD after marriage and childbirth.
you see marriage, my sister plain it ooo. be ready to accept CHANGE. Be aware that from single to marriage is another phase of life, they can never be same, So that when you face some kind challenges in marriage that will shake you and your believe, you would boldly tell the devil that "shaking me is all you've got but you can never break me"
Devil will come o.
village people will come too.
but if you didn't prepare, it will hit you differently.
you see marriage? forget money ooo, money can come and may scarce in time.
money can still be available and challenges that will overwhelm you will come.
But the worst na when money no dey + some kind challenge🙁it will hit you differently, it will shake your skeleton.
Don't just go into marriage. i know why i am hammering it and it's because i'm there.
i learnt a lot growing up, the struggle growing up and teaching myself all i know today, the street thought me tough and i prayed never to have or see a child face what i went through.
it's not working the way i wanted it because life pushed me into marriage, i would have waited a little more to be financially stable. mentally i have accepted to take anything life throw at me but not everyone can withstand. and that's is the more reason why i write this
Plan marriage o, plan it, go for marriage counseling, take marriage courses, prepare your mind, discussion marriage.
engage your partner in conversations for future purposes.
I'm not a motivational speaker or a teacher nor counselor but i am speaking from experience. If i have heard the chance, i would have done better. But when we plan and it doesn't align with Gods plan for us.
Things will take a wrong turn.
Be aware of the challenges that may likely occur in every step you want to make that concern's your future so that it will help you stand strong and won't sink you when the waves blow.
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ANDRA