10/04/2025
I’ve always told ladies to get pregnant before they get married…
But they don’t want to listen.
All they carry on their heads is the tradition of,
“Let’s get married first before we get pregnant.”
Now before you pick up a stone to stone me,
Let me explain the kind of pregnancy I’m talking about.
I’m not talking about physical pregnancy.
I’m talking about the kind of pregnancy that births your becoming.
I’m talking about getting pregnant with purpose.
Getting pregnant with vision.
Pregnant with a business idea.
Pregnant with a skill that can change your life.
Why do we wait for marriage before we start discovering who we are?
Why do we believe life begins after a ring?
Why don’t we get pregnant with destiny before we walk down the aisle?
Now is the time to conceive.
Now that you’re single.
Now that you’re free.
Now that you have fewer distractions and more time to understand yourself.
This is the best time to get pregnant with value.
So that when marriage comes, it meets you carrying something...
Something beautiful.
Something powerful.
Something the world is waiting to see.
Don’t wait to become a wife before you become a woman of purpose.
Don’t wait for approval before you start building your life.
Get pregnant now with a dream, with knowledge, with a skill, with passion.
Pregnancy with purpose won’t break you, it will build you.
And when you finally say “I do,”
You’ll walk into that union not just as a bride…
But as a woman already full of value, vision, and destiny.
So again I say,
Get pregnant before marriage.
Your future self will thank you for it.
And if as a MAN, you think this message is referring to just ladies, it is a sign that you are yet to be serious with life.
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Copied from Kathryn Esther Clement