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LanMathew, opposite Benue state university main gate, Makurdi (2025)

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30/06/2025

Listen up, son!

It is not your duty to pay a woman’s school fees just because you’re dating or sleeping with her. That’s her father’s responsibility; not yours.

It is not your job to rent her an apartment. If she can’t afford one, let her go home or squat with a friend; not you.

Stop allowing women to pressure you into taking on their personal and family responsibilities in the name of love or s*x.

Today, many relationships are no longer built on love; they’re built on survival and financial gain. Most girls date for money, lifestyle, and escape, not real connection.

Stop dating liabilities. If she can’t take care of herself, she’s not ready to date; she’s still growing, no matter her age.

Being in love with a woman is not an excuse to become financially foolish.

S*x is not a transaction; and women enjoy it as much (if not more) than you. You have responsibilities; to yourself, your future, and your family. Don’t neglect them just to carry a woman who’s not handicapped.

Support her if you want to; but from a place of wisdom and kindness, not duty. If she starts using emotional blackmail to drain your wallet, cut her off.

It’s better to pay a pr******te; at least you know what you’re getting; than be trapped in a relationship with a broke girl who disguises transactional s*x as love.

Choose peace. Choose purpose. Choose wisely. Receive wisdom so God won’t punish you for 603 years .

Clear?

30/06/2025

Listen up, son.

You’re the one meant to spoil your woman s*xually, not the other way around. A man is supposed to lead; even in the bedroom. S*xual leadership is part of masculine authority.

But here’s the problem: If she’s got more s*xual experience than you, you’ll spend your life trying to catch up, impress her, and outdo her past. That chase will drain you; mentally, emotionally, and s*xually.

This is why s*xual purity and restraint still matter when choosing a woman to marry. Don’t bring a wild animal into your home and expect her to become a house pet. Some creatures can’t be tamed; especially after they’ve tasted too much freedom.

There’s a reason we don’t use race cars to learn how to drive. There are practice tools, and there are life partners. Learn the difference.

Personally, I teach my sons: A woman with a higher body count than you—red flag. A woman more experienced in bed than you—red flag. A woman who binge-watches p**n and calls it “normal”—red flag. That’s not wifey material. That’s a loaded time bomb.

Because no one becomes an expert overnight; not even in s*x. It takes years of exposure, experimentation, and practice. So if she’s too advanced, ask yourself: Where did she learn all this? And why?

You are called to build a home, not a rehab center. Leave wild women to the wild. Do with this truth what you will. One thing is sure, you will remember daddy’s voice.

Clear?

30/06/2025

Listen to me, son!

Once you hit 30, life comes fast and hard. If you haven’t built discipline, character, and vision early, you’ll struggle. Stop living for the crowd. Stop dancing to the gallery. Your life is your personal project; pilot it toward greatness.

Most men in their late 30s and 40s are living in deep regret. They wasted their teens and 20s chasing women, pleasure, and distractions instead of preparing for life. Don’t follow that path.

The future is friendly only to those who invest in it early. But it’s brutal for those who arrive unprepared and clueless. You won’t forgive yourself for wasting your prime years.

That p**n, drinking, womanizing, gambling, laziness, and loud living you boast of now; one day, you’ll be ashamed of them. They’re not trophies. They’re slow poisons.

You’re becoming too old to keep living like a fool. Expensive clothes, club bills, gadgets, and girls don’t make you a man. Tangible achievements do. Discipline does. Purpose does. Results do.

Wake up! Your future is waiting for you to grow up and take life seriously. You’re approaching an age where regret becomes your only companion; unless you act now.

Don’t be a fool. Take action. I love you .

Clear?

29/06/2025

Listen up, men!

As a man, never let your woman get too comfortable and relaxed around you. It will always lead to subtle abuse, overfamiliarity, and disrespect from her, and it will be your fault.

Women can't deal with a man's over exposure and vulnerability without losing their cool. It won't breed more love as you think but disrespect from her.

Protect your space. Constantly guide against the danger of overfamiliarity. Most women don't know how to stay respectful to a man when they get to see him thoroughly. They start fumbling and misbehaving unknown to them.

The practice of selective withdrawal on your part will reinstate and ancentuate your value to her. If you become too available to your woman, she will start subtly toying with you and your emotions. It's a woman's tendency, and she can't help it.

This is why you as a man must learn game to stay on top of the relational dynamics between men and women. Practice selective withdrawal from time to time. Alternate between hotness and coldness in your character, behaviour, and dealings with her. Become unpredictable. Avoid "see finish" by all means necessary.

Don’t be too easy to figure out. A man must always stay in control and keep his woman guessing his next move. In doing so, you are in control of her feelings and emotions. That's how to keep her hooked and fixated on you.

From time to time, be alone. Build a life without her, get busy on your dreams and pursuits. It is only weak men that make their women the centre of their world. Give her the time and mental space to miss you, and stop being overly nice and all over her. She is nothing special. Become productively busy and see!

Your selective, subtle and calculated withdrawal will further reinstate your value and usefulness to her. As a man, never build your life, hope, dreams, and habits around your woman. Get a hobby, build genuine friendship with other men, enjoy your life, go outing, fishing, sports with your friends, play fifa, go to the cinema and have a good time alone, without your woman.

Genuinely make efforts to be happy without her. It will keep her guessing, keep her on her toes under your control and that positive aura you exude around you will keep her hooked and fixated on you whenever she's with you, giving you the power dynamics in that relationship

Stop loving stupidly, learn game, and maintain your masculine frame. Remember, as a man, you are the prize. Act like it!

Clear?

29/06/2025

Listen to me, son.

You sent her money for shawarma and ice cream again this weekend, but you're still wearing boxers with holes and singlets that look like you work in a mechanic garage.

Does that sound like wisdom to you? No, it sounds like a man with misplaced priorities and zero self-respect.

Love yourself. Value yourself. You worked hard for the money. Use it on yourself. Buy yourself something nice. Start with a new underwear this coming week. Please!

Clear?

29/06/2025

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29/06/2025

Listen to me, son.

This one will sting—but I won’t apologize for telling you the truth.

A woman who smokes w**d cannot be sensible. She won’t make a good wife, and she’ll be a poor role model; especially to your daughter. What is wrong with you?

A woman who drinks excessively and parties recklessly is a dangerous liability, not someone you bring into your home or build a future with. That’s not a partner; that’s a problem.

Marry a woman with sense. One who was raised well. One who has shame. One who upholds traditional values. Choose feminine women, not breweries, party animals and exhaust pipes in female skin.

Tell me; how can a normal woman outdrink men at a party and still call herself a lady? How can she roll a tight blunt, do "puff-puff-pass" with the boys, and still expect to be respected?

There are things ladies shouldn’t be doing; and even if they must, they should do it discreetly. A woman who drinks recklessly, dances seductively openly, and smokes comfortably outside has lost her shame, her sense, and her femininity.

She’s finished. The only thing she can offer is s*x. Nothing more. She’s useless to a focused man.

It is pure foolishness to prioritize a party animal over a sensible, homely, decent woman; all because she has big yansh and you “like fun.” You won’t be a boy forever. Grow up.

There are babes created for the weekend; and a few women created by God to be wives. Don’t turn a weekend babe into your lifetime partner. You’ll learn there’s a big difference between 12 and half a dozen. Receive sense!

Clear?

29/06/2025

Security Alert: Ban on Scrap Metal Business

To: All Residents of Kwande/Ushongo

The Kwande United People's Organization (KWUPO) has banned the commercial trading of scrap metal (popularly known as "iron condemn") in Kwande/Ushongo due to credible intelligence suggesting its use by terrorists to facilitate attacks in our communities.

We urge all residents to immediately stop engaging in this business and report anyone found violating this directive to security agencies. We request the assistance of:

- Police
- State Security Service
- Military
- Civil Defense
- Vigilante groups

in enforcing this order without delay.

We also call on the Kwande/Ushongo Local Governments Chairmen to ensure immediate implementation and notify the Hausa community within our local governments.

All motorcycle riders and transport unions are advised to be vigilant and report suspicious movements to security agents or contact:

Comrade Aloko Nachi: 09052594683

Agbul Aondolumun Philip: 08028722283

We will not hesitate to deal with anyone violating this order. Let's work together to keep our communities safe.

Signed:

Comrade Aloko Nachi
President General

Agbul Aondolumun Philip
Secretary General

29/06/2025

As the Tiv adage wisely puts it, "When illness persists, treatment must continue." In line with this, despite today being Sunday, the Executive Chairman of Ukum Local Government, Hon. Jonathan Modi, is actively on ground, overseeing the deployment of security personnel to some of the affected areas. All necessary logistics have been fully arranged to ensure a smooth and effective operation.

Stay tuned for more updates

29/06/2025

Listen to me, son.

Never judge a book by its cover, and never judge a church girl by her Sunday performance.

Not everything that glitters is gold. It’s easy to dress holy, sing loud, and act pious for a few hours. Real character shows outside the church.

Watch how she lives during the week; how she talks, acts, dresses, works, and treats people. Her social media accounts, attitude with friends, family, strangers, and authority will reveal more than any Sunday service ever can.

Don’t fall for a well-packaged stranger. A woman may attract you in church; but study her outside the pulpit. Observe her over time. Look at her life circle. That’s where truth hides.

Vet her. Ask the right questions:

• Who is she when no one is watching?

• What’s her background?

• What are her values on God, money, work, relationships and life?

• Can she sustain character under pressure?

Marriage is not built on vibes. It’s built on vision, values, and verified character. Spend time to know her.

Some men married street girls in church wrappers because they judged holiness by a long skirt and a lifted hand during worship.

Church is a hospital. Not everyone responds to treatment. And not every tear is genuine repentance; some are strategy.

Time will always tell. Observe. Ask. Discern. Don’t be deceived. Let me stop here for now.

For those of you who haven't sent in your tithe and offering for the week can do so today, so God won't punish you for 603 years.

Clear?

29/06/2025

SS 3 students of Gyutiev Model College in Benue State set their principal’s house ablaze over an alleged failure to register them for NECO after collecting N85,000 from each of the 178 students, a total of over 15 million Naira.

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