Thriving With May

10/04/2025

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13/01/2025

Happy New Year Fam!
A new year. New beginning.
It's a new season; a season for greater works.
A new dispensation just begun.
Leggo!!

01/01/2025

Welcome to 2025, the year of greater works!
#2025

08/12/2024

The sound tracks of my year!
thanks for being a vessel. Thanks for capturing this.
#2024

15/10/2024

04/10/2024

The Hubs and I. ❤️❤️
Happy weekend Fam.

02/09/2024

Today Ujay turned 15!💃💃💃

Ujay, a son after his Mom's heart. Thanks darling for making this parenting journey easier for me.

Happy birthday son, Momma loves you to the moon and back!! 💝🥰🎉🎉🥳🥳

27/08/2024

Parenting Teens With Minimal Drama 101:

Tip #1. Teach them how to manage freedom.They must be held accountable for how responsibly (or not), they use the freedom given to them.

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23/08/2024

"As your kids morph into teens, you must start relaxing your grip on them, and start allowing them more independence.

If you don’t, you run the risk of raising kids, who can’t wait to escape from you.

And when I say freedom, I mean both for choice and expression. (Bear this fact in mind- this young generation value their freedom above all else.)

Be their safe place. Allow them their voice in your home.

Make it that your home is where your kids escape to, and not from!

So many young people can’t wait to leave home. But it shouldn't be that way. 

Develop the culture of..."
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18/08/2024

Have you seen a fine girl today?

13/08/2024

Happy birthday to my forever boyfriend!
May lines continue to fall in pleasant places for you.

You are deeply loved and appreciated. You are a world class husband and father.

Have the most amazing year ahead!

13/08/2024

"As your kids step into their pre-teen , it becomes safe to start releasing your grip on them. You can start taking up the role of a friend and a coach with them. 

As a friend; you become their confidant and cheerleader.

While as a coach; you motivate them. 

You guide them to developing healthy goals and strategies. And are there to hold them accountable to them.

One thing I instinctively started doing with my kids as preteens, was that I started  pouring into them the “Whys” and "Wherefores” of life.

 This wasn’t a planned strategic move. It Just happened.

But thinking of it now, I realized that it was one of the gifts of the global lockdown of 2020. As we were forced to spend time with one another, I had the time and opportunity to answer many of their endless questions.

 I saw myself picking on every occurrence, and explaining the principle behind it. This famously (or infamously, depending on who is telling the story) became known as the “Teachable Moments” between myself and the kids. That’s because, I will always start these unscheduled lectures with...."
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