06/03/2026
SHE URGENTLY NEED YOUR ADVICE
"So, i have a baby daddy issue. First, he got me pregnant & denied the pregnancy after pressuring me to àbørt. I reported him to Welfare, & they forced him to take care of the child & me until a certain age.
We weren't in a relationship anymore. However, he was taking care of us. Later, when I was six months pregnant, he came apologizing for us to get back in a relationship. I refused, but he asked his sister to plead on his behalf since we are best friends. He even involved my mom, who pleaded on his behalf, & I accepted him back.
When I gave birth to our daughter & she was 3 months old, I noticed he was ch'''ting on me with a certain rich lady in my neighborhood. When I confronted them, he told me right there to my face, in front of the lady that he didnt want me anymore & that I should stop forcing myself on him. That day, I went back, got into the bathroom, & cried the pains away. After that, I decided to be happy & move on. He never tried to reach out, not even to ask about his child. I never reached out to him either.
6 months later, I heard he got married to the same girl, & they both relocated to Ghana, which happens to be the lady's home country. It's been 6 years since we broke up. I've moved on & even got married 2 months ago to a loving & caring guy who has been so supportive & caring towards me & my child. All these years, my baby's daddy has never reached out to me
But, Last week, I got a call from my baby's daddy, saying we should meet up. I had to call his sister to ask what her brother meant, & she said his marriage is over, that's why he wants to meet up with me. But that guy hurt me badly; he left me heartbroken & never even tried to reach out to ask even after his own child
I've been a single parent to our daughter since then, trying to provide & give her the best. Now that his marriage is over, he wants to come back to me. I've blocked him, but he's still using new numbers to get to me. Please help me; what should I do so he'll understand that I've moved on? I don't want him, but he keeps being stubborn and persistent. My husband has no clue about this since I haven't told him yet cuz i don't want him to feel worried or disturbed.
My baby daddy keeps calling & texting asking that i hear him out & pleading we have a private meeting at his sister's place this coming Sunday. Pls, I'm confused "
- Anonymous Poster
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