Ihuomachukwu

07/06/2025

Something is definitely wrong somewhere.

"I'm a man in my middle 40s. But I'm shedding uncontrollable tears typing this paragraphs. I'm going through a situation that keeps haunting me & my future, as I'm left confused

My mom passed away giving birth to me; I was solely raised by my dad. He raised me as a single parent cuz he never remarried for reasons I do not know. However, unfortunately, I lost him at the age of 29 after I just completed my university studies. Dad died in a car acc-dent when he went for business in Gabon; we tried, but it was somehow complicated to transport the bø'dy from that country, so he was buried there.

After a few months, I landed myself a good job with very good salary as a banker. I later got married to my long-term girlfriend 8 months later. After a year, she got pregnant but sadly couldn't make it out of the labor room; she passed away after giving birth to our daughter. I was heartbroken & I mourned her for 3 yrs.

I met a beautiful lady, Lizeth, whom I dated for a yr; she got pregnant while we were dating, & I decided to make our relationship legal. We got married when she was 2 months pregnant; 7 months later, she unfortunately passed away after childbirth. I was devastated. I loved this woman with everything in me. She was a kind woman; she understood & loved my daughter like there was no tomorrow, & now she passed away, leaving me with another daughter to take care of all by myself. I mourned her for 4 yrs.

At some point, family intervened & advised that I needed a wife who could look after my kids & also be a companion. I gave it a though & decided to open my heart to love again. Then I proposed to Sonia, my current wife. We didn't actually date for long since she's my colleague at work. We were already fond of each other as workmates. I already knew her well enough, & she knew me in & out, too; most importantly, she loves & was so fond of my daughters. She accepted my proposal.

We stayed for almost 2 years without an issue until God finally blessed us. I was so happy when doctors confirmed that she was carrying a son. We bought all the necessary items & were expecting our child. We had so many plans for him, & the thought of his coming was our everyday joy; we just couldn't wait for his arrival. My wife would usually pick out a favorite dress she bought for him & just be feeling excited & smiling to herself, & sometimes even sleep off while holding the little dress to her chest

2 days ago, I was called up while at work & was told, my wife was in labor & had been rushed to the hospital. I quickly left to the hospital at once. When I got there, our family doctor was smiling at me while congratulating me; I was so happy, & demanded to see them at once. My son was brought to me, only for the doctor to calmly tap me on my right shoulder, asking me to take heart cuz the mother did not make it.

Please, What have I done, & why is all this happening to me? I can't remember whom I've wronged in the past, or Could this be karma playing on me cuz of my mom's dth after giving birth to me 44 years ago? I was just a fêtus in the womb; I knew nothing & would never intentionally hurt my own mother. I grew up without a mother's love, every day of my life, I've wished I experienced the love of a mother.

I wish to get married & also live happily with my wife & kids as a happy family, I'm successful & more than financially capable to take care of a family but as it stands, I'm tired, confused, & devastated, never knew what dpr''sion feels like until now😭🤦🏼‍♂️"

06/06/2025

Happy Eid Mubarak my people🥰

Breakfast is served my people 🥰😄

24/05/2025

"Omor things Dey happen ooo. Na so one pastor announce in church last week"if you know your wife is controlling you, move to the left". All the men in the church moved to the left except one man. The pastor was happy that there was at least one strong man, and asked, " How come your wife can't control you? ".
The man quietly replied, it's my wife who told me not to move!"

22/05/2025

George Wendt, a famous American actor known for portraying Norm Peterson on the NBC hit comedy Cheers, is dead.

George Wendt died peacefully in his sleep on Tuesday May 20 2025, at age 76.

Wendt’s publicist, Melissa Nathan made the announcement in a statement issued on Tuesday.

The family according to the release, requested privacy at this time.

“Beloved actor and comedian, George Wendt known for starring in the NBC hit comedy Cheers, has passed away. He will be missed forever,” the statement said.

24/12/2024

*Breaking News* ;

The federal Road Safety Corps has Recommended the following Hymns to Guide us while driving in this festive periods. Check the hymns below and choose for yourself the one that best suit you.

*-At 60km/h*
*"It is Well With My Soul"*

*-At 80km/h*
*"God will Take Care of Me."*

*-At 100km/h*
*"Guide Me Oh Thou Great Redeemer."*

*-At 120km/h*
*"Nearer My God to Thee.*

*-At 140km/h*
*"This World Is Not My Home."*

*-At 160km/h*
*"Lord, I Am Coming Home."*

*-At 180km/h*
*"I Fly Away..."*

*-At 200km/h*
*"I Have Decided To Follow Jesus..."*

*-At 220km/h*
*"Take my life..."*

*Please don't just laugh it off, learn the hymns and adjust. The Road is very Patient but it doesn't forgive.*

10/12/2024

Amen 🙏

07/12/2024

Ahhh! abeg, this is not for me o

19/11/2024

Perfectly said💯

16/11/2024

Exactly!

15/11/2024

Avoid sudden death at night!

For those who get up at night to inspect the house or urinate....,Every person must take note of the benefit of three and a half minutes to the body immediately you wake up! It often happens: a person who always looks healthy can pass away at night. We often hear stories of people saying: " yesterday, I was talking with him, why did he die suddenly? The reason is that when you get up at night to go to the toilet, it often happens quickly. We stop immediately and the brain does not have blood circulation. Why are the "three and a half minutes" so important? In the middle of the night, when the desire to urinate wakes you up, the ecg pattern can change. By suddenly rising, the brain will be anemic and will cause heart failure for lack of blood. It is advisable to practice the three minutes and a half, which are:

1. When you wake up, stay in bed for a minute and a half.
2. Sit in the bed during the next half-minute;
3. Lower your legs and sit on the edge of the bed for half a minute. After three and a half minutes, your brain will no longer be anemic and your heart will not weaken, which will reduce the risk of falling and sudden death.

Please Repost with your family, friends and loved ones. This can happen to anyone no matter the age. Young or old.

14/11/2024

BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.

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03/11/2024

That's so kind of her

My wife wishes to give 10,000 naira each to 10 mothers for what God has done for her as a new mother.

Kindly state what 10k can do for you as a mother with your account details and do well to share this post.