16/06/2024
Kwaku, a guy I dated from 2011 till after 2018 is currently mad. I don’t know where he is now but after he went mad in 2019, I saw him in 2021. His state was very bad, I pitied him and wanted to undo the ritual but it didn’t work till I gave up. I saw him again recently, around Mataheko and I haven’t been myself since. I just want to undo the curs3 and let him be, at least he has had enough. Can I get any help here?
This is it, I was only 19 years old when he started dating me. I was just done with BECE at that time. He was about five years older but he claimed to love me dearly and wanted to help me further my education and marry me. I gave him a chance and in less than a month, he took my virginity. The following month, I was already pregnant and did my first abortion. I went to the SHS without his help, when the time was due, he said he didn’t have money but my parents were actually capable of doing everything, they didn’t even know I had a boyfriend so I didn’t care.
By year two, I had devised ways of sneaking from school and coming to spend time with this guy. I got pregnant thrice in SHS and of course, I removed all. He made sure I did that anytime it happened. It became normal to me, though painful. He ate my provisions mostly and still didn’t use to give me money but rather take mine.
I completed SHS and he encouraged me to start teaching in a private school and save some money for school. While I was teaching, he was always borrowing money from me and never paying. AT some point, I realized I was doing a useless work so I stopped giving him money and he started complaining so I gave him once a while. I went in for family planning at a young age because of him. HE sl3pt with me almost every day, even when I am on my period sometimes.
Then he suggested I hold on with going to school so we marry. He asked for my support so I added another job which I go to do after school. I also sold water on weekends. We bought things and made sure his room was attractive.
