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Ibrahim Hammed Ishola, Ondo (2025)

08/07/2025

12 Sign You Should Still Fight To Save Your Broken Marriage.

1. Your instincts are telling you that even though you have so many other options, you don’t want to be entertaining any of them. Yes, there are so many other fish in the sea; but that doesn’t matter much to you. You want this particular fish; and you want to fight to make sure that you get to keep this fish in your life no matter how hard or difficult it might be to do so.

2. Whenever your thoughts turn to the idea of your partner actually being with someone else, you feel your insides start to dissolve into acid. You hate it. You get sick and you just want to erase that thought from your mind. You are incredibly possessive of your partner and you want to make sure that you are their only significant other – that no one else should ever come close.

3. The idea of being single again doesn’t really excite you or appeal to you. You aren’t really interested in putting yourself out there anymore. You don’t want o be back on those dating apps and hooking up with random people. You know that you’ve already found the one you want to be with forever; and you just don’t want to be throwing that away.

4. When you are trying to envision a future for yourself, you just can’t manage to do so without thinking of your partner being there with you as well. It’s as if you’re virtually incapable of having a future without this person next to you. You don’t want a future wherein you are forced to face the world alone or with another partner. You want the person that you’re already with.

5. When it comes to wasting time; you never use the word “waste” when you’re with this person. The two of you could just be lounging around the house in your pajamas all day and you would still be able to consider it a productive day. You always LOVE spending time with this person even when you aren’t really doing the most amazing things. Even when you’re fighting, you don’t really mind; so as long as you both are still in each other’s lives.

6. You have a broken relationship that has seen its fair share of battles. And you have had some pretty epic fights. But even though things have gotten really intense between the two of you, neither of you have ever really gone overboard. You still make it a point to always stay conscious of what you’re saying. You always make it a point to watch your words because even though you’re angry, you still ultimately care about the person that you’re fighting with.

7. You adore the familiarity that comes with being with your partner. Even something as simple as having their natural scent and fragrance around all of the time has become very comforting for you. You are able to find peace, safety, and sanctuary in this person even when your relationship has been particularly less than ideal lately.

8. You hate each other at the moment. You are really angry at one another. And there might be even times wherein you just want to rip each other’s heads off. But even when you’re both at your angriest, you still always stay cool enough to maintain your respect for one another. You know that your respect for each other is always going to endure; that it is always going to be uncompromisingly strong.

9. If you’re still physically attracted to your partner, then that’s definitely something that is worth holding on to. There are so many couples that just stop making an effort with how they look for one another; but if you’re still able to maintain that simple luxury in your relationship, then that’s always a good thing – no matter how broken your relationship might be.

10. Okay, so there hasn’t been much smiling in your relationship lately – and that’s why it’s broken. But you still can’t deny the fact that your partner is always going to have the power to make you smile. Your partner is someone who always manages to bring brightness and joy into your life so as long as they put a little more effort into it.

11. You are still proud to have your partner at your side whenever you are out in public together or when you’re interacting with other people. You still have a partner that you can look at and be proud of. This isn’t a human being you would want to hide or separate yourself from. In fact, you want to be as close and as attached to this person as possible – even when things aren’t going so well in your relationship.

12. You don’t really find it nice when other people flirt with you. Why? Because you’re only ever really interested when one particular person is flirting with you. And that’s your partner.

_______© Ibrahim Hammed Ishola

08/07/2025

Happy Wife, Happy Life” Was the First Lie That Ruined Modern Marriage

It sounds sweet.

It sounds noble.

But it was the first lie that trained men to abandon themselves.

It didn’t create love.

It created servitude.

Not hers. Yours.

Let’s break it down.

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1. It Trained Men to Serve Emotions—Not Build Legacy

It didn’t say “build a peaceful home.”

It said “sacrifice your peace to keep hers.”

It didn’t say “lead with wisdom.”

It said “submit your logic to her moods.”

This is how good men became anxious, exhausted, and confused.

Not because they were weak.

But because they were told that saying “yes dear” was masculinity.

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2. It Rewarded Tantrums—and Punished Male Leadership

The moment she slammed a door?

You folded.

The moment she gave the silent treatment?

You apologized for breathing.

The moment she cried?

You agreed to anything just to restore peace.

But peace built on fear is not peace.

It’s emotional blackmail.

And too many men are in hostage negotiations… calling it love.

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3. It Taught Women That Love Means Control

Ask yourself:

When did she stop respecting you?

When you stopped leading.

When did she stop listening?

When you stopped standing.

When did she start testing your boundaries?

The moment she learned that every mood shift equals power.

You don’t teach someone to honor love…

By rewarding their tantrums with your silence.

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4. It Turned the Husband Into the Emotional Janitor

She dumps.

You clean.

She explodes.

You calm.

She offends.

You apologize.

And if you don’t?

You’re “emotionally unavailable.”
You “don’t love her anymore.”
You’re “not a real man.”

But ask her:

What has she done to protect your peace?

What does she sacrifice when you are tired?

Exactly.

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5. It Destroyed the Masculine Order Marriage Was Built On

A kingdom cannot have two kings.

But this lie said:

Let the crown rest on her head—and carry it for her when it’s too heavy.

Don’t lead.
Just listen.
Don’t instruct.
Just adapt.
Don’t challenge her.
Just accept her truth.

But marriage without structure is chaos.

And you can’t build a legacy in a home with no order.

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Final Word: Peace Is a Shared Responsibility—Not a Male Obligation

Yes, peace is essential.

Yes, love requires sacrifice.

But not one-sided sacrifice.

“Happy wife, happy life” ruined marriage because it turned the husband into a servant, not a leader.

A fool, not a builder.

A doormat, not a foundation.

Let’s fix this.

Build homes on mutual duty.
Build peace through shared sacrifice.
Build love on structure, not slogans.

Because if you keep telling men their only job is to make her smile—

Don’t be surprised when they stop smiling themselves.

--- © Ibrahim Hammed Ishola

08/07/2025

If She Doesn’t Fear Losing You—She Was Never Yours.

She keeps threatening to leave.

At every argument.

Every discomfort.

Every conflict.

The first solution in her head is escape—not effort.

And that’s the kind of woman who was never yours.

Because a woman who truly sees your value?

Doesn’t treat you like a disposable subscription.

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1. She Thinks Replacing You Is Easier Than Repairing the Relationship

She’s mastered the art of emotional blackmail:

– “I can do better.”

– “Maybe we need a break.”

– “I don’t think this is working.”

What she’s really saying is:

“You’re not worth the fight. Only the benefits.”

And that’s the most dangerous woman of all—

The one who shops for a new man every time things get hard.

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2. She Trains You to Fear Her Exit

She doesn’t want to leave.

She just wants to control you.

Threats of divorce are her favorite tools.

Because she knows:

When you’re afraid of losing her, you’ll do anything to keep her.

That’s not love.
That’s hostage-taking.

And any man who builds a life with a woman like that?

Will spend the rest of his life begging to be kept.

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3. The “Next Relationship” Is Not a Promotion

Modern women believe leaving makes them look empowered.

So they keep walking out of homes—

Only to walk into apartments of men who don’t value them.

Because history matters.
Loyalty matters.
Roots matter.

The man who meets her at 33 doesn’t care that she was loyal at 27.

He sees mileage—not memories.

She gave up the man who knew her scars… for a stranger who’s only impressed by her shape.

That’s not healing.
That’s delusion.

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4. This Isn’t Just About Women—Men Are Guilty Too

If you constantly threaten to leave…

She’ll start to believe you never planned to stay.

The habit of “walking out to be heard” always backfires.

You train your partner to devalue your presence.

And one day?

She won’t beg you to stay.

She’ll show you the door… and mean it.

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5. Real Love Fights Through—Not Flees Fast

Anyone can walk away.

It takes no strength to quit.

But staying to build, repair, and grow?

That’s what separates lovers from tourists.

If your partner runs the moment it gets rough,

If they joke about divorce when you argue,

If they treat the relationship like a lease…

That’s not your soulmate. That’s a temporary tenant.

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6. Divorce Culture Made Loyalty Look Weak

In 2025?

Loyalty is mocked.
Staying is seen as stupid.
Compromise is called “settling.”

But guess what?

No legacy was ever built by a runner.

If she doesn’t fear losing you,

She doesn’t believe you’re a win.

And no woman who sees you as a placeholder

Will ever build a home that lasts.

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Final Word:

A partner who constantly threatens to leave is not testing your strength.

They’re revealing their weakness.

Because real love doesn’t dangle exits as warnings.

It fights.
It forgives.
It fortifies.

So stop begging people to stay.

If she can joke about leaving you today—

She’ll be serious tomorrow.

And if the one you love doesn’t fear losing you?

You were never truly chosen.

Ibrahim Hammed Ishola

08/07/2025

THINGS TO TELL YOUR DAUGHTERS AS THEY GROW...✍🏾

1: Tell your daughter that Money has no gender. She can make money the way any Man can make it and even more.

2: Tell her to step into the FIELD not the BED to make money. Money from the field comes with dignity, money from the Bed comes with STD.

3: Let your daughter know that she need to trade her brain not her privates to make money.

4: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a rich man, but to work to become rich girl.

5: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a Governor but to work to become the President.

6: Train your daughter that the instrument of money making is under the Hat not under the skirt.

7: Train your Daughter never to Man-hunt but to focus her focus and she will become the focus of many Men.

8: Train your daughter that no man can love her like God, so she must never trade her relationship with God with a relationship with any Man.

9: Train your daughter that internet never forget or forgive, let her know that the foolish post she makes in the internet can depose her from her post tomorrow.

10: Tell your daughter that time wait for no man, if she waste her time with a foolish man, she will wake up one day to discover that it is night time.

11: Tell your daughter that life give back what you give into it, wickedness will be fully repaid.

12: Tell your daughter that beauty is not in exposing nakedness, it is dressing to look like a Queen.

13: Tell your daughter that she is a princess and not a pr******te, tell her to dress to prove she is.

14: Tell your daughter that it is a great wickedness to sleep with the husband of another Woman.

15: let her know that married men do not love her, they only see her as available s*x toy to satisfy the urge in them.

16: Let your daughter know that the best friend she can keep is God, He can not disappoint her.

17: let your daughter know that beauty without brain makes one look like a Decorated pig.

Ibrahim Hammed Ishola

08/07/2025

‎7 Ways to Parent Together Without Fighting All the Time
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‎Parenting is hard. Let’s be honest.
‎Raising children is one of the most beautiful journeys in life, yet it has a way of stretching even the strongest marriages. Many couples who deeply love each other suddenly find themselves arguing over bedtime routines, school fees, discipline, and even what the children should eat for breakfast.
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‎But here's the truth: You don’t have to fight to parent well. In fact, your children are safest and healthiest when mom and dad are working together in love, not tearing each other apart in anger.
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‎Whether you're single and planning for the future, newly married, or already in the thick of parenting, these principles will help you build unity and raise your children without constant conflict.
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‎Let me show you how:
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‎1. Put Your Marriage Before Parenting
‎It sounds strange, but it's true: The best gift you can give your children is a peaceful, loving marriage.
‎Many couples neglect their love life because they are too busy raising kids. But if your home is full of tension, your children will feel it deeply.
‎Work on your marriage daily. Laugh together, pray together, and forgive quickly. When your relationship is strong, you’ll naturally parent better, together.
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‎2. Communicate, Don’t Compete
‎You are not enemies; you are teammates.
‎Don’t turn every parenting decision into a battle of who is right or wrong. Sit down regularly, without distractions and talk about your parenting goals. Ask each other:
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‎“How do we want to raise our children?”
‎“What values do we want to instill in them?”
‎“What kind of adults do we want them to become?”
‎When your vision is clear, your arguments will reduce.
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‎3. Present a United Front to the Children
‎One of the quickest ways to confuse a child is when mom says “YES” and dad says “NO” to the same issue.
‎Even when you disagree, settle it privately. Don't argue in front of the kids. Support each other’s decisions publicly, then later have a respectful conversation in private.
‎Children thrive when they know their parents stand together.
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‎4. Divide Responsibilities, Don’t Dump Them
‎Parenting is not a one-man or one-woman job.
‎Some fathers leave everything for their wives. Some mothers feel overwhelmed and angry because they carry the whole load.
‎Sit down and divide tasks fairly. Who handles bedtime? Who helps with homework? Who goes for school runs? Sharing responsibilities reduces stress and reduces fights.
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‎5. Manage Stress, Don’t Transfer It
‎Parenting is tiring. Add work stress, financial pressures, and household chores—and you have the perfect recipe for frustration.
‎But here’s the key: Don’t take your stress out on your spouse. Your partner is not your enemy.
‎Pray together. Rest when you need to. Talk about your struggles, and support each other through the hard days.
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‎6. Let Love Lead Discipline
‎Many fights between couples happen because one person feels the other is “too harsh” or “too soft” with the children.
‎Don’t discipline out of anger. Don’t try to “prove a point.” Discipline should correct, not destroy.
‎Discuss your discipline approach in advance. Let love, not anger, guide your actions.
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‎7. Keep Growing as Parents
‎No one is born knowing how to parent. Keep learning. Attend parenting seminars. Read books. Listen to wise counsel.
‎And above all, grow spiritually. Ask God to give you wisdom, patience, and grace to lead your home well.
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‎Dear parents, your children are watching. They will learn love, respect, and peace, not from your lectures, but from how you treat each other.
‎You don’t have to be perfect parents, but you can be peaceful ones.
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‎Stop the fighting. Start the teamwork.
‎Because parenting was never meant to be a battleground, it’s supposed to be a partnership filled with love.
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‎© Ibrahim Hammed Ishola

08/07/2025

How to Move From The FRIEND ZONE to Her MAN

1. Stop Being Emotionally Available on Demand.

2. Start flirting with intentional tension, not compliments.

You won’t get out of the friend zone by telling her how beautiful she is every day. In fact, over-validating her just confirms her power over you.

Real flirting isn’t about approval—it’s about tension. It’s subtle eye contact, playful teasing, well-timed silence, and a hint of unpredictability. You build attraction by keeping her slightly on edge, wondering what you think of her.

When you stop feeding her constant praise and instead introduce emotional contrast—being hot and cold, curious and mysterious—you become harder to read. And in the female mind, what’s hard to read becomes hard to forget.

3. Increase physicality without fear.

Men in the friend zone often treat women like glass—afraid to initiate any physical contact for fear of “ruining the friendship.” But touch is essential in triggering attraction.

That doesn’t mean being invasive—it means gradually escalating comfort-level touch: a brief touch on her back as you guide her through a door, sitting closer than usual, playful arm wrestling, or reading her palm.

The goal is to get her used to feeling you physically, because physical familiarity dissolves the wall between “friend” and “potential lover.”

When done with confidence, calibrated touch is often what wakes her up to a new reality: you’re not just a friend—you’re a man she could desire.

4. Speak with s*xual energy—not vulgarity.

Most men in the friend zone communicate like brothers. Their tone is soft, agreeable, and neutral. But attraction lives in energy—and if you never speak with that raw, confident, masculine tone that hints at desire, she’ll never feel the chemistry.

You don’t need to be explicit. You need to own your desire subtly: tell her she looks dangerously good in that dress, say she’s trouble in a tone that makes her wonder if you’re joking, or make eye contact that lingers just long enough to feel deliberate.

She needs to feel the potential of intimacy. And if you never introduce that tension with your voice and vibe, she’ll never see you as more than a friend.

5. Build a magnetic lifestyle that pulls her in.

Women fall for men who are going somewhere—not guys who orbit their world waiting for attention. If she sees you constantly improving—working out, building a business, leading your circle, posting high-value content—she starts seeing you differently.

You go from the guy who’s “always there” to the guy who’s “hard to get.” Your transformation forces her to re-evaluate you. She starts noticing the little things—your jawline’s getting sharper, your voice sounds more confident, your time is more limited.

Suddenly, she’s chasing the man you’re becoming. Stop trying to win her over. Start building a life so strong she can’t ignore the upgrade.

6. Introduce s*xual competitors into the frame.

One of the fastest ways to shift a woman’s perception of you is to subtly make her aware that other women want you. Not through bragging—but through context. Mention you’ve been dating casually.

Let her see attractive women comment on your posts. Speak with the ease of a man who has options. Why? Because preselection is real.

When women see that other women desire you, they start questioning their own view. “What am I not seeing?” you want her to think. That internal conflict creates curiosity—and curiosity is the first step out of the friend zone.

7. Withdraw your emotional investment and redirect it inward.

Right now, she feels your energy constantly leaning toward her. You text first. You ask her how her day went. You worry about what she thinks. Flip the script.

Pull your energy back and invest it into yourself—your fitness, your finances, your mission. Stop updating her about everything. Stop asking how she feels. Let her wonder what you’re up to.

That shift in energy changes how she experiences you. You go from needy and predictable to distant and intriguing. And when women feel the shift, they don’t respond logically—they respond emotionally. They feel the absence, and it starts to haunt them.

When you’re always there to listen to her problems, comfort her after every breakup, or act as her emotional sponge, you position yourself as her safety net, not her fantasy.

8. Men in the friend zone often mistake emotional availability for connection, but she doesn’t crave a therapist—she craves polarity. The more you’re always “there for her,” the more she’ll associate you with platonic comfort.

You have to create space. You must stop being her emotional crutch and start being the man who has boundaries, goals, and limited access.

When you become less predictable, less available, and more self-directed, she starts to notice you as someone she could lose—and that stirs attraction.

9. Take a bold risk and change the tone.

Eventually, you’ll reach a point where you have to stop playing defense and initiate offense. This doesn’t mean confessing your feelings like a rom-com protagonist—it means asserting a change in dynamic.

Invite her on a one-on-one date, but frame it as confident, not hopeful. If she declines or dodges, withdraw. Don’t punish her—but remove the access she had when you were in the friend role. Let her sit with that shift.

Most guys fear this risk because they don’t want to “lose the friendship.” But that’s the problem: as long as you play it safe, you’re reinforcing the very role you’re trying to escape.

10. Develop emotional detachment from the outcome.

Women can sense when your entire sense of worth hinges on their validation. That energy repels them. They want a man who wants them—but doesn’t need them.

To escape the friend zone, you must develop a mindset that says: “I know what I bring to the table, and if you can’t see it, someone else will.”

This doesn’t make you cold—it makes you selective. And nothing flips attraction like the moment a woman realizes you no longer need her attention.

She’ll start wondering, “Why isn’t he chasing me anymore?” That curiosity can ignite new feelings she never expected to feel for you.

~~~© Ibrahim Hammed Ishola

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08/07/2025

‎7 Financial Mistakes That Are Quietly Destroying Marriages Today
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‎Marriage is a beautiful journey, but when money enters the equation, it either becomes a tool for peace or a weapon of destruction. Sadly, many couples today are struggling, not because they don't love each other, but because they are financially divided, confused, or careless.
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‎Whether you're single preparing for marriage, newly married, or have been on this journey for decades, these financial mistakes are silent destroyers. They don’t announce their arrival, but they quietly kill love, trust, and joy.
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‎Here are 7 financial mistakes you must avoid to protect your home:
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‎1. Hiding Financial Secrets (Financial Infidelity)
‎Some husbands have secret bank accounts. Some wives hide their earnings.
‎When secrecy enters your finances, suspicion follows.
‎Your spouse should never have to find out through a stranger or by accident how much you earn or owe.
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‎Marriage thrives in transparency, not in secrecy.
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‎ Question to reflect on: When last did you and your spouse have an honest conversation about money?
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‎2. Living Beyond Your Means (Trying to Impress People Who Don’t Care)
‎Buying the latest iPhones, throwing extravagant birthday parties, or taking fake vacations just to post online.
‎My brother, my sister, will those people clap for you when debt knocks on your door?
‎Humble your lifestyle. Live for your home, not for the applause of outsiders.
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‎3. Disrespecting Financial Roles in Marriage
‎Some men wrongly believe that “money matters are for the wife alone”, while some wives think “he should provide everything.”
‎Marriage is partnership. Both of you must be involved.
‎Don’t let culture or pride assign all the financial burden on one person, it will crush them emotionally.
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‎4. Borrowing Without Agreement
‎A husband borrows money without his wife knowing.
‎A wife secretly takes a loan to support her business.
‎Soon, creditors start knocking, and shame enters the home.
‎If you must borrow, let your spouse know, and better still, don’t borrow carelessly.
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‎5. Neglecting Financial Planning and Savings
‎Many couples don’t plan for tomorrow. They live from hand to mouth, enjoying today and ignoring tomorrow.
‎Without a plan, even plenty money will finish.
‎Sit down together and plan: school fees, rent, emergencies, retirement.
‎No planning = plenty of future suffering.
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‎6. Making Major Purchases Without Mutual Consent
‎Buying a car, building a house, starting a business without your partner’s consent, is a recipe for marital disaster.
‎Don’t surprise your spouse with a car they didn’t approve, or a business they never heard of.
‎Surprises are for birthdays, not for life-altering financial decisions.
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‎7. Ignoring God in Your Finances
‎Some couples plan, hustle, and calculate, but leave God out.
‎They don’t pay their tithes, they don’t give, and they don’t trust God to be their Provider.
‎Money without God is trouble in disguise.
‎Let God be your source, and you will enjoy financial peace.
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‎Dear couple, sit down today and open your financial books to each other.
‎Let honesty replace secrecy.
‎Let planning replace impulse spending.
‎Let contentment replace comparison.
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‎Your marriage deserves peace, not financial war.
‎May your home be free from financial storms, and may your love grow stronger every day.
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‎©️ Ibrahim Hammed Ishola

07/07/2025

If you're above 24 and feel invisible because you're not making progress, consider these 7 things.

1. You are not alone; many people over 24 feel the pressure of unmet expectations, especially when life doesn't align with societal timelines. Take a step back and separate your self worth from external validation.

I finished school at 25 and never had a clear idea where my life was headed till my late twenties. Even then, I was still unsure and afraid. Everyone's journey is unique, be kind to yourself.

2. Invest in yourself. Whether it's learning a skill, enrolling in a short course, or mastering a trade, practical knowledge can elevate your confidence and open doors. In today's unpredictable economy, self development, no matter how small, can eventually become your biggest asset.

At least you can start doing something for yourself if no job comes along so your peers won't insult you or distance themselves from you.

3. Build meaningful relationships. Avoid isolation by reconnecting with old friends, joining interest groups, or volunteering. Please this is important, don't isolate yourself because you feel you are not where you wish to be in life.

Being part of a community not only offers emotional support but can also lead to opportunities in unexpected ways. Join that street association, even if you will owe annual dues. Exchange insults in WhatsApp groups and let people know you're alive. Just don't isolate yourself please.

4. Monetize what you already know. From teaching online to starting a small hustle, there's almost always a way to turn your experience or passion into income. Even if it doesn’t bring instant wealth, earning something, however small, reinforces your value and potential.

Everybody is trying to survive, even those who call you stingy do so because they wish to get something from you. If you call them stingy too, the terrain will be balanced and everybody will know it's not easy.

If you dey ask me and I no get, why you dey vex? Dem stop you from getting it and giving me? Kaikai people!

5. Guard your mental health. Take breaks from social media if it triggers anxiety or inadequacy. Talk to someone you trust, or seek affordable counseling options. Mental exhaustion is real, and ignoring it only deepens the sense of invisibility or worthlessness.

You will see videos and pictures of your mates buying a new car, building house or starting a new job and feel your world can never get better. Please log out if it helps. Look around you, for every one person that succeeded, thousands couldn't and it is tied to the clueless policies of our elected politicians.

Do your best and keep calm. The person you're envying, do you know how they got there?

6. Redefine success for yourself. Most times and especially in our society, success is often equated with money, marriage, or status. Shift that mindset by creating your own markers like peace of mind, steady personal growth, meaningful work. Do these things that matter to you? If they do, leave kaikai people to keep chasing the appearance of wealth and status.

7. Keep showing up. Progress can be painfully slow, but persistence is often what separates those who eventually thrive from those who give up. Apply again. Try again. Pray again. It’s not always about genius or luck, it’s about refusing to stay down.

The preek understands this very well and keeps rising every morning!

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07/07/2025

WHAT WOMEN WANT. (WWW)

1) ATTENTION

Yes, Attention, Women flourish on attention

Call her daily, call her for no reason, call her just to hear her voice,
Text her, Visit her, Take her out. Sit down and gist with her Play Ludo or scrabble with her.

Don't make her fight for your attention, other wise, you'll make her feel unloved, she'll begin to doubt your love, and you may end up losing her.

(2) AFFECTION/INTIMACY

Study her and speak her love language
Let her see the affection even if she closed her eyes.

She craves your love, (except it's your money she's after.)

Every woman wants to be intimate with her, husband except she doesn't love him or she has given up on the Marriage.
Stop being unromantic, and spend some quality intimate moment with your Wife at home, just playing with her hair and cuddling.

(3) YOUR LOVE VOCALIZED

If you are in a Relationship or Married, ask your wife or fiancee, if she'll ever get tired of hearing "I love you" from you,

You know the answer already, they never get tired.

Speak the Love daily let her HEAR it

Write it down as letters, let her READ it.

(3) PAMPERING

A Woman wants to be spoilt, no matter her age, Pet her.

Be gentle with her. She's not a Man,

Be patient with her (especially when mood begins to swing).

Cuddle and pet your Wife like tata (little baby)

Spoil her with your money, get her gifts, even as God blesses you.

(4) HONESTY AND OPENNESS

Most Men find it difficult to be honest and open with their feelings to their wives, unknown to them Women crave this more.

A woman wants to know her husband, his fears, his weakness, his secrets and truth,.

Trust her with them, she wants you to be "naked" to her and not ashamed, then she feels safe and free to reciprocate, trust him with her own secret and her everything, .

(5) FINANCIAL SUPPORT

You were thinking i wouldn't mention this?
No way.

Even if she were a millionaire, your money means more to her than hers.

Every Woman wants the financial support and backing of her husband or fiance to feel loved, forget Ndi "feminists" oh.

(6) COMMITMENT

Yes, Women desire commitment.

If they love you, they want to marry you.

If they marry you, they want children.

They always seek deeper connections,

They want you to keep to your words, commit to your promises, be there for her, for the kids, do right by your family.
Be Responsible...

(7) LEADERSHIP

No, she's not lost.

No, she's not clueless or stupid,

She can as well lead herself,

But when she decides to become your wife and accepts your being her head, she voluntarily allows you play that role.
So step up.
Spiritually and otherwise.
..............When you are constantly doing all these, her Submission will come naturally on auto pilot, she will happily follow your leadership, take your corrections, easily forgive your short comings, respect you, honor you, she will surrender everything about herself to you and do anything to make you happy,
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Loving a Woman isn't easy at times,
That's why you start learning by Loving her God.

Ibrahim Hammed Ishola

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