10/06/2022
Her eyes were red and swollen. One could literally tell she'd been crying for hours.
"After all these years with him, Where do I start from?" She buried her face again on the pillow and cried like she's just started.
But come to think of it, why would it take a young man six years, to know him and his fiancee are not compatible. Is that not wickedness made in Nigeria?
My problem is not even the revelation, but it took the spirit six years to reveal it. Time enough to earn a degree in a Nigerian university.
Brother, if you'll not marry a sister, don't tie her down with one nonsense relationship. Please, let her go. Don't make her assume things that don't exist. Dey your dey make she dey her dey.
Kenneth Okonkwo, the popular Nigerian actor said something I'd like to share.
In his words "A man does not need to date a lady for, years to know if she is marriageable or not. Men certainly know what they want from a woman even before they approach her.โ
Sisters, don't allow a man to use you for pre-marital experiments. You're not a specimen. A man knows what he wants and if you don't fill that gap please back off don't stay hoping he'll come to love you for who you are. You're worth more than that.
Meanwhile, I met a lady who's courting a guy for two years now. At the course of our conversation, she would strout and say she'd left the singlehood for those still searching.
That wasn't bad; however, I still maintain this, no matter how long you've stayed with a guy, Babe, you are single and a singlet until he says I do and you chorus I do too.
PS: As a guy, if you don't see a lady in your future please, don't keep her while searching for another. That's whitchraft, deception, and wickedness. Please, stop it.
PSS: I want to also say I love you, and I mean it.๐ฅฐ๐๐๐ผ