29/06/2025
โป๏ธ So an incident has been trending online since
A lady denied her boyfriend.... a guy that is paying her fees and bought her a phone and went after another guy (Asherkine a Popular content creator) who spent on her, took her shopping, bought another phone for her and the rest.
The Boyfriend now Ex is crying and ranting somewhere for his foolishness..... Mentioning how he sacrificed for her, paid her school fees in 2 years and the rest.
She was willing to let go of her 2 years relationship without remorse, his spending and sacrifice no longer matter.... The New guy even lodged her in a Hotel...๐๐
I have made similar posts here about why as a young guy you should calm down at this stage and invest in yourself first..... Imagine if he used that money to invest in himself, build a business, invest in stocks, books and many others.... By now he would have been a millionaire or with a proper foundation.
But he gambled it on a Woman and lost everything, was denied and disgraced.... He is currently a trending topic of Pity and Comedy.
Most Millionaires and Billionaires you admire today won't be where they are if they invested their initial capital on Women.... The first access to money you get instead of multiplying it and building a legacy you turn to father Christmas for multiple ladies that can leave you anytime.
Life is a process but if you fast forward the process you will end up as a looser...... Chase the process and you will win.
The ladies you spent on 5 years ago, 4 years ago, 3 years ago... Where are they today....? But instead of learning you are still spending on another set while your financial future is nothing to write home about.
The generous guys of today will be the poor men tomorrow, the stingy guys of today that are investing in their future will be the millionaires of tomorrow.
Women will call you broke, stingy and poor to make you fold but in the long run you will be grateful you did..... They will tell their Brothers and Cousins to save and invest in his business but expect you to spend your investments and Capital on them to be seen as a Real Man.
If Men like Evangelist Edo Baba Leonardo Medici Sunday Chinedu Eze GehGeh tell you this reality you will think they are just being bitter or Misogynistic.
โป๏ธ It is time to start saying things as they are.... You can keep cheating yourself.... Good Day.