06/09/2020
THE FIGHT FOR DEPENDENCY AND BENEFITS (FAMILY)
I have been revolving around this thought of family of a thing... And it practically occurred to me that family mostly (in this part of the world) stand as a privilege whose pose more options to either becoming more dependent or worst, a beneficiary by default.
And that usually happens whenever the conviction has been inhaled either by sights or research that you're currently doing better than before. Everyone, including those you have never met in your entire life will surface, with mostly the explanations of how your great grandfather or mother once had a maternal home or link or all worth nots in their place. You are likely to meet friends of your great grandfather or mother on the process.
But To me, this is but a mere strategies for extortions. They want to identify with you simply because they plan to benefit from you...
Believe you me that without the benefits, you're nothing to them.
And on the event that, you eventually saw into their vision pertaining to the plans of future extortions and refuse buy into their dreams, you will be automatically termed the bad guy, which usually come in the following phrase "STINGY" or "RITUALIST".
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The bottom here is full of crazy folks who has the acts and dramas. We all want money but the sacrifice of success we are not ready to pay. We choose to enjoy the lavishness of our comfort zone which seems hectic and irritating to us most a time. but we seems to be glued to it and turn out to be both a beggar with choice and equally the worst critics who think it is their right to reap where they haven't sown.
However, it occurred to my understanding and conviction that, they haven't been a balance in life since the existence of mankind...
The Bible story of Cain and Abel, Jacob and Esau, Joseph and his Eleven brothers, countless of them will make you understand that life haven't had a balance right from the early existence of mankind.
So...That is to tell you that family has been there for just benefits nothing more. And on failure to benefit, you become the bad guy.
But the truth remains that none of this folks was there for you to benefit from, when you're still scratching so hard to survive and exit the confides of poverty to the top. Now they're everywhere...
This life is full of dramas and cheat strategies.
To me, the only family I know are those who stood by me all throughout the dives on the stoops and tides of my entire adventure.
And I can relate to that. No dependency strategies or plan or expectations nurtured though, but the mentorship, motivations and support confidence would have or better, can make a difference in that life right now.
Just my observations and opinion though....
Feel free to share your thoughts.
Ⓜ️ Engr. Michael O. Modebelu.
