10/06/2022
and Affair
ADD VALUE TO YOUR SELF
As a man or woman always get your self engaged with something which will fetch you money and be diligent doing that, days are gone when women are solely dependent on their men (husband) for every single dime they spend its also very pathetic to hear that some men are too lazy to get them self engaged with work which fetches money for them for any reason what so ever thereby loosing their respect and value in the hand of their woman (wife).
Dear Men:
Any body the tells you that money is not important in your marriage is lying to you, you can't tell me there is no work, if you can't get a white cola job, learn a trade or skill with the aim of having two or more streams of income💰💸, always have a high target for financial flow and live within your level or class in other to grow more financially before embarking on marriage.
Remember, marriage is never a child's play , once you are married, your responsibility tend to increase: to take care of your parent, wife and of course your children failure to do so might affect the peace of your home.
Dear Ladies!
Of Course its the responsibility of your husband to take care of you and children but gone are the days women are called (Oriaku Diya) in IGBO language, meaning they are just their to enjoy their husband's wealth.
Now great women of substance are those who prepare themselves to be useful to them self and to the man that marries them, ladies please, have passion for self development, have an occupation, learn a skill too to maintain steady flow of income. You are not just created by God to grow, marry, give birth to children and die, you were created with destiny to fulfill, so get up and add value to your self, the world is waiting for your exploit.
No matter how wealthy your husband is, there is joy in going out and fulfilling your destiny, the extra income can be used to help the less privileged, and even invest more, so wise up.
In our society today, 60% of relationship and marriage problems are revealed to be financially instability which can be corrected if the parties engage themselves with something doing which provides money for them.
⭕ within your circle/level.
🔸Put your children in school which you can comfortably pay for, not for a show-off.
🔸live and Maintain an accommodation you can comfortably pay for.
🔸Work, save and pray more, believe God for a change of level, sure it will be granted and your pass experience will be a story to encourage others.
🔸 Have the same motive with your spouse, never be extravagant, spend according to scale of preference and never envy anyone.
to your happy living 🍸
and Affair
Chidex Okpala
