15/08/2025
I wish women will start seeing themselves as more important than they do and recognizing their values in the society because tell me why you will think is okay to give special accolade to a man for doing his responsibility.
For fulfilling his basic responsibility.
The thought of it makes me crawl in anger.
Unfortunately it is women that gave these men the upper hand in treating them like trash.
Treating them less and making them feel less of themselves.
A man who is responsible to his family is doing what he's expected to do, nobody expect you as a man to be irresponsible or stupid.
You should be responsible coz you are supposed to be responsible.
You don't need special accolades for it.
You don't need a crown for it.
You don't need to be hailed for it.
I understand knowledging someone who is good, someone who is doing their best, someone who is fulfilling their responsibilities.
But don't come out and make it look like they are doing something so extraordinary that they are not supposed to be doing, that is msinterpretation of the whole man headship.
Saying a man put you in his house and fed you it's a clear definition of his responsibility. If he doesn't think so and is not capable of doing so, then he has no business coming for you in the first place.
Is putting you in his house supposed to be opposed to keeping you outside?
Is saying he fed you supposed to be opposed to keeping you hungry? where you not living and eating before your path crossed?
Is saying he took care of his children supposed to be opposed to other people taking care of them for him?
Tell me what he is doing in all these that he isn't supposed to be doing but he does them anyways, coz that is only when I believe special accolades should be given.
This is why men feel they can do the barely minimum and get away with it because you all give them the upper hand, you congratulate them, hail them and give them trophies for fulfilling their responsibilities.
You as a woman you have your responsibilities and I'm sure most of you do fulfill your responsibilities but people see it as your responsibilities and nothing special to hail you for. They see it as what you're supposed to do but when it comes to the man he's giving special accolades for doing what he himself is supposed to be doing.
Now tell me why he will or should see it as his responsibility and not something extra he's doing?
It's s a pity, I feel pity for women.😠
