19/12/2025
On the trending story of Doris Ogala.
Married Women, please hear this clearly:
If you are experiencing difficulties in your marriage, the first step is to communicate honestly with your husband. Take the matter to God sincerely in prayer, and where necessary, seek help from a certified marriage counselor or a genuine servant of God who truly honors the sanctity of marriage.
Any so-called “man of God” who does the following is someone you must have wisdom to avoid:
* He tells you that your husband is not God’s will for you simply because you are facing normal marital challenges that every couple encounters.
* He claims you are destined to marry a man of God while fully aware that you are still legally married.
* He insists on seeing you privately in his home or in a hotel.
* He flirts with you or makes comments about your beauty, knowing you are a married woman.
* He engages in or proposes a sexual relationship with you despite your marital status.
*He claims God told him that you are to become his wife while you are still married.
* He begins to shower you with gifts with ulterior motives, fully aware that you are married.
Never abandon your husband for such men; they will never marry you. Many of them have already destroyed marriages and continue to do so. Calling oneself a man of God does not automatically mean one desires the success of your marriage.
If you fall into this trap, you may lose a good husband while pursuing an illusion. Never leave your marriage because a so-called man of God instructed you to do so. Never allow yourself to become sexually entangled with anyone hiding behind religious titles. It would be a devastating mistake.
May God grant you wisdom and understanding to build and protect your marriage, in Jesus’ name.