14/09/2025
"If income comes from both husband and wife, chores must come from both of them too" — Journalist Eloho sparks debate. Na true she talk 📍
For those of una wey dey do 50/50, wetin dey wrong with this statement?
So, when your wife bring 100 k every month and you bring 100 k too as head of the family wey you be, then you expect your wife to do all the cooking, cleaning, bath children, do assignment, nurse children, still give you m0nkey style around 1am.
No na.
This thing dey simple. Marriage dey simple but na people dey make am hard. Marriage sweet if you do the right thing.
If you wan do Oyibo pattern wey be our legal pattern of 50/50, ready to do am. Wetin Law talk na make parents take care of their children. Everything, plus house chores go be 50/50.
If you wan do Bible pattern, do. Take care of your family and make your wife help you. No share bills. Wife help. Husband no share bills.
If you wan do traditional pattern (Odogwu doings) do. Odogwu go provide everything and achalugo go do all the work.
You no go fit dey share bills 50/50 and then expect your wife to do every other thing. No be chea;'ting be that? Na lie. As she dey wash plate, you dey cut onions. 📍
Period!