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15/07/2023

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14/07/2023

I got married at 25, finished my PhD at 27 and became a Professor at 40.

So fast you see! Yes, everything around me worked fast. It is now that I realise that it was a misplaced priority.

My ambition blindfolded me and I got it all wrong, that is why I am sharing my experience through this medium to warn and encourage our young mothers not to be careless as I was back then.

I worked very hard as a lecturer and as an administrator, always so busy that it became my language to my children...."I'm busy"

My mum was around to nurse the children for me for some time. The moment they clocked ten, I sent them to boarding schools, though my husband was not in support of this. I always found my way.

I had no warm relationship with my children, 2 boys and a girl.

I never knew it was a bad idea not to have time for my husband, children and the household, until 5 years ago, when guilt, loneliness and restlessness filled my heart.

I sent for my children to rejoice with me on my 60th birthday.

The two boys, living in Canada said they are "busy" and that their sister will come down from South Africa.

Two days to my birthday, my daughter sent this message to me, "Mum, I am very sorry not to be around over there, there is no time to squeeze out, my husband needs my attention at his newly established clinic and presently, I'm pregnant. "I'm very very busy,
I'm also lonely in a strange land. Please pray for us mum. Happy birthday". I could not recover from the meaning I got from the message.. "First-things-First". When they needed me for warmth and discussion, I was not available, now I needed them for warmth and discussion I could not get them, rather they returned my slogan back to me, "I'm busy"

To worsen the matter, my dear husband died in his sleep a month after. ...Only one of the children came ​without​ his family to the burial ceremony.

I was dumbfounded!!! Considered Opinion: it is good to work and be a hard working fellow.
But hear this important and salient truth:

Parenting is sacrificial work, give it all it takes. Avoid any work that will take away your attention too much from your home - Avoid it and be careful!

SOLIDIFY YOUR HOME FIRST, CREATE TIME FOR YOUR SPOUSE AND CHILDREN.

ESTABLISH THE FEAR OF GOD IN THEIR HEARTS THROUGH YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR.

THOUGH IT IS COSTLY NOW, THE FUTURE REWARD IS WORTH IT.

THIS IS AN EYE OPENER FOR BOTH MEN & WOMEN.

LET'S BE SELFLESSLY AVAILABLE WHEN OUR CHILDREN NEED US.

If this inspires you, please share to others.

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14/07/2023

God will favour you in this month of July.

14/07/2023

Things dey occur oo🙆‍♀️ so apparently this man told his wife of ten years he’s traveling only for him to go take another wife.

God forbid oo but if this happens to you what will you do?

04/06/2023

What hurts more than losing a loved one 😥💔

24/05/2023

"Husbands/ boyfriends stop giving your wives/girlfriends money"

I know many women will not be happy with this but before you jump at me hear me out at least.

One reason why many relationships and marriages encounter strong issues is because it's simply parasitic.

One person, most times the husband is the one consistently giving while you the wife is always on the receiving end.

Please before you misunderstand me it's not bad at all for your husband to give you money or you receiving as a wife but never make it your life source.

Wouldn't it be great if you could just swipe your card out and buy what you want, get your children a new clothes without even involving your husband in it.

Infact, he would be glad seeing that you aren't just a liability in the family but an asset.

I know you might just be asking... How then can I make side incomes to be able to carter for these small needs even as a house wife.

The truth is that it's not that difficult...

The internet have made it possible that even as a house wife, student, NYSC corp or even a working class lady you can earn yourself 100k - 900k every month.

Yes... I wouldn't believe that this is possible until I became a partaker of this.

Infact even without a laptop on a weekly basis I'm able to earn 300 - 500k and I'm not doing anything strange

All I do is...

1️⃣ Find a hot selling product with a good profit percentage.

2️⃣ Promote other people's products to people who need them.

3️⃣ When these people buy I make my profit.

Please note that I did NOT spend any money to stock any product and I didn't even have a big phone or laptop to start with.

All I had was just with an average smartphone...

The type of you are probably using to read this.

Now I have not just come here to talk about this and go but also to show you how to get started at least so you can give your hubby some breathing space.

Tommorow I would be holding a FREE live tutorial where I would be guiding about 120+

Please note that this is not a Ponzi scheme that gives you millions overnight.

But be rest assured to earn at least 100k+ if you are able to copy exactly what I will be sharing with you in this life training.

To register for this training for FREE all you have to do is to click the link I will post in the comment section to join immediately.

Once we are enough in the class the link might be deleted. Good luck to the few lucky ones.

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Untimely is never your portion IJN

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What is that one thing you'll never do for Money.

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Strong people don't put others down, they lift them up

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