Blakqchild

14/06/2025

On a more serious note no real man wants a lady with just a big bum bum...

We live in a generation where attention has been reduced to angles, filters, and how much body you can show. The louder the curves, the more people assume you’re winning. But let’s be real for a moment because behind the trends and temptations, the truth still stands tall.

No real man is looking for a woman with just a big bum bum.

Yes, a woman’s body may attract the eye, but it is her mind, her values, her character, and her essence that hold a man’s soul.

The internet may be flooded with men commenting “fire” emojis and heart eyes under BBL pictures, but when it’s time for real life, when it’s time to choose a wife, a mother, a business partner, a backbone, these same men go quiet on curves and start looking for substance.

Because here’s what they won’t post online:

They want a woman who has sense, not just shape.

They want a woman who can sit in a room with kings and speak with wisdom.

They want a woman who can raise children with values and discipline.

They want a woman who can manage a home, not just show off an outfit.

They want a woman who can lead a business when they are not there.

They want a woman who can multiply whatever she’s given not one who needs to be constantly maintained like a car with no engine.

This is the truth social media will not scream at you.

So whether you have the body or not, what really matters is: do you have value? Do you have strength of character? Can you think for yourself? Can you build something out of your life even when no one is clapping for you? Can you build a family, a vision, a legacy?

Because no real man is looking for a liability. Real men are looking for women who are whole, mentally, emotionally, spiritually. Not women who only offer their bodies but are empty in purpose and identity.

So while you’re chasing body goals, don’t forget to chase life goals.

Train your mind the same way you train your hips.

Build your value

15/05/2025

Take that risk today

01/05/2025

The earlier you start, the longer your money grows.
Don’t wait for the perfect time — it doesn’t exist.
Waiting costs more than starting small.

Every ₦5,000 I invest is a seed.
Not for today — but for the version of me 5 years from now.

01/05/2025

Start Small. Stay Consistent.
You don’t need millions to start investing.
You just need a mindset shift.

I started with ₦5,000 a week.
Was it a lot? No.
But it was something.
And it taught me the one thing most people never learn —
How to be consistent, even when the return isn’t instant.

01/05/2025

Remember you can
start late, start over, lose it all, fail again & again, yet still succeed.

01/05/2025

You don’t need to be rich to start investing.
But you do need to start.
I chose ₦5,000/week — and I haven’t looked back.

01/05/2025

Money in the bank looks safe… but it’s losing value.
Inflation is real.
That money you’re “saving”? It’s quietly shrinking.

That’s why I choose to invest.
Not because I have extra.
But because I know money should work, not just sit.

01/05/2025

Consistency is a superpower.
It’s not about how much you start with — it’s about how long you stay in the game

01/05/2025

Every ₦5,000 I invest is a silent reminder to myself:
“I believe in my future more than my excuses
You too can do it

01/05/2025

Started with ₦5,000 a week. Not because I had a lot, but because I had the mindset to grow.
Small money. Big discipline. Long-term vision.

01/05/2025

01/05/2025

Starting Small, Dreaming Big: My Journey into the Stock Market

A few months ago, I made a decision:
Every week, no matter what, I would invest ₦5,000 into Nigerian stocks.

Not because I had a lot of money.
Not because I knew everything about investing.
But because I believed in starting where I was, with what I had.

₦5,000 might not seem like much.
But it’s not about the amount — it’s about the habit.
It’s about building the discipline to invest in my future consistently, week after week.

Some weeks, it felt easy.
Other weeks, it stretched me.
But every time I showed up and stayed committed, I felt a little prouder, a little stronger.

Growth doesn’t happen all at once.
It’s built ₦5,000 at a time.
It’s built choice by choice — and that’s where the real wealth starts.

If you’re waiting for the “perfect time” to start building your future, let this be your reminder:
Start small. Stay consistent. Trust the process.

Your future self will thank you.