14/04/2023
Marriage or serious relationship is not for kids or for people who are not fully ready for it.
There is always a time when you will feel like you don see your partner finish and you might be craving for something new or different. It is so because thatβs how humans are but believe me if you donβt have that commitment, control and respect for your partner you will keep jumping from one person to another seeking for something new and different.
To some people, it looks like immediately you find your partner, that is when you will start seeing all the people you might have chosen instead of him/her.
Now the truth is, there will always be someone more handsome, richer, taller, well-behaved etc than your partner but your ability to see your partner better than all those people is where the maturity in the relationship comes in. And that is why I wrote earlier that serious relationship or marriage is not for children. You must have considered all these things and told yourself that you are ready for it fully before going in. You must have completely come to terms with the fact that once you choose someone then it is only the person.
I know that it is not easy but the only way you can do it is to be committed, then always try and strive to make it work.
And that is why you are advised to marry someone who you love, someone that will always want to give you a reason to make it work, someone you donβt wana lose.