09/07/2024
Hello Kwaku, I saw a contr@ceptive in my daughter's bag. She had taken the dr.ug, it was just the box that was in her bag. I asked her several times but she said she wasn't the one that took it. I doubted her so I kept insisting and insisting but she kept dยฃnying it.
She is only 14 years, I wouldn't be able to forgive myself if anything happens to her, I wanted to be sure she really didn't take that dru.g so I decided to go through her phone. She uses one of my old phones to learn and call her friends. Sometimes I call her on it if I'm not home.
So one day when she left for school, I decided to go through her phone but I realised she had changed the screen lock. I called her school and asked her for the password but she insisted she had forgotten. I said all I could but she said she had forgotten. I saw her use the phone that morning, there was no way she could forget so I suspected she was hiding something. I called his brother (9yrs) teacher and he told me her password.
I went through my daughter's phone and I realised she was having a relationship but not with a student or anyone her age, it was my husband's friend.
A man my husband trusts to be family, we allow the children go to his place for the weekend sometimes. We leave them with him when we're traveling. He is married and lives with his wife and three kids like ourselves.
If anyone was to be doing this, It wasn't supposed to be that man. We have always treated him and his children like family. He has been my husband's best friend since their school days.
He lured my 14 year old daughter to sรx. He took the girls innocence, I was really hurt and disappointed. I don't know how many contraceptives he made her take, though my daughter said that was the first.
I quickly called my husband to inform him about it. He came home to see that I wasn't lying. He cried that day. When we threatened our girl, she confirmed it was the man and it has only happened twice.
Me, i wanted us to report him to the police and have him arrested but my husband only called to quarrel with him and decided to end their friendship. I still don't feel it was enough. Its been two weeks and I am not over it. It hurts me to think he did that to my daughter while his own daughter is still a virgin. When I look at my daughter, I feel sad. I want the man arrested but hubby keeps thinking ending their friendship is enough. He said since our daughter said it wasn't painful then he didn't pe*****te her so it is enough.
I keep asking myself why he would make her take a contraceptive if he didn't pe*****te her. Hubby doesn't want me talking about it again but I am hurting. I want justice for my daughter. I don't know how to do that without having issues with my husband. I really don't want that man walking about freely, especially because he has a daughter that's almost the same age as ours. His daughter is 13. Please help me do something about this issue, Bra Kwaku, please ๐๐ฟ.
Credit : love&pill
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