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19/06/2026

Please save yourself first.

A woman that glows and carries pregnancy seamlessly is not automatically superior to one that had !ssuês or that couldn'...
19/06/2026

A woman that glows and carries pregnancy seamlessly is not automatically superior to one that had !ssuês or that couldn't glow in her pregnancy.

When I was pregnant with my first baby,oomo!! everywhere blur it was as if I did not know myself again.

During my first trimester, I could comfortably sleep off after eating my food,in fact without carrying the plates,I could not just control it.what about the early morning sickness? If I don't eat on time pr0blem I will start throwing up.

Or is it the weird cravings 😂😂 and midnight eating,you see that midnight hunger it will be as if I want to fa!nt or I haven't eaten in my life.

My appetite tripled from second trimester I ate as if every meal was my last😂😂,the stretch marks nkorr??even when I was advised don't scratch when it starts to itch me, omo I nor hear word ooh.

It was just sweetening me as I was scratching it.my face nkorr from the third trimester I became who "n0se"tomorrow, my nose was pocknosing.

I nor see body take look good ooh,if I can put on my loose gowns I dor reach where I dey go ooh,to even do fine hair sef na wãr.

Some pregnancies will whine you but nor fēãr,Las las you go dey alright.
Abeg make nobody dey ask women what do you bring to the table ooh! because na we be the table.

I will share my second pregnancy experience later joor.
Dear beautiful lady if nobody claps for you abeg clap for yourself.

You can share your own experience in the
comment section,someone might be going through the same experiences with you.
Kindly share to encourage a fellow sister.

Being with your phone iis good,staying online is good ooh,posting c00ntent and trying to be updated with what is happeni...
19/06/2026

Being with your phone iis good,staying online is good ooh,posting c00ntent and trying to be updated with what is happening around you is very ok.

Do you know what's it's not good, especially for married pe0ple? It's when your spouse is trying to have a conversation with you but you are physically available but not listening because you are engrossed with your phone.

I remembered a day my hubby was trying to have a conversation with me, but I was so engrossed with my phone and wasn't even giving him full attention.

To be sincere it was the first time it was happening, omo!!am guìlty of it,and my hubby has been telling me.

But that day baba could not take it again and he was "like babe drop the phone,person go dey talk to you,you will be pressing phone.

Even the tone alone I knew that have cross line,since that day I made it a conscious effort not to be on my phone when we are having conversations especially serious ones.

My hubby does the same too,we do not allow phones to stand between our conversations .😃👍

18/06/2026

Real life lessons from real life experiences
Feel free to add yours.

One thing that we don't realize as we are about to get married,I think it concerns ladies more is that once you official...
18/06/2026

One thing that we don't realize as we are about to get married,I think it concerns ladies more is that once you officially get married there is a particular change in one aspect of our lives.

Omo! you stop getting monetary gifts ooh, especially from your male friends dem nor dey send you again ooh

Sometimes sef,family members are included,they will be like " Nor be man house you dey so".
Omo O.Y.O go become your case ooh 😂😂😂.

It's not only that one sef, almost all your male friends will start avoiding you,I know it's good to set healthy boundaries but guy how far we nor go fit dey gist once in a while?

It's just one or two that can even try and check on you.
Even you sef go cor dey forget to check on them too😂😂.

It is well ooh,dear single sisters abeg dey enjoy all the attention and gifts now ooh.because very soon you will feel it,but you go manage like Yækûbü🤣🤣

17/06/2026

When some pe0ple give you unnecessary att!tude,this might be the reason.

I always had this mindset that because you are good,pe0ple will automatically be good to you,but it's just an illusion i...
17/06/2026

I always had this mindset that because you are good,pe0ple will automatically be good to you,but it's just an illusion in my mind.

As I began to understand l!Fe it became clear to me that pe0ple will not always reciprocate what you show to them.

That is why it's important you put your family first and if you are lucky that almost all your family (especially your nuclear family) that their hêads are correct, it will be much easier for you.

Growing up I always saw my dad being kind to others, especially his extended famïly and friends.
He was always there for them,helping with his finance and also with his career prowess.

He ensured no !njûstìce was done to anyone around him,but after his dëmìse when we were still very young.

It was few of these pe0ple that looked our way,in my young mind I was thinking every one of them will always come around or help us financially.

Don't get me wr0ng I know everyone has their own issūes to deal with,but even calls or their presence could have also been a see source of encouragement to us 🤷🏽‍♀️

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Salifu Hawa, Brian Nyaberi, Imrul Shakih, Nweke Kosiso, R...
17/06/2026

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Salifu Hawa, Brian Nyaberi, Imrul Shakih, Nweke Kosiso, Ruth E Paul, Maimuna Sabo, Akim Jessie Bangura, Joshua Wealthking

As we navigate through life please always remember that you do not have "grace mate" but age mate,even your classmates m...
16/06/2026

As we navigate through life please always remember that you do not have "grace mate" but age mate,even your classmates might not even be your age mate how much more "grace mate"

As a young secondary school girl,among my set of friends there was one I always admired, she was our senior prefect,very intelligent,kind and beautiful Igbo girl 😘

Even before our waec examination commenced she already enrolled for jamb and sat for the examination,she was aspiring to study medicine and surgery.

If I can remember vividly,that first attempt,her paper went missing,then she wrote again when we were writing,in fact we even attended a private tutorial together just me and her and I was always blown away with her intelligence.

At my first attempt I got admission into the university to study Agriculture,it was my dream course and even when I was persuaded to opt for another course I refused.

My dear friend didn't get the admission the year I did,but she was genuinely happy for me and she had to apply for the next year.

All these started happening in 2014,and I graduated in 2020,to cut the long story short my darling friend finally had her dreams of being a medical doctor fulfilled in 2025,she graduated successfully 💃🏽💃🏽😃.

You see ehn the moral of this story still remains the same,in this life no one is your "grace mate" you only have age grade or mate.

Do not compare your chapter one to another person's chapter ten.

15/06/2026

1.Please do not skip your walk: Gentle walking helps to improve blood circulation,helps your body to recover faster and also reduces the risk of my bl0∅d clots.
Please start small and increase gradually.

2.Protect your inc!sion: Always ensure that the scãr site is clean and dry,this helps to prevent occurrence of ìnfection.

Avoid lifting heavy objects and please follow your doctor's instructions to prevent complications and unnecessary emërgêncy.

3.Stay hydrated and eat healthy foods: Ensure you drink plenty of water and eat fruits, vegetables and protein-rich foods.

For your body to repair itself, you need quality nutrition.

4.Rest without feeling güïlty: Your body has just undergone major surgery.
Please prioritize sleep,accept help when offered and give yourself permission to heal

💝 Remember that healing is not a race,every scãr tells a great story of strength and love.

Tag a strong CS mom who needs this reminder today.


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