25/02/2025
FOR COUPLES.
If you are facing marital crisís in your home as a wife then you really need to go back to your drawing board.
I believe 65% of issues in marriage is directly proportional to how the woman behaves in her home. There is no excuse to be given that will exonerate you from taking blames, you may complain how hard, difficult your husband is but the truth is that; you need to go back to your drawing board.
Most women don't actually know how powerful they are. As powerful and strong as Sampson, a woman could convince him, most women only know how to unleash their potentials when they want to make demands from their husband, neglecting the same skills, potentials and ability in solving marital crisès.
Remember how soft and gentle he was when he came meeting you, you can still make him be so calm, gentle and caring if you know how to apply the right strategies.
All you need to do as a woman is to focus on submitting to him as your husband, don't just verbalize him being the Head but let him be the Head. Do this and watch the love, care and affection flow.
Anytime you try making him feel less of the head then it will end in blow and punches. Anytime he starts acting angry and stops caring please go back to your drawing board, all is not well.
Your excuse would be "he is seeing someone else" that's because he is the head there, he is being submitted to there.
You are to submit while he loves, please don't mix these things up because it's important. Even the Holy Bible started by giving the instructions to women before instructing men to love because God knows that natural love flows when there is total submission.
Nevertheless, it is easily said than done but don't forget that any instruction from the Bible isn't convenient but must be sacrificial.
Marriage is an institution that is recognized in the Bible with laid down rules. So if you like follow the people of the world to drag equity then you will go back to your parents house with swollen eyes 😆
Note: It is debatable but this is my point of view.
God bless you!