Herald INI

25/04/2025

Romantically unavailable
Emotionally expensive ❤️❤️

25/04/2025

one of my biggest toxic traits is that when I'm going through something,i tend to stop talking to everyone until am okay.when am okay I'll start communicating again like nothing happened.it's not me being off with you,i just deal with things better when am alone .

25/04/2025

Sometimes when we can't change the things that happened to us we can always change the story

25/04/2025

If the world was created in 7 days but it took 9months to make me, I'm clearly a big deal 😊😊

24/04/2025

Know the difference ❤️❤️

24/04/2025

24/04/2025

It's not every time things go wrong you run helter skelter, Accept responsibility for mistakes you did it paves way for something worth it. ❤️

23/04/2025

THINGS EVERY WOMAN MUST LEARN IN HER 20s AND 30s

Being a woman is not beans.

It seems everyone expects something from you!

Especially in your 20s and 30s, when life is both sweet and somehow at the same time.

You’re expected to look good, act nice, build a career, get married, raise children, start a business, post online, be prayerful, everything.

Here are things every woman must learn early so life doesn’t use you to catch cruise.

1. You are not here to impress anybody.

You were not born to please people.
You were not sent to this earth to keep everyone comfortable while you’re dying in silence.

You don’t have to shrink your voice so others won’t feel threatened.

You don’t have to dull your shine so nobody thinks you’re “doing too much.”

You don’t have to say “yes” when your soul is screaming “NO.”

You’re not a doormat. You’re not a people-pleasing robot.

2. Your Self-worth is not tied to your relationship status.

Single, married.

It doesn’t reduce your value.
Stop waiting to be a “Mrs” to feel valid. You were complete before any title.

3. You will outgrow people, and that’s okay.

Some friendships won’t follow you into your next season.

Don’t force what God is trying to release.
Growth is lonely, but necessary.

4. Learn how to make your own money.

There’s a type of confidence that comes with having your money.

Know how to sell. Learn digital skills. Build an online brand.

Wealth is not gender based.

5. Take care of your mind.

Life is already hard.

Don’t let your thoughts add extra weight.
Go to therapy if needed.

Pray. Rest.

Protect your mental space like you protect your phone.

6. Stop waiting for permission.

Launch that business. Write that book. Host that event.
Some of us were raised to be small, break that curse.

7. God is your anchor.

You’ll need Him in your winning seasons and your weeping seasons.

Don’t try to do life without your source.

Grace will take you where hustle can’t.

8. Quit waiting to be rescued.

23/04/2025

Nobody knows how much chaos🌊 it took to achieve this calm🍀✍️

23/04/2025

"If true love hasn’t found you, focus on building a fulfilling life—work hard 💼, earn well 💰, and cherish the peace of singlehood 🌿. No one has ever died from being single, but countless hearts 💔 have suffered staying with the wrong person. Life is too short ⏳ to waste on draining relationships. Prioritize your happiness 😊 and embrace the freedom ✨ that comes with choosing yourself." ✍️

Heal Yourself 🍃

19/10/2023