Marriage And Relationship Counselling

12/10/2023

HOW TO WIN AS A COUPLE

1. Cover each other's weaknesses

2. Celebrate each other's strengths

3. Have no topics that you cannot talk about. No judgment. Openness will open your mind to solutions

4. Consider each other's opinions and contribution

5. Be 100% in. Full commitment

6. Make incremental progress. Seek growth, not perfection

7. Develop a culture of reviewing your relationship; are we doing OK, and where can we improve?

8. Accept correction, be humble

9. Work on yourselves to be the best wife, the best husband

10. Have joint goals

11. Support each other in your individual goals

12. Keep each other as a priority even as you have friends

13. Thank God together. A thankful couple is a powerful couple

14. Don't compete with each other, accommodate each other

15. Bring whatever lessons or opportunities you learn out there into your marriage. Learn together

16. Be patient. Some wins take time

17. When you fall whether as a couple or as individuals, pick each other up

18. Protect what you have built together. It is very easy to lose it fast

19. Control your tempers. A lot of bad choices are made in moments of anger

20. Don't copy other couples. Create your testimonies.

08/09/2023

THE BĪTTER TRUTH...

Don't force a relationship to marriage. If it wants to break, Try to patch it, if its "Unpatchable", then let it break.
Don't force it, it should freely and naturally lead to marriage not by forceful effort.
Break up isn't always a løss

LADIES BE WÅRNED;

• I will marry you, is not Marriage.

• Give me your mums number, is not Marriage.

• I just spoke with everyone in your family even your ancestors, is not Marriage.

• I sent some things for your parents, is not Marriage.

• Haven't you seen my people? Is not Marriage.

• My Mum is so fond of you, is not Marriage.

• I love the way you cook, you will make a good wife, is not Marriage.

• My Parents and siblings can't stop talking about you, is not Marriage.

• I have engaged you, so you have nothing to worry about is not Marriage.

• My friends likes you and they want only you is not Marriage.

Until the guy comes and pays your bride price, then your mind should be at rest and you can claim he's yours.

Until then live your heart open and be wise in all your doings and remember not to do Wifey stuff to play dudes.

Don't place your heart on any guy that's not yet married to you, stop bragging he's yours.

Please be wise
❤️❤️❤️

To Make God Your Number One Counsellor Than Man

08/09/2023

You broke her heart💔
She said it's fine with tears😭
She didn't keep grudges with you😢
You still talk and chart
But she's hurt💔
_____________________
After 2 months you told her u have a new girlfriend, she said it's fine😢

Do you know the feelings of her pain?
She changed towards her friends😩

She changed at home
Her mom complained about her
She cries at night but people didn't see her pain 😔

She tried to move on but memories kept holding her back 😢💔
She started drinking to get ur thoughts off her broken heart💔

You know you changed her ways
She couldn't be strong, you made her weak😢

If you know you don't trust yourself enough plssss 🙏🙏
Don't ask a girl out
Female heart 💝 is fragile and needs to be treated with care and respect..
Please I beg of you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

13/07/2023

Love Traingle. ♥️♥️♥️

You met a stranger, you start being friends, feelings develop, you fall in love, you get
misunderstandings, He/she totally changes
your life, and you feel like you can’t do without
that person. You got butterflies in your stomach and got so in love with them.

So many happy moments but then that person makes you sad, you think of letting go but then some part of you tell you to stay because there are no perfect people on earth.

A few weeks later, you get dumped, you cry, you swear never to fall in love again but still another stranger comes into your life, he/she
tells you that you will never get hurt and that they will never break your heart like the way your ex did.

Though you took long to trust that person but
due to the much care, love and time that this new person gives you, you end up trusting again and giving in your fragile heart.

But it got broken again….

And Now, You hate love.

But the truth is we can’t escape love.

I know so many of you have passed through all these and it's not really easy believing in love again. But I tell you this, Love is real and there are good lovers out there.

Relax....
True love will find you

Follow marriage and relationship counseling

13/07/2023

Dear young lady, how are you doing?

I don't usually understand your complaints when you say men are always disturbing you with calls. I want you to know that men will approach you whether you're single, in a relationship, or married.

However, while you can't stop them from coming, you can reduce giving out your number. When you're called and the purpose is not aligning with what you want, you end the call.

You complain, but give out your number without any restrictions. You complain but keep answering. You complain but are always open for outings.

No, you must place certain restrictions.

Dear men, kedu?

You have got the right to ask anyone you want out but you don't have the right to force the person to accept your proposal. Just as you willingly proposed, allow the sister to accept or decline willingly.

Let me tell you this for free - don't promise up and down to get your proposal accepted. Don't play any enticing games. No! You need the lady's feedback to come from her without your influence or third-party influence.

Have you wondered why things often turn around within two months of your relationship?

If you don't get any answer or a positive answer, be happy you were not deceived. Trying to influence the decision of your potential partner will hurt you greatly tomorrow.

Ladies are not always golddiggers. It's just that you don't have sense.

Now you've read this sense. Don't sell it.

12/07/2023

There was never a definition for a perfect
relationship. We all have to make compromises
in order to make our relationships perfect.

You have to give up your ego and stubbornness in order to strengthen your bond with your partner.

You have to prove that the love you have for each other is bigger than the small differences which can be overcome easily.

You just need to have the willingness to make it happen

08/07/2023

Mariage is sweet when u marry God's wil
I pray4 all d singles in this group may u never make a mistake in ur choice of partner IJN

07/07/2023

Dear sister.
Your beauty or shape is not enough to keep a man.
Don't be deceived.
A great love life is beyond physical appearance.

04/07/2023

Very soon...
Your Introduction,
Your Traditional MARRIAGE and WHITE WEDDING DATE will be FIXED.
Claim It!

07/06/2023

Don't wait for him to become, but make him become

16/05/2023

Words from I I Moses

Ladies, your weapon is your conduct and not your mouth.

If you can get your conduct in order then there is nothing you can not achieve.

It is a pity now that we have many ladies that don't even try to act right.

"This is my life, allow me to live it the way I want"

"I just want to do what makes me happy"

As a lady, no matter what you have in this life if you do not have good behaviors you will not succeed.

Get yourself together.

Work on your character.

Build good conduct.

Be nice.

Be respectful.

Be decent.

Be organized.

With time you will have all that you are looking for.

26/02/2021

As the day breaks today so shall good things break forth into your life, as the sun rises so shall all that is down in your life rise up to glory, as the sun goes down so shall all that is not of the Lord in your life go down to die permanently, the fame of your testimonies this day shall go pass where you yourself have never been to in life, the Lord shall make the wealth of the earthen and the wealth of the gentiles to come to your bosom, you shall henceforth give out to people, bless people and feed people through the abundance that the Lord will yield into your life this day, money shall be answerable to you, poverty shall reject you, affliction shall deny you, debts shall cease to be your friend, failure shall run away from you, this new week success shall embrace you until you become successful and be congratulated in Jesus Name.