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August meeting 2026
13/08/2026

August meeting 2026

Yummy Mummy ❤️❤️
13/08/2026

Yummy Mummy ❤️❤️

12/08/2026

Jesus Christ 🤣🤣😂🤣

11/08/2026

Jackfruit, aka sycamore, is that FRUIT. Full value. Full nourishment. Every part just delivers. ❤️❤️

11/08/2026

Sweet something 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

PLEASE, I NEED ADVICE. POST ANONYMOUSLY 🙏I am 27 years old and a first-time mother to a baby girl. Since I gave birth, m...
11/08/2026

PLEASE, I NEED ADVICE. POST ANONYMOUSLY 🙏

I am 27 years old and a first-time mother to a baby girl. Since I gave birth, my relationship with my husband has changed so much, and honestly, I don't know what to do anymore.

Before we got married, we were very close. There was love, affection, laughter, cuddling and so much attention between us. But since I had our baby, everything changed.

My husband hardly shows me affection anymore. He doesn't cuddle me, play with me, or even make time for us to talk and reconnect. Whenever I ask for affection, he often says he is tired or doesn't feel well.

Even our private relationship has changed. It only happens when he wants it, and there is no longer that emotional connection we used to have. I sometimes feel like I'm only his wife when he needs something.

There are also times he comes home very late or stays out at night, and this has made me very confused and worried. I have tried not to jump to conclusions, but I can't ignore how different things have become.

I'm a new mother, and instead of feeling loved and supported during this new chapter of my life, I often feel lonely and unwanted.

Please, what do you think I should do? How can I approach my husband about this without causing an argument? Has anyone experienced something similar after having a baby?

Please, I need genuine advice. No insults, please. 🙏❤️

11/08/2026

Eghele Oka is a traditional corn (maize) dish made by blending corn and cooking it with ingredients such as pepper, crayfish, palm oil, seasoning, salt and scent leaf.

The blended corn is cooked until it becomes thick, soft and well cooked. It is a simple traditional meal that can be enjoyed for breakfast, lunch or dinner. 🌽😋

The name and exact preparation can vary among different communities in southeastern Nigeria.

11/08/2026

How I prepared my Eghele Oka for lunch 🌽😋

I washed my corn properly, added my pepper and crayfish, and blended everything together.
After blending, I added my palm oil, seasoning, a little salt and scent leaf. I mixed everything together very well, added a little water, and put it on the fire to cook.

I kept checking it from time to time to make sure it was cooking well. I allowed everything to cook properly until it became thick and well cooked.

And that was how I prepared my Eghele Oka for lunch. ❤️
Simple, traditional and delicious! 😋🌽
Lunch is served! 😂😂

Let me just share what I’ve been eating that has helped my breast milk start coming back very well. 🥰🍼Lately, I’ve been ...
11/08/2026

Let me just share what I’ve been eating that has helped my breast milk start coming back very well. 🥰🍼

Lately, I’ve been eating more of these:
🥣 Pap with soya
🥣 Oats
🥚 Eggs
🐟 Fish
🥬 Vegetables and soups
🍌 Fruits
🥑 Avocado
🥜 Groundnuts
🥛 Milk
💧 And plenty of water

I’ve also been making sure I eat properly and don’t skip meals. I can’t say any particular food is a magic breast milk booster, but honestly, since I started eating better and staying hydrated, I’ve noticed a good difference in my milk supply. ❤️

Just sharing what has been working for me. 🥰🍼

11/08/2026

🌽 Eghele Oka

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