Thing's That Matter in Marriage,

17/09/2025

I got over 10 reactions on one of my posts last week! Thanks everyone for your support! 🎉

13/09/2025

13/09/2025

Happy weekend to you all💕🥰❤️

29/08/2025

Celebrating my 10th year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

28/08/2025

WISDOM FOR WOMEN

1. A first class degree won't make you a first class wife rather your submission and respect will.

2. The woman who respects her husband is the best wife anyone would ever have.

3. Your character and attitude will go a long way in determining if your husband will wish he never Regret getting married to you..

4. To be a great wife, you need more anger management skills than nagging skills.

5. Be a leader at work, or anywhere else but be a companion at home.. It's wisdom!

6. Don't compete with your husband; compliment him.

7. Your strength is in humility and submission, not in strife and contention.

8. Be tender, every man respects a tender woman but firm.

9. Never try to punish your husband by starving him of food or S*x, he maybe forced to get it outside.

10. There is nothing wrong in accepting that you are wrong when you are wrong.

11. Prepare to forgive your husband if he wrongs you.. For a forgiving wife is better than a vengeful one.

12. Make a DECISION to be a GOOD WIFE , you will need it in the long run.

28/08/2025

I met this guy when I went for a gig in Abuja and we started communicating so well that we ended up exchanging contacts. We continued chatting and everything was smooth.

Then one day, he told me he liked me and wanted us to go beyond being friends. He said he liked my personality and that was what drew him closer.

At that season, I wasn’t even posting much on my WhatsApp status. But when I later resumed posting, I began to share things that carried my values, my belief system, and my standards. .

It didn’t take long before the same guy who said he liked my personality suddenly stopped chatting and stopped communicating.

I didn’t bother myself about it or make it a big deal.

A week later, he sent me a “hi” message. Like a normal Nigerian guy, he said I had forgotten him. I told him I hadn’t forgotten him, we both just stopped talking.

I asked him why, and he finally opened up. He said he liked my personality, but when he watched the kind of videos I posted, he realized he wasn’t the kind of person I would want.

I asked further and he said he is a party type, always in the club, very social, and that he doesn’t do church or believe in church systems. I simply told him I was glad he knew what he wanted and that he was free to go for it.

The reason I’m sharing this is because many ladies go through this same situation.

Someone collects your number, starts talking sweet, then suddenly goes ghost. And immediately, you begin to blame yourself. You start wondering if you are cursed, if you are not good enough, or if you did something wrong. Slowly, you begin to lose confidence in yourself.

But what is happening in the background is that the person has seen your values, your standards, and your belief system.

He knows deep down that he cannot handle that kind of person. He knows you are not on the same page, so he quietly withdraws.

This is why I want to remind every lady reading this: raise your standards, stay true to your values, and never blame yourself for someone else’s silence.

Do not let ghosting or rejection confuse your identity.

When you know who you are, you will attract your kind. The right people will stay, the wrong ones will naturally walk away.

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