Dr. Chukwuemeka Chukwuma, PhD

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07/09/2024




02/03/2024
17/02/2024

SOME TIPS ON HOW TO SHOW YOUR MAN SOME LOVE.

1. Show genuine interest: Take time to listen to your man's thoughts and feelings, ask about his day, and show curiosity about his hobbies and interests. This demonstrates that you value him and his opinions.

2. Physical affection: Physical touch can be a powerful way to show love. This can range from holding hands, hugging, cuddling, or other forms of physical intimacy that both of you are comfortable with.

3. Express appreciation: Acknowledge and express gratitude for the things your man does for you and your relationship. This can be small acts of kindness or even the bigger sacrifices he makes. Let him know that you notice and appreciate his efforts.

4. Quality time: Spend quality time together, doing activities that you both enjoy. This shows that you prioritize him and enjoy his company. It could be going for walks, watching movies, cooking together, or anything that strengthens your bond.

5. Small surprises: Surprise your man with small gestures or gifts that show you're thinking of him. DO NOT FORGET TO FUEL HIS CAR. 😆 You could also leave a sweet note on his pillow, plan a surprise date night, or buy something he mentioned wanting. These little surprises can make him feel loved and appreciated.

6. Support him: Show support for his dreams, goals, and ambitions. Encourage him to pursue what makes him happy, and be there for him during both successes and failures. This demonstrates that you believe in him and his potential.

7. Respect and trust: Respect his boundaries, opinions, and personal space. Trust is a fundamental aspect of any healthy relationship, so trust in his decisions and abilities. Respecting and trusting each other's choices and autonomy can help foster a strong and loving connection.

Remember, everyone experiences and perceives love differently. It's essential to communicate with your man and understand his love language to ensure your efforts align with his needs and preferences.

11/02/2024

I AM A NIGERIAN LECTURER!

I am a Nigerian lecturer; of course we act strictly for students to preserve their respect for us, but we are kind, caring and understanding.

I am a Nigerian lecturer; people view us as lacking professionalism in our conduct, such as arriving late to class, cancelling classes without proper notice, or not being adequately prepared for lectures.

I am a Nigerian lecturer; people have a perception that some of us have a low quality of teaching, with some students complaining that the lectures are not engaging, the content is outdated, or that the lecturers do not adequately explain complex concepts.

I am a Nigerian lecturer; people often criticise us for being rigid in our teaching methods, relying heavily on traditional lecture-style teaching rather than incorporating more innovative and interactive teaching techniques.

I am a Nigerian lecturer; people allege that we show favouritism towards certain students offering better grades or easier assignments to those they have personal relationships with.

I am a Nigerian lecturer; people accuse us of engaging in corrupt practices, such as demanding bribes in exchange for better grades or other academic benefits.

I am a Nigerian lecturer; people perceive us as being inaccessible to students outside of scheduled class hours, making it difficult for students to get additional help or clarification on course material.

I am a Nigerian lecturer; people criticise us for not providing sufficient mentoring and guidance to students, particularly in terms of career advice or help with academic and personal challenges.

I am a Nigerian lecturer; people think it is inappropriate for us to marry our students.

I am a Nigerian lecturer; people think that the male lecturers always exchange grades with s*x.

I am a Nigerian lecturer; people think once you have a PhD and start answering Dr., you get paid millions.

©️ Dr. Triple C.

10/02/2024

THE DILEMMA OF A SINGLE UNIVERSITY LECTURER!

As a single young man working as a university lecturer in Nigeria, I find myself constantly grappling with a unique set of challenges and dilemmas. Living in a society where marriage and family life are highly valued, being unmarried at my age feels like an anomaly. Society often expects young men to settle down, start families, and fulfil the traditional roles of husband and father. However, my career aspirations and personal circumstances have led me down a different path.

One of the primary dilemmas I face is the pressure to conform to societal norms. In Nigeria, marriage is often seen as a symbol of success, maturity, and social stability. Being a single young man, I am often subjected to questioning, criticism, and even pity from well-meaning family members, friends, and colleagues. They cannot fathom why I prioritize my career over starting a family and view my unmarried status as a cause for concern.

Moreover, there is an implicit assumption that being single means I am not committed or responsible enough for certain responsibilities. As a lecturer, I find myself questioning whether my marital status affects my professional opportunities and advancement within the academic realm. While it may not be openly acknowledged, there is a perceived bias towards married individuals, who are often considered more mature, reliable, and trustworthy. This bias can manifest in missed promotions or opportunities for leadership positions, leaving me to wonder if my unmarried status is hindering my career progression.

Additionally, the academic workload and demands of being a university lecturer further exacerbate the dilemma. Long hours, rigorous research commitments, and heavy teaching loads often leave little time for socializing, dating, or building relationships. Striking a balance between work and personal life becomes a constant juggling act. I am torn between devoting more time and energy to my career and pursuing personal relationships or settling down.

On the other hand, being single also offers a unique advantage. It enables me to focus solely on my professional development without the added responsibilities and constraints of family life. I have the freedom to pursue advanced degrees, engage in research projects, attend conferences, and build an extensive network of colleagues and collaborators. Being unencumbered by family obligations allows me to dedicate more time and energy to my students, shaping their lives and futures.

Thus, being a single young man working as a university lecturer in Nigeria presents me with a complex and challenging dilemma. Society's expectations, perceived biases, and the demands of academia often create tensions between my personal and professional life. While I strive to find a balance and navigate these dilemmas, I am also aware that my unmarried status presents unique opportunities and advantages. Ultimately, I aim to make choices that align with my values, aspirations, and vision for my life, regardless of societal pressures.

07/02/2024

We MUST get the HEALTHCARE system of Nigeria right.

To achieve this, we need to train competent administrators.

LET'S GET IT RIGHT.

30/01/2024

MY ROTARY!

The Rotary club is a worldwide organization consisting of professionals and community leaders who work together to provide humanitarian services and promote goodwill. Rotary is guided by the principles of service, integrity, diversity, and leadership. It aims to serve both local and international communities through various projects such as improving access to education, eradicating poverty, promoting health initiatives, and supporting environmental sustainability. Rotary also emphasizes the importance of fellowship and building strong interpersonal relationships among its members. Additionally, Rotary strives to advance global understanding and peace through its Rotary Peace Fellowship program and other peace-building initiatives. Overall, Rotary stands for making a positive impact in the world by fostering a spirit of service and promoting ethical behavior and responsible leadership.

Join us club of Port Harcourt East.

30/01/2024

"Rise with the sun and embrace the new dawn as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. Let the early morning hours ignite a fire within you, fueling your motivation to not only conquer the day ahead but also conquer yourself. In these precious moments, find the strength to chase your dreams, pursue your passions, and push past any obstacles that stand in your way. Remember, the early bird not only catches the worm but also sets the stage for a day full of limitless possibilities. So, rise and shine, for your determination in the morning will set the tone for your triumph throughout the day."

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