07/06/2025
I got married to my husband 5 years ago and ever since then my elder sister who is a nurse has been living with us, so recently I discovered she was pregnant and when I asked her who the father is ,she kept telling me to hold on that with time I will get to meet the person . But because i couldn't take it I called my mum and told her that her daughter is pregnant and I asked her if she knew about it and she said yes, but she didn't know who the father is so I decided to keep quiet since she is my elder sister I can't talk or question her too much.
But recently, while looking for her makeup kit ,I discovered she has been granted a UK visa and I also discovered my husband, too, has been granted a uk visa. So when I saw it I was furious that why would my sister not tell me about the visa and again why is she with my husband's visa? That was when I decide to put two and two together and everything began to make sense to me. Before now my husband had told me he would be going to south African for a two weeks conference from his place of work, and now I just discovered that the both of them are actually planning to go to the uk and not south Africa as my husband had said. I also discovered that my sister and my husband have been seeing each other secretly for 3 years now as a matter of fact he is the one responsible for her pregnancy, he had the plan of settling her down in the UK, and he would be shuttling between UK and nigeria ever since I discovered these I haven't been myself, I have been s*d and ang*y at myself for bringing my senior sister to live with me ,one mind is telling me to confront the both of them and the other one is telling me to just take both of their passports, my kids ,my belongings and leave the house for the both of them .
Please advise me on what to do . Copied