02/12/2025
IF YOUR HOSPITAL GETS ANGRY WHEN YOU ASK QUESTIONS… RUN.
Your body, your right. Never apologize for seeking clarity.
There’s something I keep seeing lately that worries me…
Too many people are walking into hospitals where questions are treated like disrespect and curiosity is treated like troublemaking.
Let me tell you something today….
Any hospital that gets angry because you asked about your own health is a d@nger zone.
You’re not a bag of rice.
You’re not luggage.
You’re a human being with a body that feels pain, fear, and confusion, and you deserve answers.
Think about it….
Why should a nurse shout at you for asking,
“What drug are you giving me?”
Why should a Doctor frown because you asked,
“Why am I being admitted?”
Why should a practitioner roll their eyes because you said,
“Please explain what is going on with me.”
Why should you feel scared to ask the people holding your life in their hands for clarity?
It doesn’t make sense.
A hospital is not supposed to be a place of intimidation.
It should be a place where your questions are welcomed, where you’re treated with dignity, and where you understand every step of your own care.
If the people handling your treatment cannot explain what they are doing…
If they get defensive, irritated, or aggressive when you ask for clarity…
Then hear this clearly….
🚫 That is not a hospital….
that is a risk.
🚫 That is not healthcare… that is gambling with your life.
You should never be in an environment where the people you depend on for survival see your curiosity as an insult.
A patient who asks questions is not stubborn.
A patient who seeks clarity is not difficult.
A patient who asks questions is A SMART PATIENT.
Because the worst feeling in the world is signing something you don’t understand…
Taking a drug you weren’t told about…
Or undergoing a procedure nobody explained.
Protect yourself.
Protect your family.
Protect your life.
If a hospital cannot give you answers, they do not deserve your trust.
If a hospital sees your questions as disrespect, leave before your situation becomes worse.
Always choose safety over silence.
Your health is your right.
Your body is your business.
And any hospital that cannot communicate that clearly…
Has no business treating you.
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Send it to those old school healthcare providers who behave like answering questions is beneath them.
Send it to anyone who still carries that archaic mindset of “Don’t ask me anything, I know what I’m doing.”
I am De Wesley's
Let them read it.
Let them learn.
Let them adjust.
Because good healthcare is not just about skill…. it’s about communication, respect, and transparency.
Your life is too precious to be managed by people who think they’ve arrived and no longer need to explain anything.
