14/09/2026
"Me and this guy dated for eight months. He’s not based in Nigeria; he’s based in Germany. We met online, on Instagram.
He slid into my DM, we started talking, and we always talked like 24/7. The relationship was smooth.
And because, as at then, I was lonely. My last relationship had ended. We got talking, and I liked his vibes.
He made me so comfortable to trust him. I felt so comfortable, and we started to do the do. I never knew everything was false from his end.
Yesterday, I went out to my friend’s party, so I won’t die of depression. A friend of mine had a party, and I went. He called me on video call and said, “So you don’t have money to pay me, but you’re partying?”
The money I was supposed to use to buy a car, I paid him ₦7 million, only for him to start asking for another ₦12 million since Thursday.
I have been hustling since when I was in 200 level, selling hair. I have been gathering this money to buy my car. I gathered about ₦19 million.
Inside it, I paid this guy ₦7 million. I had to also a pay a hacker to hack his location, and I found out that every detail he gave me was fake.
He has threatened to share them online if I don’t pay him the ₦12 million. I never knew this thing could happen to me. I was just in love..."
- Lady breaks down in tears after allegedly being blackmailed by Germany-based Nigerian man she dated, warns against trusting online lovers
