23/11/2023
Nobody wants to hear it but,
If you truly want to be faithful, You will have to cut off from a lot of people and activities.
Major social activities will be with your partner in hand, Your close friends and family members.
All this - I love my partner but I’m catching feelings for a toaster - wouldn’t have been possible if you had respected your relationship enough and stayed off.
You cannot be in a promising relationship and still encourage admirers. You must manually stop yourself from drawing too close.
Because there are admirers out there, all the want is your attention, the moment you give it to them, they will break through your defenses.
So stop gambling. Cut off. You know what these men/women want from you stop pretending and do the needful.
No more visiting random guys or inviting girls over for what exactly? No more besties with the opposite gender.
Being faithful requires your full attention in body and mind.
You cannot live all freely and seductive with people you are not dating and still claim to be faithful. Are you okay?
The first stage of cheating is mental, s*x is only a manifestation of what has already happened in your head.
If you truly want to be faithful,
You must be rude to some, a snub others and boring to many because you know what comes next and you are not interested.
